Workaholism is not treated?

First, you even liked that your husband is so engaged in their work. What could be better responsible "breadwinner"? But with temporary you started to notice that your favorite is not just a workaholic who loves his job - he lives there, and time for you and especially for your relationship, it simply doesn't exist.



Workaholic or not?


The main question that is ripe for many "and my workaholic or not? ". To answer this question is not so difficult, there are a few basic parameters of workaholism:




- come home, it is very difficult to switch to domestic Affairs, he continues to talk and think about the work to do it is to "take work home"




- home and family know him as a gloomy person, but colleagues say about him as energetic and emotional personality, the rest didn't make him happy and discharge




self - sufficient and confident he feels only at work or thinking about it


in the evenings there is often a lack of sexual desire - it tells you he is tired, but tomorrow exactly ... But you know that tomorrow the same




if his workload is reduced, there is no reasonable dissatisfaction and irritability all except work - nonsense and pampering




its 12! hour day and working weekends," he justifies the need for career growth, earnings and the importance of their craft




- due to work overload, began to deteriorate relations with relatives





All's well that in moderation


No wonder the word "workaholism" is consonant with other word less pleasant nature. Work is good, but we need to know when to draw a clear line where the work is, and where personal space and it is the most personal space to fill. But before you start to fight and understand exactly what makes a loved one to work from dawn to dusk.




For the first type of men work - a way to escape from the problems of other people and even you. It is a serious reason to postpone chores and palanichamy".




The second type of work is necessary as air. It is important though to do something. So he does something with you.




The third type can be called "Figaro here, Figaro there." This "Mr. ambitious" do not stop at nothing - even if you fall on her knees before him with tears in her eyes.





What to do?


Of course, if you already can't go, but if "love, can't - do nothing: be patient.




Will put up with their lot and be tolerant.




Periodically casually remind loved about their importance and that he was incredibly lucky that in this world if someone suffers.




Parents of children - they will help you get rid of boredom.




In this case, the woman has several options:




But before, something to do, consider yourself one question: will you meet, and later to live with a man who has the soul of a penny? Replied. Now think about that - maybe it's all about what he is trying to earn money to meet all your ambitions. Because you wrote that such an all glazes girl. And on the maintenance of this image, need money, which I think you can guess from the air are not taken.

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Women's Magazine

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