The art of making compliments

A compliment is a "weapon" with which you can make from a man of his ally. Make a compliment standing next to a man, and you will be surprised how much will change his attitude towards you.



The basics of "compliment"


Compliment - it's not just empty words, but accurate "note" regarding the merits of the interlocutor. The main thing in compliment not go to flattery, which is not only at least give the person the inconvenience, and the maximum it will take you a sneak peek.




Look at the person and note that you really liked. In this note, it is possible that something has changed in him since yesterday a new hairstyle, beautiful manicure, unusual accessories. It is better to do "specific" compliments than to just say "you look good today" - this phrase sounds a bit rate and you can tell anyone and everyone subconsciously wants to be different - so think before you speak.




Hidden compliments




This type of compliments can be used in any quantity. For example, when you worked together, and the credit total: "What we are fine! How clever we are! ". Using such a compliment you and a praise and a person to make nice.




Also hidden are the compliments with humor. For example, you can say: "I am shocked, how could you do that! How could you so good get the job done! ".




The main thing is that still in the compliment had been invested at least some emotions, otherwise get the impression that for you to bestow compliments man - a simple matter. Let the interviewee thinks that you really admire his virtues.




Compliments help




Believe me, compliments are capable of many things, for example, thanks to them, you can easily settle any conflict. Suppose you are reading boss. Do not rush to interrupt her and prove his innocence. Quietly listen to her, and then quietly say, "You are such a beautiful woman, and the things you say." After these words, the man will become snishoditelnoje and then in a soft form to explain who is right and who is wrong.





Back to basics


The main thing to remember, whatever compliment you did: open, hidden, or to resolve the conflict, you need to do is sincere and with correct intonation. Believe me, when you learn to look at people positive aspects to compliment you and begin to look at the world positively, and you will live a little easier.

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Women's Magazine

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