Signs of neurotic love

We all strive for good relations and mutual understanding with your partner. But some of us almost fixated on accommodation cinematic stories.


There are several signs, unmistakably outstanding in love with the man of neurotic, which, by definition, not capable of normal relationships and lives from one tragedy to another:




First, the characteristics of genuine love, the search for the perfect partner, which is, in the opinion of the imaginary lover, the secret of happiness. It pinned all hopes or collapse all charges, if something is wrong.




The second sign of a fake love - the inability to take responsibility for their lives and for the development of the relations themselves. Lack of understanding - he is guilty, unable to experience orgasm - again, not adjusted life - his parents, bored - he does not know how to entertain, not enough money earns very little, fades out the thrills - little gifts and courtesies. And all in the same spirit. A long list of unmet expectations is growing every day. Here...




The third characteristic is the increased rigor, continuous measurement of quality, quantity and timeliness of love manifestations. Love is always enough. And it seems some are not quite the same as in the books they write. Hence the eternal pangs, validation, comparison, tests of strength and loyalty.




The fourth sign is too painful reaction to any problems. If you he criticized the means, not love; not agreed with you, therefore, does not respect; not called - of course, ignores; forgot to congratulate wants to hurt you; do not thank - you he is not appreciated. And so ad infinitum. Neurotic here are some global conclusions from even the most insignificant moments of existence. To please him is almost impossible. He just, even casually spoken words and fleeting glance can bring terrible testimony of his rejection and nedolyublennoy and make death sentence of love itself.




- The fifth sign of fake feelings hang in the past and excitement for the future. Neurotics do not know how to live in the present and to rejoice in the good that it has. They tend to worry about the past or about what has not happened yet. They like to grind up old grievances, error and conflict, stash them in a large forged trunk of his memory, so at one point to put in the argument of separation. Before you go searching for a new victim for his great feelings, they will not forget to pour on the heads of unsuspecting loved the whole tank of all this negativity.

Source:

Ok-health

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