It is not customary to speak frankly. However this does not prevent 95% of the adult population of the Earth from time to time to do it. It is believed that this "hobby" for men. However, 50% of women who have loved, too, do not neglect it. And no wonder, because Masturbation is one of those cases where everything is in our hands. Literally.
Yes, we are talking about Masturbation (from the Latin manus "hand" + sturprare "to defile") is an artificial, unisexualis the satisfaction of sexual desire, as tactfully decided to call in dictionaries. We, the children of the sexual revolution, relaxed and at ease talking about what was once called "sexual perversion".
On the past and present, about the statistics and consequences, about the difference between women's and men's pleasure, on the facts and conjectures we now discuss. Now, ten facts and speculations about Masturbation.
The first fact. Today, the fact that Masturbation is a form of normal sexual behavior, was recognized. However, it was not always so. Less than a hundred years ago it was considered a sexual perversion "diagnosis, mental disorders requiring treatment, and in the XVIII-XIX centuries Masturbation attributed terrible consequences: the mortification of bones, rabies and inflammation of the uterus, the allocation of blue slime, paralysis, sudden death, etc. I do not know how and who denied this warning, but the fact remains: once people realized that there is no harm in love. On the contrary found in this "hobby" several significant advantages.
The second fact.
Yes, stradania medieval Church and "medicine" is not so frightening modern supporters of sex alone, which is called the mass of the advantages of his "hobby". First, from their point of view, Masturbation saves a lot of time: myself don't need to agree, to flirt, to protect themselves and be tested for any diseases... No need to seduce - your organs won't be offended if you don't tell them no gentle word. There is no need to do a pedicure, Brazilian waxing or buy individual protection means and socks. Second, the ensuing same reason - to save money. And finally, preferring Masturbation, you save a lot of nerve cells. All for the same reasons.
The third fact.
Health benefits of Masturbation confirmed for a long time: the satisfaction helps get rid of depression, improves memory, normalizes the activity of the cardiovascular system. And urologists say that Masturbation is an effective means of prevention of prostatitis. And that's not all! In the blood of people who regularly engaged in any kind of sex (this includes Masturbation, too), contains 30% more antibody - therefore, they are less likely to suffer from infectious diseases. Masturbation improves sleep and dreams after the act of self-satisfaction even more enjoyable. Beauticians advertise all kinds of sex as the best way to improve skin tone and color, its overall condition. Sounds convincing.
The fact the fourth. Masturbation improves the sense of smell. Within a few minutes following the completion of the process of self-satisfaction, one is able to see 30% more nuances of smell than before.
In fact, the sense of smell improved as a result of any form of sex, or more precisely after any orgasm. Sudden release of the hormone, which is responsible for the formation of new neurons in the olfactory center. Why after Masturbation this property is more intense than usual after the sex is unknown. Yes perhaps it is not so important.
The fact of the fifth. Masturbation is not a substitute for conventional sex with a partner. And Vice versa: many of those who lead active sexual life, still sometimes do it alone. Moreover, men who resort to self-satisfaction if you have a permanent partner, much more than women. The sex ratio in these statistics is 85% and 50%, respectively. The reasons are different: sexual nedogovorennosti (with the prefix "fake"), various forms of frigidity, the desire to make in your sex life diversity and so on and so forth.
However, according to statistics and public opinion turns out that men need sex more than women? This statement is highly controversial.
The fact of the sixth. The pleasure that women get when satisfaction is not so much physical stimulation as emotional (still have more developed left hemisphere). We often fantasize during this lesson and often use a variety of "toys".
And again, regarding the differences between love M to itself and W to his beloved... it is No secret that many women over the years lead active sexual life, but never have an orgasm. This tragedy only emphasizes that they need to be in contact with your body.
The fact of the seventh. Some people prefer the gratification of other forms of sexual behavior and, accepting it as the only way to get enjoyment out of other options at all. And the number of such "ascetics" today is growing steadily. This fact worried about sexologists and psychologists, who believe that "love of self" (note: ONLY to itself) is not so useful. People are slowly beginning to be given to contacts with other real people less time to lose the skill of effective communication, self-isolated from society.
The fact of the eighth. Special shop "for adults" is a storehouse of goods for the satisfaction. However, most men prefer to use their left or right helper (and alternately both). But women have a tendency to diversity in the means of gratification.
There are differences in the perception and thinking of the two sexes. Women are more emotional and impulsive men, but because the list that at least once in their life uses the woman, the size of the encyclopaedic dictionary.
The fact of the ninth. Medicine does not offer any of the standards and criteria of redundancy in this intimate affair. Once a month, or a week, every day or twice a day - all of these can be considered the norm.
Deviation from the norm can be considered only in those cases when a person is experiencing a manic desire to do it on the people, and against their consent (if you are with loved ones for variety, replace the love together on s alone and the other when the other is not scary). If the "hobby" of a person violates the rights and desires (the desire to watch such an intimate process other, it automatically goes into the category of perversion. And requires the intervention of specialists in the part of the human souls and psyche.
So, if you are not among those 85 or 50 percent (depending on your gender) and satisfaction was not engaged at any time in life, know this: you are completely normal. Even if you never thought about it - nothing. Still, each person has his own principles, vices and addictions. And, secondly, it is never too late to try...
But to try or not - it is, as they say, personal. Intimate! We only shared information, statistics and speculation... you Decide.
Author:
Ksenia Oganova
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