Why, you ask?.. Imagine that you come to work in the usual mini-skirt and, as usual, smiling invitingly. What happens next?
Men smile at you in response, say compliments, I invite you for a Cup of coffee... what to tell you, you already know it all by itself.
Have you ever wondered what the atmosphere of sexuality affects employees depressing and gives them heightened concern? You may certainly not consider your flirting as sexual burden for men.
But if this person is your boss or, on the contrary, working under your direction? Show him clearly of interest can cause a feeling of internal obligations to you, which will inevitably be perceived as a strong psychological pressure and attempted manipulation.
To prevent that in no event it is impossible. People should be absolutely free from sexual harassment by employees.
Consider a situation, if the sexual activity is exhibited by you. What this may have consequences? If a man will interpret this as an attempt to manipulate, then you immediately need to think about the job - you have no one, as an employee, will not be taken seriously.
In addition, men are very inventive in relation to those who in any way tries to put pressure on them. Besides, do you think it's easy, non-committal flirting, and the man perceives otherwise.
Most men perceive smiles and kind words as an invitation to sex. And they may be very surprised to learn that you "didn't mean anything".
Now let's see what happens if your flirting provoked sexual harassment of employees. You know what the situation is, ultimately, may be formed in such a way that to say no you will not no way.
Harassment often occurs due to the fact that the woman demonstrates their sexuality in the workplace.
Think about it and never allow yourself to flirt in working time.
Now, if the person works in the same building, but in the Department or unit belonging to another institution, then it is another matter. In such circumstances, neither you nor he will have no reason to feel your inner dependence given increased attention. Here already flirting does not affect the operation.
If you makes a date with one of your employees, think carefully before you give him your answer, because the possibility of such scenarios that you are not satisfied, but to think about them just didn't come into your head.
For example:
If you really are in a close relationship, will this in any way to perform them or you duties?
What does it mean to you today?
Is it hard for you to leave and find something new in case, if the relationship with the partner will end with a complete rupture and unbearable on a daily basis to see each other?
How painful for you would be the possibility that after the first date the man is not going to make a new appointment with you?
•How will you respond if everyone in the team will learn about established between you? As under favorable development of your relationship and unseemly?
Will you be able to withstand skeptical smile colleagues, if your partner will be quite talkative and everything will discuss the details of your novel?
You need to consider the possibility of failed developments and responsibility for the outcome to take. And, in addition, while you are young, beautiful and charming, so many wonderful places to flirt without fear of consequences! For example, harassment...
Harassment
(sexual harassment) are actions that are carried out without your prior consent:
- sexual harassment in any implicit or explicit;
- requests for sexual favors;
- other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual properties.
Many victims simply do not dare to apply for abuse, and not something to make a statement about "sexual assault" on the part of the boss or colleagues.
The main types of sexual harassment:
- Insults. Expressing opinions and expressions, discriminatory or insulting the other person's sex in any form. For example, "all women are the same" or "they got one thing on his mind, offensive graffiti, inappropriate jokes about sex.
- Invitations. Unwelcome invitations to joint actions that could be interpreted as sexual or related to sex. Example: an invitation to Breakfast, dinner, lunch, phone calls, and other contacts who are not related to work.
- Promises. Proposals for action related to sex, if they are complemented by the promise of any form of remuneration (explicit or hidden). For example, the chef invites you to Hawaii, promising in case of acceptance, much to raise wages.
- Coercion. Under the threat of punishment and coercion to any action related to sex. For example, the boss asks to wear to work over short/long skirt, hinting at dismissal in the event of a failure.
A touch. Any form of touching the physical body of a person of either sex. Examples: involuntary thrust to lift, transport; stroke (including himself) in the presence of other persons.
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