Because after pouring some no, but all the same Foundation, begin to lay out the bricks, for a full understanding of hopelessness buildings, let's pick it to pieces.
Sexual side brick
Why the first brick is sex? No, absolutely not necessarily all relationships revolve under the bagpipe cravings. But believe me, this will support me every architect, if the design of the relationship there is a crack in the brick, the house is falling apart rapidly and props-psychiatrists not to strengthen. Yes, in this emergency the building is still quite possible to dwell, and very many do, but since this hut may not be comfortable refuge, roommates looking for a sexy suburban area "on the side". And away we go...
Women agree to have sex with men in the name of love.
Men agree on the love of women in the name of sex.
I agree that this is an exaggerated description. But priorities and approaches subconsciously is exactly that, although we often don't give ourselves in this report. There are not taken into account when the sex is perceived as a sport. This sex has no relationship to relationship, how would tautologie it may sound.
Brick confidence
Sounds very corny, but trust is really building relationships. It is definitely one of the fundamental elements of vzaimoseistviya sexes, and not just romantic relationships, but human at all. Many houses are built initially with defective bricks trust. At first, the position of the save multifunctional putty-excuses, but over time, the method loses its effectiveness because the material from which they are composed, very similar to the suction shifting swamp mix.
The danger is that if confidence was shaken, it is very difficult to recover, almost impossible. And cheating with every sly maneuver, quagmire sucks in a zone of higher lezlove more and deeper, until the moment when all will be revealed, and the chain reaction falsehood binds the mind to the constant voltage. On the bends continuous voltage relationship will not survive. On the suspicions even more. These relationships, of course, often, but we're talking about full and I am not afraid of this word - perfect relationship, bringing participants a true pleasure vzaimodeistviyam with each other.
Women I know myself too well to trust others.
Men know that you can believe only half of what the woman says. But don't know which half.
Basically people can't trust each other completely, because too often stekelis with deceit and error steps. And trust, as they say, is built on trust.
Brick betrayal and intrigue
If the couple man and woman are not even guilty of cheating, always live in doubt that the partner did not succumb to this temptation. Especially living in such an encouraging environment in which where not every where you look, everywhere scurrying stereotypes and temptations. Sometimes by hard to resist. As you can see, this brick is based on the previous two, which are not organic. Of course, flawed basis will parasitize any objectionable elements.
Women I think that if the eye does not see, the heart does not hurt. But, yielding to the temptation, and itchy tongue to repent and to ease his conscience.
Men sure, that treason is a normal pastime for men. Do it without remorse.
Men in this segment are definitely more advantageous position. If they decide to act, then at least do not suffer then, and have no regrets. And they rarely comes to mind is brilliantly stupid idea to talk about his favorite pranks in order to ease their plight, but at the same time to destroy the relationship. If we decide to act, take responsibility for it and at least liberate the world from their regrets and repentance.
Family brick wall
Relationships are not always involve the creation of a family, but the family always involves relationships. And even if the family plans and no, the approach to marital cohabitation is an important element of any similar form of the relationship. Strong family wall is built from all of the above bricks + mutual support, patience, compromise, limited space, children (accidentally or on request), the ability to forgive and to close my eyes, everyday life. The last is a very routine sounds and often scares away a couple of from the threshold of the registry office.
Women I think that the ideal development of relationships with men have a marriage with him.
Men sure, that marriage is a useless thing, but to please the woman agree to it, in consequence of which regret a moment of weakness.
Relations, in advance based on a different vision of the floors of their evolution and apogee have significant crack. Understanding in such a delicate matter to achieve difficult on the basis of historical svobodoljubivost men and their fear of ringing.
And the roof of the house
Not so bad, really, as it sounds. After lapping and battles - this is also an important component of the relationship. Though they are not always built on mutual understanding, but make life more active and dynamic, do not allow zaberemenit feelings and to kindle the fire of passion with another peal of thunder scandal. Relationship is the path to understanding. It is not simple, but the process itself is fascinating. Happy journey!
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Smoothie.Roux
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