Confusing tangle of emotions
Woman wants romance. Woman wants love. The woman wants to hop on the first flight and fly to Goa. And while the woman "wanted", the man grabs his head and doesn't know where to start and in the end, the man does nothing, and the woman is angry and believes that the feeling's gone. What is the problem? Maybe we should still voice their wishes? Possibly, but I wish he guessed everything himself.
History, of course, know the cases, when men knew themselves, but in this case the woman is still something missing. She again comes to the conclusion that if you want to do something well, do it yourself.
What do you need in life?
What woman is not enough in life? Over the answer to this question men suffer constantly. But not as bad as you paint. Woman wants to rise and the idealization of reality, the spirit of struggle and fulfillment of dreams. From here the conclusion near the modern woman worthy to be the only inspired, beautiful and important man, it was such she can forgive almost everything.
Approach a delicate matter
Although Prince on white horse has not been canceled, on our way they come across pretty rare. But they still happen, and, most importantly, to each his own. But whatever he was, as a woman, by its nature, the creation of a "fragile", and the approach to it should be thin, delicate. Uncouth mogilany no longer attract the woman learned to appreciate the good qualities in men.
Women's desires and men's fears
And so it turns out that the woman wants one, and a man afraid to give it to them.
Woman want to communicate. The representatives of the beautiful half of humanity want to speak and hear the answers to their questions, instead she stumbles upon the back of the men, whom nicer to spend time at the computer or with friends. What's the matter? The man is afraid that by doing so you worksites in his personal space.
From the first fear comes second.
Men are scared to open before loved ones and show themselves as what they are. Perhaps this is due to social stereotypes regarding peculiarities of education of the boys. Indeed, the fathers tell their sons that they would not show her feelings of others, were strong and responsible!
As a consequence the third fear -
men are afraid of becoming "henpecked husbands". But this woman didn't need, she just wants to be closer to her. So, if she is late for work, made her a Cup of coffee. And if you are very tired, he cooked dinner. In the end, we are all people, and the woman deserves a weekend, care and attention.
Interests. This point is particularly important in a relationship. The woman always strive to be closer to the man: teaches the names of all players, difficult remembers the names of programs, go to the militants. But men in response, what you are doing. How many of them know the name of best brands, can advise what dress will hide all the flaws figures, will cry when watching "Titanic"?
Work
is it very interesting theme in the relationship. The fact that the man can be late and be tired because he earns money for the family. But a woman cannot, why? Answer think of themselves.
In General, dear men, in time to correct some of your personality and add at least another facet to your "filigree versatility"! This will help you in any dealings, because we are all more inclined to the last to defend their opinion and their principles than to listen to another, and even loved one... If the priorities we still choose family or relationship, then "we will always be ready" to do something good for its second half!
Source:
Women's Magazine
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