The interrogation. How to answer too personal questions?

George Bernard Shaw wrote that "most people are interested in things that are totally not true". And he was right.


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Frame comfortable for us to communicate, we may identify themselves. Someone the question "what are your hours" will not confuse, and someone will seem the height of bestestest! One lady with curvaceous on questions where it is possible to buy clothes, call address and stores, and the other will be offended.




Refusing to even respond to personal questions, you'll deprive yourself of the joy of communion and pass unsociable. It is better to remain open, but within certain limits. Can you name the colleague the price of her dress, but on the issue of salary say that the information is confidential. In response to the words of your friends about your obsessive mother-in-law tell a couple of funny stories. But thwarting attempts to see how you get along with this lady: "I am her actions don't hurt".




Change the theme




With the emergence of ethical situations try not to be rude, and steer the conversation in a neutral way. The neighbor, having met you in line to the gynecologist, spescial hands: what a terrible disease brought you here? Calmly answer, that just came to consult or routine inspection. After that it is possible to smoothly switch on topics about women's health, the level of service in this clinic or weather





Find the cause


Sometimes too many questions asked by family and friends, and just to change the subject happens to be very difficult. Mother after another party with a sigh: "no one met? When did you get married? " This is not an idle interest: Mama wants you calmed! Convince her that you're happy. A typical situation: a friend every day are interested in the progress of your novel. Ask a counter-question: "why do you ask? " Can a friend about the problems with his own friend and she just doesn't know how to get your attention.





Down with emotions


Among the curious, there are different types. The majority makes no attempt to hurt you. But there are harmful individuals who enjoy deliberately touching problematic topics.




In any case, the most sensible thing is not to take to heart "slippery" questions and get away!

Source:

Woman Zone

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