This monstrous experiment was held by the Holy Roman Emperor Frederick II. What killed the children? It turned out that they literally did not survive the lack of affection.
Destiny Neoplatonic adults not so tragic. But also, as it turns out, the unenviable...
They are not taught tenderness
From lack of oxygen a person begins to choke, and in the lack of foreplay is getting sick. He becomes nervous and irritable, he happen serious mental breakdowns, and often it becomes the cause of diseases of the stomach and heart, as well as insomnia and immune impairment. Moreover, nicolasconnault is one of the causes of prostitution. But psychological - not for profit, but to satisfy the hunger to touch.
- There is another danger, " said the expert of the Russian Federal center of sexology and sexual pathology Irina Botnia. - It is related to the fact that the ability to perceive a gentle touch really is laid in early childhood.
There is a strong likelihood that adolescencia to 6 years old girls then becomes frigid women. Just can't get the pleasure of touching. Because they did not develop the appropriate zone. It is not surprising that frigid now a lot. Fall even those who can not stand when petting them. Simply shakes from sex. They grew out girls too soon given in the manger.
Massage for life
It is proved that the weasel is one of the biological needs of the organism. And from a scientific point of view - a kind of massage. Gentle, of course.
- Leather, - noted back in 1958, American anthropologist Ashley Montagu, is the largest and after brain, perhaps, the most important organ of the body.
Stroking and pressing down on the skin cause changes at the biochemical level. Impulses from cutaneous receptors come in the cerebral cortex. Then in the hypothalamus. It stimulates the production of specific hormones: prolactin, overwhelming aggression, and endorphins - natural drug.
The important thing here is the correct frequency of strokes: the best recognized 40 movements per minute. (In the experiment with a stopwatch with a colleague, we stroked each other with such speed. Confirmed: it was good. - Ed.)
You won't believe, but healthy adults after a session of mutual caresses much better at maths. However, to test this, we were too busy. But we believe scientists who proved it experimentally.
Take the example of monkeys
In the Moscow zoo the monkey nursery you can see the tender stage. The little monkey is a male, not paying any attention to the noisy audience, busily rummaging through the wool of his girlfriend, occasionally something trying on the tooth, gently bites, hugs and even dragging her behind the ears. "Tortured" at this time covers his eyes from the pleasure, as if sitting in a dirty cage and the Canary Islands in the cozy nest of palm leaves.
Numerous tests have shown that those animals that receive regular "doses" of caresses, mentally stronger, braver and kinder. Less likely to get sick. And adolescencia become cruel, suspicious and cowardly. People are not much different from them.
Recently it was found that affection - especially the arms - stimulate the production of another hormone, may be the most important of oxytocin. Elixir of trust, as it was called. Without this hormone, and sex is not a pleasure. It was he, as it turned out, enhances mutual attraction and displays on the direct road to orgasm. Moreover, persisting in the blood for a long time - 23 hours, makes you want to fall asleep in the arms, for them to Wake up, and then continue. Oxytocin binds people to each other. Sometimes for the whole life. And if you don't cuddle-cuddle? No chemical basis of love will remain.
And then another and skin diseases
Most affected are those whose partners work from morning till evening. Or just inattentive. In terms of strokes and kisses. Sometimes, at some crisis point, the husband or wife breaks out the need for affection. But she stumbles upon the callousness and indifference.
Another busy husband begins to overwhelm her with gifts. But they do not compensate for the lack of tactile sensations. Wife, to the surprise of her husband, is not happier. And caring. On the contrary, angry and can become unmanageable.
Such disadvantaged women - why do I hide, and some men often get sick and suffer even colds. And because of the inability to Express their feelings through touch often resort to aggression. The therapists there is even a special diagnosis: "acute lack of affection".
To husbands and wives were healthy and mentally balanced, you need to constantly satisfy their need for neginoth, - says Irina. - Find it. If you want to keep the family together.
And it happens that acute longing for affection breaks literally outside. According to the American anthropologist of Grodek, eczema is "cry deprived of the affection of the body." Wounded skin seems to say: "Pay attention to me, look how I suffer! Feel me! "
Just in case look your partner - if he has spots on his body...
10 kisses a day can save you from impotence
Where a kiss neither apply - all will be useful. Probably because in the process again involved skin. And stimulates the appropriate hormonal response. It was discovered Wendy hill, Professor of psychology, Lafayette College (Pennsylvania, USA). Spotted a miraculous surge of oxytocin. And falling levels of cortisol, a stress hormone.
However, in adolescents reaction much more interesting. If you believe the scientists, from the kissing begins puberty. And without them catastrophically delayed. That can adversely affect all further sexual life.
The study, conducted by Professor Tony Plante of Pittsburgh University (USA), showed that the brain gives the command to sexual maturity only after his Department - the hypothalamus - get a particular protein. And the protein appears when starting to work a certain gene kiss-1 ("kiss-1"). He received this name, because it is included in full force solely from the kiss.
Conclusion: adolescents must kiss (even in the hallways), in order not to stay in underdeveloped. But adults are not a reason to keep up with the youth. The plant has reason to believe that the gene kiss-1 does not disappear in the Mature organism, and continues to operate. And stimulates the production of sex hormones responsible for sexual joy. And the kiss is the "button", which, figuratively speaking, includes a gene. So strengthen libido and potency kisses. According to statistics, couples, kissing more than 10 times a day, on average, extend the period of active sex life for about 5 years.
Anyway it's nice, isn't it?
Source:
Komsomolskaya Pravda
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