Those times when humanity knew one way sex games connection in the marriage dance, one man and one woman, is gone. In the pursuit of pleasure and the knowledge of ourselves people invented a lot of options for sexual games. Swing, gang-Bang, group sex you anything to say these names? Most likely Yes, because according to scientists, most of us, residents of the 20 - 21st century tried something besides the traditional sex. It is not about toys or role playing games, and about sex with other people. Not with your spouse, with a person of the same sex or multiple people at the same time.Most "family" of games - swing
It is believed that classic swing is the exchange between existing partners, mostly families, couples. Supporters exactly swing, and not group sex by people with extensive experience of family life. They love their partner, and have only one goal - a variety of intimate life. Typically, in a classic swing the people finding a suitable pair of support with her long-term relationship: go to relax, meet families, talk out of bed, and after a while the friendship is in their relationship place, equivalent to sex.
There is an outdoor swing when couples have sex in each other's eyes and closed when the pair meet and diverge from room to room, or go to different apartments.
Swingers looking for each other through ads, and sometimes passing turnout and passwords from hands - after all, finding a suitable spouse and a couple not so easy. There are Swinger clubs and in reality is a place where you can come and meet new people. In some of them you can have sex "on the spot". But, probably, be attributed a similar institution to a real swing clubs several illegal. Rather, their visitors are in the category of Amateur group sex.
With the development of the movement Swingers have produced acceptable behavior strategies and even the rules of the global "Never try to destroy marriage" to a particular "Always assume the first meeting of the study, however, be ready to swing if it would be acceptable, or an honest answer, if you did not come".
Swing is perhaps the only form of sexual games, received a philosophical platform and promoting the preservation of marriage by all means. And these are not empty words - experienced Swingers know how dangerous for family life couples who swing, inattention to the partner, assertiveness convinced to try or underestimation of his jealousy.
And before you indulge in euphoria and rush to the expanses of friendly sex is good to think about and remember the next swing postulate: "your spouse - your spouse, and your new friends are just friends games, and nothing more. Once you have decided to build your life and live it together with your spouse. Your friends want you to have fun and have fun with them. You should never attempt to drive a wedge between your friends, and should never allow your friends to come between you and your spouse".
Well, people who love the band in all its manifestations, are a group of adherents of group sex. Some embody in reality one of the most common male fantasies:
Sex one male with two (or more) girls
Well, with men everything is clear - pure pleasure and no problems, except the need to protect themselves, but for the women who dared to experiment, there are some nuances. One of them says:
"I always knew I was at least loyal to the women, as well as to many experiments. I love pleasure, her husband, and his girlfriend. So when she came one evening to visit us, it was so good and comfortable that I provoked her husband to us with her to seduce. And it was not a deliberate decision or a long drive and impulse. All were willing, and at first it seemed exciting game. But gradually personally, my excitement went away, and came up with jealousy. When my husband started to pay attention to her, and it seemed to me or even seemed that he was very attracted to her, and me as if not there, was not to sex. In the end I went into the bathroom and sat there until the end of the sex of my husband and my girlfriend. It was very bad, and perhaps this was the beginning of the end of our marriage. Maybe not so much, but the fact that her husband was really indifferent to my condition than you need for a loving person".
Of course, there are many opposite examples of such games. If a woman is confident in himself and his partner, the body of another woman in the immediate vicinity itself becomes a source of thrills, and many in this way discover bisexuality. "Invite a girl" - the most common and affordable way to try "something new". But, before you decide on this, assess the degree of trust in the partner and the level of self-confidence. To preserve the harmony of their family life.
That tells you the term "gang-Bang"?
It is a little known funny word, however, refers to the secret fantasy of many girls. Ganeg-Bang is sex one girl and any number of men. These strong body, many hands caressing all points, complete satisfaction and unrealistic poses... Probably many of us will be surprised that such fantasies are typical of many men. As these owners? These jealous? These macho and Othello? Yes. Moreover, many of them would like to see this girl your partner.
Not all attracted to the situation: "5 male and my wife, but to see his half tempted to outsiders plumber, for example, or to participate in "tango three of us" - this is the night fantasize not such a small number of representatives of the stronger sex. There are whole sites devoted to Dating, the materials on this topic. One of them eloquently called: "My wife is a whore." In the eyes is full of suggestions and passionate cries: "I Want my wife seduced any guy", "I Want to see how it... how it...", etc.
Alex, a born seducer and actor, decided to try a Threesome and gave an announcement on this website. He offered married couples to come to their house to fix a computer (computer wizard), and at the same time to seduce the wife of a "customer". Alex received a lot of feedback. Some men offered to seduce wives in his presence, others were invited to join, others wanted to help Jim to check the fidelity of his companion, the fourth was not going to inform couples about the double mission of Alex and the impending sex.
Vitaly, the representative of the clan men and supporter of such games, says: "Jealousy there. There is only the desire to see how the wife will be completely satisfied. We are talking about her pleasure. But me, even if it seems a perversion, images of his wife and one or two men, the most blatant and obscene, lead into a state of wild excitement".
So, men and women dreaming about the same. Idyll? Not always. Very often, spouses, driven by passion, ruin a relationship. Ex-wife Vitaly does not welcomed with enthusiasm husband: "I thought he was indifferently "gives" me a different way, a strange man. I loved Vitalik, and it seemed impossible to have sex with anyone. And months when he tried to convince me that this will only strengthen our relationship, I get depressed at the thought that he does not love me. How can a loving man to want to see this, and constantly? In the end it happened. I received minimal pleasure. After all the sex I used to devote a whole, and for this you need to have feelings for partner. But to experience something to the man from the network, passed perhaps a hundred beds. Rgms. We parted, and certainly not due to the fact Threesome. I know that there are couples who do this, and they are good. But we broke up because he was too pushy and selfish, he tortured me constant coaxing and not heard my arguments. I felt that he loves his desires than me.
Perhaps this story is an extreme option, but even sincerely loving men don't forget about the fact that women always have different attitude to sex. And in most cases bring in a sense.
I will add that there is a category of men who have sex just for their partners was good. They have no special desire it from this game, and the sex in this case is simply a continuation companionship, often the third is a family friend. A sort of swing together.
Three, five, alone or with being the same sex as you - in these samples, we are driven by the need for novelty and diversity, the desire to bring in family life peppercorn or, Vice versa, thus to save a marriage. Often, we are driven by the complexes and fears, sexual hunger or satiety.
But. For us - the ancient traditions, morals and certain rules of family and sexual behavior. And sex is inextricably linked with feelings and self-esteem, and any changes in this area will affect the whole life in General. This is not about promoting monogamy and monotony does. Life is given to including in order to enjoy it in all its forms. Just before you throw in the experiments is to evaluate and their courage, and their willingness to go far without damage to life and psyche, and the degree of confidence to yourself and to your partner. The main thing is not to have a lot, but to really well. All the participants.
Author:
The Pole So
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Jesscia passion
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