We fight every day, we fight even several times a day, there are even days when we spend all day just doing that fight. Why is this happening? It seems that we simply no longer understand each other. Just understand several things, and quarrels disappear forever...
It is important for me
I have My job, I have My family, My parents, My friends, My car, My computer, My personal life and much more. Pay attention to the words My, My, My - I don't accidentally wrote them with a capital letter. This means that I want to have something of their own, and not shared. I have noticed that you all are trying to do overall.
Now detail
My work. You love going to the cinema and restaurants, you love when I give you expensive gifts, you love to ride in my expensive car or taxi, you already forgot what when you have no money... But at the same time you're angry and jealous of me for my work... please Understand, will not work, will not be everything that you love so much. I know that you think you could live with me even in a tent, but believe me, it's not... Nothing kills love how everyday problems...
My family. I'm not a Mama's baby, I'm an adult and independent man, but oddly enough my family I still care. If it weren't for my parents, then at least I would have not been with you.
They gave me life, gave education, raised me, such as I am. They were beside me, when I first fell off the bike when I got the first two in the school, supported what they could, and they always welcome me when I would not come, I will always understand and be able to forgive that I did not...
My family will always remain for me the most expensive in the world. And no matter how much you tried to ruin my relationship, believe me, you have nothing and never will.
My friends. Yes, Yes, Yes! These boorish assholes and sexually puzzled maniacs - these are my friends. Why do you see them - that's your problem. For me, these are people with whom I have at least an hour to be able to spend itself. I can drink beer from the bottle and to discuss the most simple and understandable to anyone things - fishing, girls, cars. Please understand - I am twenty hours a day doing business. I get bored constantly talk about stocks, transactions, loans and leasing. I'm tired of listen to in the car Wagner and discuss the latest display of models from Armani or D&G. I so want to wear boots Dr.Martens, aggressive clothing, to include Ramstein at full volume and race race with friends on the highway.
My machine. I know how you hate it when I sometimes disappear with it for half a HUNDRED. I know you are angry that I first of all think about the new winter tires and new shock absorbers, and about your clothes remember, only when you say that all your 25 pairs of shoes cannot be worn, as they are from last season. Yes understand you, that all this is done only with you for our safety, so as to ride on the failed machine is also dangerous as swimming with crocodiles.
My computer. Yes! Sometimes he told me it happens a lot closer than you. He is silent, at any time, you can turn off. He understands me - he does everything I ask! Moreover, he feeds me - he is my workplace, and in return it requires a little attention.
And most importantly my personal life. Understand that I am very pleased to know that somewhere on this planet there are girls who want me with whom I can enjoy a coffee, a little flirt and get back to you in a good mood and happy person.
When you finally realize that everything I wrote, for me is really important, you and me will be much easier to find common ground and agree.
Understand, I can easily endure two hours of contact with your mother or with your friends, I may even put up with your pathological jealousy and the fact that you can spend on trinkets the amount at which a family of fifteen Chinese would have lived comfortably for a year, but never understand why you infringe on my freedom and that is so expensive for me...
Source:
Smoothie.Roux
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