Mouth-watering creation

Very few women will be able to answer the question: "What is the syndrome Scarlett O'hara? ". And at the same time, a lot of young persons, not related by ties of marriage and interested in the location of the stronger sex, this unhealthy phenomenon peculiar.


However, we will not be afraid - it is not about the disease, but rather about the fad. And the name of the syndrome is not a medical term, but rather the concept of everyday psychology, inspired by an episode from the novel by Margaret Mitchell "gone with the wind": the nurse heroine tried to convince her that the young lady who eats a lot, will never find a husband. With this narrow-minded judgement willing to accept even many of those who and the novel is not read. In an effort to make a winning impression at his choice, many women strongly demonstrate their temperance in eating. And as it turns out, are making a big mistake!




So at least believes canadian psychologist Patti Pliner from the University of Toronto. To such conclusion the researcher came, interviewing a lot of men about their erotic preferences. With great amazement doctor Pliner found: the majority of respondents stated that they are much more attractive and desirable person that appetite absorbs food than an equally beautiful woman eating salad.




The survey revealed another important detail - a good appetite-to-face only women with a good figure; when the eyes of men eats a lot full woman, her chances of success are drastically reduced in proportion to size.




In other words, it turns out that the so-called syndrome Scarlett is not just a meaningless fad, but detrimental. Although in scientific publications devoted to the opening of the canadian psychologist, is not the explanation of this phenomenon, to provide it is not very hard. Most men, looking for your companion is evaluated as potential candidates not only appearance but also psychological qualities. And of course, it is more desirable woman, optimistic, cheerful, able to enjoy. The one who all your behavior demonstrates ascetic self-restraint, makes a man unwittingly suspicious: what other restrictions and prohibitions to be expected from it? And is it only at the table she was so reticent? The last concern, by the way, is not unfounded: according to some, restriction of food, resulting in lower calorie a day diet to 1800 kcal or less, in most cases, leads to attenuation of libido. And what, tell me, partner will like it? Besides, most men intuitively ready to agree with the famous aphorism: "Fear of people, merciless to himself, - they and you will not regret it! "




So any potential bride is useful to remember: even if you are convinced of the need for themselves one way or another diet, it should not underlined to show your boyfriend. On the contrary, for a romantic dinner you can afford and some dietary indulgence. But of course, if you find your figure slim enough. If the obvious physical excesses are evident, modesty at the table you just decoration. However, if it came to a romantic dinner, it is likely that your Beau still finds your figure perfectly acceptable and even attractive. Not everybody likes legs-matches and sharp collarbone! But this is perhaps a topic for another conversation...

Author:

Stepanov S.


Source:

Our Psychology

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