Despite the educational activities of glossy magazines, the field of men's health and all that it touches, remains shrouded in mystery. First and foremost, for the men themselves.In preparation for writing the article, I conducted a survey among friends women on the subject of misconceptions about men's health and dignity. In response, had to listen to some long-lasting emotional monologues, alas, is not amenable to systematization. Therefore the following list is compiled mainly from the experiences of doctors and psychologists.
Myth # 1 Men indifferent to their own health
Probably because they rarely talk about it out loud and don't drink defiantly a handful of tablets in the workplace. However, this does not prove their lack of attention to itself. Just talking about football really is much more fun. In addition, misusing health complaints in male company, you can quickly lose credibility, to restore which will not be easy. Whining in the women's team is generally impractical. Much more effective with a frequency of, say, half a year, in the midst of the working day suddenly put his hand to his chest and brow-proud to put under the tongue tablet. The skillful execution of this trick you can count on time and attention to the female part of the team for several days. The fact careful attention to their health was confirmed recently by scientists. According to the Ukrainian site of the air force, the study Mintel's conducted in the UK showed that nearly 40 % of men are seriously concerned about their health, their family and friends.
If you are not convinced of the arguments of science, just pay attention to how suffer sudden affliction of your friends are men. Believe me, this proudly-tenderly-plaintive relationship is not rewarded even football.
Myth # 2 Male menopause
It is difficult to say who first invented this bike - pharmaceutical companies tend to treat a non-existent disease, or men, whose ability with age significantly poumenshilis. In any case, she was on hand to both. Fortunately, convincing scientific evidence for this fact is still there.
The so-called andropause (low level of sex hormones in the blood) is not identical to the female menopause. By the way, here we are faced with another misconception is that the level of sexuality in men is directly proportional to the level of testosterone in his blood.
In fact, andropause and andreadastoli - phenomenon among men not universal. And changes in the male sexual activity with achievement of Mature years is due, as a rule, other factors. Mostly this is due to the condition of the body: an elderly man takes a longer time to onset of erection, it is more dependent on weather and health. In addition, at one point speaks of cultivated have unhealthy lifestyle, first and foremost, Smoking and poor diet. And here is our next myth.
Myth # 3 Where there is a path through the stomach
No wonder joked domestic comedians that if the path to the heart is through the stomach, where it begins. From time immemorial is transmitted to all future generations a true sign if Ukrainian (Russian, Belarusian) eats little, then he or sick, or his character was bad, or he is not Ukrainian, and then does nobody knows what to expect from him.
This myth is so persistent that to this day brings a lot of inconvenience to the strong floor. For example, the ritual of seduction ladies, one way or another, goes through a restaurant or another hearty meal. And as it comes to Dating, it turns out that the man was already fed up fully in bed and wants only to sleep. It is unlikely for you the secret that systematic and large-scale consumption of fatty foods, over time, dramatically reduces potency.
The same myth applies to family life: repeated surveys among men confirm that the ability of the wife to cook is the last in the list of female virtues, much behind the care, sensitivity, understanding, etc.
Myth # 4 Myths about prostate
This is truly a small reason for a lifetime of anxiety. Men tend to blame it on her and their problems with potency, sterility, and "everything hurts". Many of them spend half your life waiting for diagnosis "prostatitis", so that, God forbid, having received it, to decide that life is over.
In reality things are much more optimistic. First, diseases of the prostate and potency issues are related to each other vaguely, because the lion's share of the latter has all the same psychological roots. Secondly, men who have had prostatitis, are not, as many believe, the risk for cancer of the prostate and it is not necessarily becoming infertile.
Delusion is the belief that the prostatitis is incurable. However, more complicated treated its infectious form, but modern medicine can deal with it. And if you still have a chance to get sick, that in no case do not follow the advice 20-30 years ago that during the illness should refrain from sexual activity.
Sex has on the prostate much more positive impact than some chemicals, and is a natural and potent therapy. But abstinence, including during prolonged intercourse, it can cause the so-called "congestive prostatitis". Also, be careful with such sexual practices as massage of the prostate gland. This is a very delicate hormonal body, and rough handling can cause mechanical damage.
Despite the encouraging picture, you should be aware that the prostate has ceased to be a disease of retirees and covered almost all age strata of the male part of mankind, right up to teenagers. It should also be borne in mind that the prostate cannot be diagnosed with a single visit to a therapist. Besides, his symptoms are not immediately, but because men need periodic checkups.
Myth # 5 What is measured manhood?
If you knew, dear women, what number of men deprive themselves of the joy to be washed in cases where it is necessary to do this in a shared shower or bath. Many of them, what do you expect in the General toilets liberation booths, not to pee in the urinals. It seems that no arguments of men will not kick the habit whenever Shou know what. This topic is quite well known, so highlight the main points.
First, the penis in calm and erect two large and eye-defined difference. The fact that in normal conditions it is difficult to see in "combat conditions" may be just the same heavy artillery. And Vice versa.
Secondly, the criterion of "big-small" in relation to erect member is relative. Its length can range from 7 to 26 inches, and the average size is considered to be 16 inches. Actually, it's more important to normal sexual life, especially with a constant partner to the size of the penis corresponded to the size of the vagina (which, incidentally, is also not fixed).
Third, the small size has its own large and advantages: holders erection occurs faster, and is better than the fellow with great dignity.
Fourth, the legend, grown and carefully guarded second-class filmmakers and authors tabloid novels: the size of the penis of a white man is significantly lower than the sizes of penises representatives of the black race. While in a calm state last may be ahead of us, when excited with this difference disappears or becomes irrelevant.
And, finally, absolutely ancient legend that determine the size of the penis external characteristics, not hidden by clothing. If Asians preferred to judge this by the length of the big toe and the brush, the European Nations had estimated estimated dimensions, observing the length of the foot or the nose. And the Slavs used all these signs in the complex. However, despite the antiquity and persistence of the myth, no statistical evidence to back him up date there is no.
Myth # 6 Biblical sin, or Myths about Masturbation and abstinence
Those who have read the old Testament, could pay attention, that the sin of Onan, or even not at all what today mean by Masturbation. However, it is this character gave the name of male Masturbation, Berezivka the minds of the Orthodox churches, doctors, and other researchers of human nature over the centuries. The first who translated the onanism of the moral problems in the problem of health care, was a Swiss physician, C. Yee, who lived in the 18th century. His book devoted to this, as it seemed to him, the issue has generated a huge number of myths, partially survived to the present day (for example, that Masturbation leads to blindness). Under the influence of this treatise than one generation of young people in different parts of the civilized world has experienced a fairly severe punishment - whipping, and to the threat of castration.
Fortunately, those terrible times are in the past, and men can be relieved to confess to one another, and to me, they say, is not alien to the simple pleasures. It is no secret that the experience of Masturbation has about 96 % of men (and a smaller number of women). Finally, can you publicly say: it does not grow hair on the palms, not lost hearing and does not change sexual orientation.
Moreover, Masturbation has absolute positive aspects. First, it allows you to take a strong sexual tension in adolescents who are unable to have sex, and adult males, one way or another find themselves in such conditions. Secondly, it allows the person to learn specifics of your own body, to disclose sexuality and even used as exercises against premature ejaculation. In addition, Masturbation does not affect sexual potency of men and is a normal form of sexual activity at any age. It is perfectly normal can coexist with an active sex life, and even well its complement.
Masturbation should recognize harmful only when it is Intrusive and supersedes all other forms of sexual contact. Fortunately, this is rare.
But sexual abstinence such justification cannot be found. Studies show that it is detrimental to health (especially for women), and can lead to depression and aggression, especially in adolescence.
Myth # 7 "Normal" man in bed
This topic is not for one thesis. So many fantasies about "normal" man, that gave rise to a suffering female imagination, will not collect all of the above misconceptions together.
Well, if in your dreams still live these mythical sex heroes, will try to bring you to reality.
Let's start with the fact that men are, in principle, Trevone in bed than women. Their "breakdown" process is much more real than the female, for reasons purely physiological. In addition, make themselves felt, and the expectations of the partner, educated at the fabulous Hollywood movies in which the heroes are ready to have sex anytime, anywhere and without any protection. In real life the man is very dependent sex from women, and are deeply mistaken those ladies who believe that "normal man himself will do it." All men dream about women's initiative in sex, and sometimes without it and not do it.
And here's another fact that might surprise some women. Research sexologists suggest that virtually every man at least once in their life faked an orgasm under the influence of various circumstances - drunken, inept behavior of the partner, etc. So that this privilege has ceased to be female, and the male also develops the techniques of sexual deception. We should not give too much importance to the mere fact of sexual intercourse. If a man has sex with a woman, it does not mean that he wanted. The reason may simply be sexual tension, and not a passionate desire this particular person. In addition, do not forget that sex is a way of communication, a kind of "conversation", and it does not mean that you irresistibly sexy. Just a man translated your conversation in a slightly different plane.
One of the most offensive myths is the myth that if a man falls asleep immediately after sex, he shows thereby disrespect to the partner. In fact, sleep in this situation, the man expresses his gratitude and confidence. Believe me, casual relationships do not cause such a desire.
Such misunderstandings can lead to more than a dozen. But, in any case, dear ladies, remember - no matter what traditions you do not grow, no matter what the movies are watched, you are near a specific man of flesh and blood, with their weaknesses and shortcomings. It cannot, and should not correspond to an incredible number of qualities that it has given thousands of years of human imagination, even if some of them seem absolutely necessary. Take man as he is; believe me, it's the skill of the woman he values much more than her culinary talents.
The magazine "World family", December 2005
Author:
Ostrikov A.
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