"Well, why me?! " - I ask through tears of resentment and anger, found another missing wallet from her purse. And he was nearly empty, but it was mine! Besides, this is the second time this week!!! "Just "karma" some! "say familiar, I confess, and I think myself, why like myself more sympathetic.The next day, a little postiv decide to seriously question and to find out from reliable sources, why, really, I besides "again"? Because if the events will develop in this way and then you can expect and the third incident this week!
To answer this question, and at the same time to understand what are my chances to become or not to become a victim for the third time, I climb into the book with the beautiful name of "Victimology". Read: "Victimology is the study of a victim of the crimes occurred in the sixties at the intersection of different fields of human activity - judicial practice, social work, criminology, and psychology. The development of victimology is associated with increased public attention to the victim as a man unjustly undergoing material and moral damages, aggrieved in their rights".
It turns out that the role of chance in the collision of a particular person with a crime is great - especially when the mechanisms of legal protection in this society are not valid and widespread criminal activity. Then the potential victim's nothing "special" and should not be done, it can meet with the offender simply because people tend to violate the rule of law around a lot and they know that they will go unpunished.
On the one hand, this means that the victim has no ancestral curse, it is not a special "destiny", on the other hand is a crime can happen to anyone who lives in the state cannot secure its citizens. Perhaps, the better I shall be pleased: "the curse of the victim," no, but to the state we kinda got used to and learned to survive, relying on themselves and their loved ones. Given the weakness of social control over crime, we learned how to defend myself privately: camcorder, steel doors, gas cartridges. In order not to become a victim for the third time, I need, given the nature of the transport, to hide the purse deeper, further and more thoroughly. Yes, I was surprised! To put it mildly, not an unexpected response...
On the Loch and the beast runs!
The assertion that the people themselves are guilty of becoming victims of fraud, there is a great truth! I tried some of us to go into the jungle, for example, not being every moment on the lookout. A second later we would not. To limit the playfulness of the world, its diversity and the desire for profit is impossible. The world is conceived as a cunning and insatiable, and he has always been placed and will be pitfalls for those idealists that they do not want to accept this assertion.
And standing in a public place to be understanding, humanity, sentimentality, and a second later you already find that written in the game in which these emotions you manage, play and send the result in which you will certainly lose anything! In the modern world without a healthy cynicism and criticality will not do! Otherwise for us forever is assigned the role of the Loch! That is character, which can be easily manipulated and with the benefit of themselves to fit into their games.
Keeping in mind the factor of randomness and General "rampant crime", yet continue to search for the answer to the question about why some people are more likely to be victims of crime. Find the indication that there are still some characters that are particularly vulnerable to the possibility of meeting with the offender.
The first variant
"latency" (hidden) victim. The basis of its predisposition to becoming a victim, are such things as undue credulity, uncritical attitude to new friends, helplessness, often prone to superstition, and the pursuit of easy profit is a typical victim of fraud different scale. Indeed, such a person it is easy to imagine the Scam, with an open mouth and burning eyes torque drum... Like it's not me... But it was a vague recollection that it was in the first day of the theft I was coming back from work very tired, upset, and kind I was probably helpless. Understand that latent" the victim may attract its appearance is not only fraud, but also pickpocket.
The second type
provocative victim - aggressive, stubborn, arrogant, many violent crimes provoked by this type of victim: victim gives still a potential criminal "suitable" for the crimes of the state. Words, actions, victims amplify the emotions of the offender (anger, fear, shame, and criminal acts under the influence of these emotions, unable to stop. The victim emotionally inspiring offender. And this portrait is recognizable (of course, others) is, for example, the victim of a drunken hooligans - angry citizen may under some degree.
Regardless of which type we are closer, we can bring a criminal and that create the conditions that facilitate his crime, exposed themselves to unnecessary risk. Then the criminal who maybe haven't decided on a specific victim, and only went out "hunting", will certainly realize that we serve him right. For example, if we leave expensive items unlocked in the car, sign the financial documents without reading, without consulting with a lawyer, we thus organize risk situation, "inviting" to commit a crime. And frivolous behavior will make us very likely a victim even in a situation of legal protection in society.
If our behavior is detected by the above described features and we are not aware of their relation to the offences that may fall repeatedly into trouble (for example, as a hero P. Richard in the movie "Unlucky").
Vadim Demchog, actor, Director, writer, lead author show on radio:
I had to deal with fraud, and each time I received the incredible power of your impressions of this class artistic aristocracy. It is undisputed masters of their craft, sometimes reaching into the art of acting higher trims. In the hierarchy of professionals they are second after prostitutes (professional artists only on the fifth). Unlike prostitutes that manage to lie even at the level of deep emotions, creating the illusion of love, fraudsters are able to arouse in their victims, compassion, trust, openness, admiration, desire to serve, sacrifice. In this world has its Paganini and Baja, intuitive types and systematology, philosophers and experts... There are those who are involved with sports passion, who is experiencing his occupation as a vocation and even mission... Worlds and diagnoses of these characters require a very respectful attitude, and professionals in other areas these characters really even have much to learn.
Some victimology go even further and say that the victim and the offender is not the enemy, and partners, and the relationship between them is stronger, the more severe the crime. It turns out that they are not "on different sides of the barricades" and do not belong to different hostile worlds, as you might think. The potential perpetrator and the victim often members of the same circle of events, the same types of situations, or even members of the same social group, because, in order for a crime has occurred, the victim and the offender must meet. Of course, the degree of similarity of the victim and the offender varies depending on the type of crime: according to some sources, the similarity is expressed more serious crimes.
So, what do we have? On the one hand, characteristics of the victim cannot be the causes of crime, it is always the offender's actions. But on the other... Emotional teasing a potential criminal, carelessness, General social insecurity me as a citizen is first and foremost provokes my risks to be subjected to different kinds of crimes.
The search for the answer to my question ends with a slight disappointment... After all, if a good think about it, all of it is derived from simple common sense.
On second thought, I come to the conclusion that not everything is so easy in this victimology... of Course, all these words scientists seem obvious, but the problem is what is to be remembered, what should and should not do when we are just about ready to embark on a fraught crime situation. Victimology help us to generalize the mistakes of others and learn from them "not to lose consciousness" in difficult moments.
"Technology" theft is simple: it is based distraction of the victim from the perpetrator. Thieves are counting on the fact that the victim will act stereotyped, stereotypic, involuntarily: pushed - reacted to the one who pushes, although it should when you "poke" to pay attention first and foremost on the safety of their belongings. Often, in order to divert attention, pickpocket or his accomplice in the crowd deliberately pushes man prevent him from, say, transport. He either moves or starts to argue with "ham", meanwhile, is a victim of a thief, "the clash" hides his actions.
If you distracts something in the crowd - check things. To distract the victim can be very sophisticated, but their purpose is very simple to switch attention. It is all so perfectly clear: "caught" by one of our friends doesn't mean doglyadel. Time itself will not dogmatise, I think: to me this is all a coincidence, because there iniquity or "karma" play... still not accidentally on my one week twice pulled out a wallet, and "karma" it has nothing to do with it: blithely did, inflexible approached the situation was neglected, and had to be collected and carefully. Trivial? Yes. Constructively? Yes! Blaming on bad luck, I'm not going to change their behavior and subconsciously'll be waiting for the next blow will be treated in absolute "latent sacrifice." Analyzing their behavior, I can change it, at least I have this opportunity.
Author:
Ryabova So
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Psychology in every day
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