"Why did you need?! Only nerves pats. Now that the coffee will brew, sit in silence, then the neighbor will come, we'll talk. And with you it is possible? "Hearing this rebuke from a friend, which, by the way, great respect, I am from the shock couldn't even be offended. The thought struck me the tragedy is in its very depth.
And the culprit here, not even the man who said these words, and the whole structure of modern life, in which they were born. It's not yesterday and not a week ago he came to this conclusion. It is not accidental, and not forced he lives alone and no one wants to see next.
Yes, you can write it off and on internal drama in past relationships, and personality, and many other circumstances. But why do I think that there will not be any compelling reason why, in the words of one person I see almost the main motto of most modern men, and women too?
And with some chill inside you admit to yourself is that really many people think. And if someone, as an exception, is configured to create a family, as they say, by all the canons, it will face great difficulties.
What happened to us, people?! Why we don't want to be with someone? Why are you afraid to work hard, forming a family? It is not necessary again about the difficult economic situation. Ridiculous! Get off at the weekend on the market - it's the poor people with the last peanuts in queues at the exchangers are! So the complaint to the crisis will not work anymore. In the minds and souls already in crisis. Dagilis. In pursuit of the jackpot will soon forget basic instinct - "be fruitful and multiply! ".
People, we are you crazy?! Let's look around us. Why do we earn this money, if we do not have anyone to spend? Why do we lead a "friend"/a"friend", if you get away from him/her in the morning, satisfying their physiological needs? Do not feel that it is not helping?! Do not feel that this is not what you need?!
And our souls are crying from loneliness. Yes, they are covered already impenetrable armor of life experience, but the depth is still very unhappy because there is no next most important thing - the most glorified of all, the "second half".
No need to accuse me of being too romantic. Need men and women to be together is not a romance. This is the natural state of man. Yes, every rule there are exceptions. Someone better be one. But this is an exception. And I'm talking about the majority of ordinary people.
"Yes I do not want to get married, socks him to wash, to administer. Let around me run, and I won't." "Yah her marriage. Then "blessed" the brain to chew. Let the fools get married! " I think many heard this phrase. Sad. Sad and scary.
One wise man said: "the Only real luxury is the luxury of human communication". And the fellowship of men and women - it is a treasure that, if found, should especially be protected. And we even search for not trying.
I did not argue with their friends. We talked more about different topics, and then parted. Like, all as usual. Only tonight I could not sleep, kept thinking why do we need them? And do we need it? We are them, and they us. And came up with nothing.
But in the depths of my soul remained the confidence needed. Designed everything in this world.
Source:
School of life
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