How to talk to children about "it"?

Children have about sex

This is the day when your curious child came from the garden or from the Playground and innocently asked, "what is sex? ".

Until you've gathered my thoughts, the man quickly fled from the battlefield, not doev dinner. You with hope in her voice asked the child: "I Want a cupcake? I'll bake".

No, no, mother, child confectionery not interested. Communication with other children was not your ubiquitous offspring gift. Now it is important not to lose face - and voice its almost true, the explanation of this awkward term.

Important in this conversation - not even what you have with your child will talk and what words will be to identify all the processes. The main thing is your attitude during this conversation. If you're going to hide his eyes, to stutter, to stutter, to blush, to call for help dad, grandma and cartoons, child, make sure that "sex" is something very forbidden, dirty and obscene, time mom who knows everything, not afraid of absolutely nothing, even injections, and knows how to blow on a broken knee so that she immediately stopped hurting, embarrassed to talk about it. Well, it's not pedagogical dismiss the child and refer to employment. After such excuses-excuses attitude to sex will form your toddler appropriate.

Yes, we can talk about butterflies, birds and bees, but as the child grows in the team. And this team instantly explain that parents are losers, and actually it is not so. So let your child knows the truth. Of course, not in detail, but very close to reality.

In the form of explanations, you can choose this option.

Every child, before coming to light, chooses their parents. He separately selects mom and separately selects dad, because mom and dad - it's like two puzzle that fit together like a lock and key. The Pope has their cells, and their mother, and when these cells are found - a new life arises. This meeting of the cells occurs only during sex.

Now, their future child waits patiently until they meet in real life to their sex, i.e., from the meeting of the cells, it was formed and began to grow in preparation for birth. Of course, the meeting chosen by fathers and mothers does not occur immediately. They can have sex with other people, trying to find the person who is their spouse. Because the key is only one of them. When a man and a woman is not ready to transmit cells to conceive a child, they use condoms are thin rubber Kabushiki for the Pope that interfere with dad's cells to connect with mom's. And the child has to wait for that day, while dad will remove this capsonic.

And then the cells meet, turning into a tiny-tiny baby that is growing every month, so that in due time to be born.

Of course, if your child is already a student, then a version of it can not accept. In addition, access to the Internet and more advanced classmates can smash to pieces your whole theory, but students now written many interesting books with drawings and explanations that will be enough to give a child a beautiful edition and not to blush, explaining the process of sex.

In sex there is no shame, but coming up with an explanation for a child, consider its age. Foster child sexually educated, and your life will be calmer.

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