Ask, please!

I have a problem - I don't know how to ask. This I acknowledge, on this pay attention to many of my friends and acquaintances.


Girlfriend, for example, believe my inability to ask one of the main reasons that the last man has left me, and now not at all.


Remember. Last man, if you are going to visit, called and asked: "What to buy? "



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I to this question is always answered: "Nothing".



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Not out of principle. Just wondered why someone would buy me something, if all the same I can buy myself HERE. Was driving he would not Plekhanova street, and from Paris, I would, of course, something requested.



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With the last man we broke up two years ago. Now, specifically, to examine himself, I met him.



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Sat, drank coffee, talked about life. As if by the way I decided to ask: "are You bothered that I did not ask? "



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He replied, "Very! "



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I asked: "Why? "



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He said something like: a man wants to do something good, to feel earner, at least at this level to understand its usefulness, blah-blah-blah...



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In General, we had to ask at least bread... And everything would be fine.



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It is not clear why he couldn't ask me that there is anything that I asked. I asked him about it.




Do you know what he replied? "I told you about it many times, just you, I probably didn't understand..."



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And then I began to study not only yourself, but others. Began to listen carefully to how people ask.



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Here comes in the office of the chief editor of the commercial Director, a respectable man, in a suit, the father of adult children.



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Clears his throat and says, "Where would I find the latest issue of the newspaper? " He asks.



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But is he really asking? No, he asks where to find a newspaper, but to find it is actually not necessary, he knows where to find it.



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He needs her to take and take. And this question needs to be raised is: "Give me, please, the last issue of the newspaper".




Here public transport. The only thing I hear: "How would it go? ", "You couldn't move? " and so on and so forth.



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Why not ask directly: "please Give me pass! ", "Move over, please! " And it is in the best case.



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In the worst kind of impulsive standing Granny in close bus, Savinov sitting on the Goblin, lengthy monologue on what is now the youth went useless.



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And the Goblin (with him after all, as a Goblin turn) and so knows that he is worthless, and all his thoughts about grandma and others like it come to regret why moms passengers time has not had an abortion.



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But tell Granny the Goblin softly: "Give me, please," his human instincts work will begin. And he will give... Checked.




This topic was one of the old joke, when numerous relatives arrive in an unfamiliar city for a wedding, and it turns out that nobody knows the addresses of the bride.



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Relatives sent and send the zip to another family member: "do you know the address Alexandra Petrovna? " And get the answer: "you Know".



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Want to get something? Ask for it properly. And you will be given.

Source:

Belarusian women's portal

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