Is it possible to like the child of your partner, according to the advice of magazines?

Various glossy magazines and the same kind of sites like to offer a recipe of happiness, and great relationships with someone else's child. Usually, almost all these tips-recipes detached from reality and difficult. However, the abstract advice without any clarifications or examples.


So the standard advice: "the child will be very easy to pick up the keys, especially if you had earlier practice of communication with young kids, the main thing here is sincerity, gentleness and kindness". So what is the so-called "sincerity"? In fact, to give Frank answers to questions about yourself or about your relationship with his parents? It is clear that we should not lie, if you ask about age, where you live or why the sun is yellow and very warm...




The kid has a nice touch with the one who pays him attention, showing tenderness or at least interest. And when he will feel your stress or a strong desire him to be agreeable, it may be suspicious, even Mature people here can feel the catch.Great idea to build good relations to organize together with your baby holiday(for example a party in honor of his birthday).When atom, the child must accept the organization's active participation., you should take into account the views of the child and, moreover, to show how it is important for you. However, it is preferable to build relationships through time. Keep elementary patience.




And what means "kindness and gentleness"? If we start from the point of view of the kid, it is permissiveness. Try anything to prevent will be the whims and reproaches, "well, that's my dad... and my mom will tell all...". But you can't all afford not only children but also adults. So your position softness - the ability to calmly react to different tricks of the child and, if necessary, to insist on.




Relationship with someone else's child should not be establish and build everything from the beginning. It is easiest to do this with babies up to two years (they are very open, kind and like many people) and children 15 years and over (they are quite adults, in order to understand that their mother needs a man). If the "kids" are adults and live separately, the problems do not exist. Actually, you don't try them fancy - they are adults and understand everything.

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