Excerpted from Barbara de Angelis "Secrets about men every woman should know". Much of what is considered the actions of "loving women", plays a destructive role in our relationships with men. Of course, we all make these mistakes unintentionally. Many of these habits have been imparted to us by our mothers, but they will have their mothers, but as soon as we stop playing these old roles and follow old habits, you cease to feel unhappy women, and men cease to behave with us unworthy.
Mistake # 1 Women behave as mother and treat men like children
Did you ever male things like:
"Beloved, you have not forgotten your wallet? " "Do not forget to go on the way back to the dry cleaners".
"You forgot your book? Don't worry, I'll call you".
"How many times must we tell you that you did not leave wet towels on the floor? "
"You will not freeze in this lightweight jacket? "
If you're like me, reading this page, you are bound to acknowledge his guilt. Mistake # 1 is the most common and destructive in our relationships with men. We treat men like children; we believe that they cannot take care of themselves; we behave as if they do not know how to do and need our constant guide.
I know what you're thinking, " that in many cases this is true! And you may be right. But this is no excuse. It is very important to remember:
When you treat a man as a little boy, he begins to behave like a little boy. If you assume that the man is not able to act independently, it will be.
I know you are awfully frustrating to realize that you play the role of the mother with the man you love, but, believe me, you are not alone. So why do we behave as mothers, and treat our men with children?
Until recently, motherhood was one of the most common among women "professions", followed the profession of a nanny and teacher. We grew up watching our mothers are praised for what they care for, all, and received praise for it: "What are you good for you, Sally, you're so take good care of his little brother". "Be good, Jane, take my dad Slippers, clever".
We often begin to behave like mothers when they want to earn the love of men. We treat men, as mothers, to become for them. When you try to satisfy all the needs of men, he becomes more and more from you depend. We all watch commercial television, in which a man tries to cook dinner for the children in the absence of his wife. He appears before us bumbling idiot, absolutely helpless in your own home without his wife. The more you care about the man, the more he depends on you and the more indispensable you become. Fear of being thrown dictates this behavior. Subconsciously we think: "If he will need in me, he never wouldn't leave me".
Men tend to receive maternal care and love when they are being cared for.
Recently I conducted a seminar in the group of women and asked a rhetorical question: "Why women behave with men, as mothers? " And here's a woman with the last row shouted: "Because men love it! " They all laughed, for he knew that in her words was a big truth. Complain if men that you treat them as a mother? Sometimes, but not always.
Men grew up surrounded by the cares of their mothers, and, as adults, they easily allow their wives to continue to play in their life role as a mother. This is especially true for men whose mothers were treated with their fathers as children. He may not even associate the concept of "wife" with her mother, with a person, constantly care about him, raising him, not with his mistress, best friend, partner. And if your man has lost childhood love and care from his own mother, he will gladly allow you to "finish the job".
As your maternal attitude towards the man can destroy your Union Playing a maternal role, you will initially be rewarded, but in fact, this behavior will ruin your relationship with your man.
Your man will begin to experience irritation, he will rebel against you.
In Chapter 1 we discussed the psychological need for every little boy to achieve independence from his mother, to know myself a man. Playing the role of mother with your man, you will inevitably be faced with the fact that he will begin to resist your influence, it will eventually lead to the fact that he will rebel against you. He may not be able to complain about your behavior; moreover, he may insist that you not change it, and yet he will revolt, because all the boys in one day tearing their connection with the mother.
Your man can get bored feel inferior.
If you constantly refer to the man as a person incompetent, he will start to feel as such. And the more he will feel incompetent, the lower his self-esteem and the more incompetent he really will be.
When a man is dissatisfied, he begins less love you.
Male self-esteem is based on a sense of competence. And if he feels insecure in any sphere of life, it becomes difficult to love not only yourself, but also you. To emphasize his incompetence, treating him like a child, means inevitably to suppress his desire to love you.
On the other hand, the more incompetent will be presented to you your man, the less he will be to excite you. Women are attracted competence. Thus, the more inept it will look, the less attractive it will be for you.
You will kill the passion in your relationship.
The fastest way to kill the passion in your relationship is to go with beloved man, as a mother.
The more you behave like a mother, the more he will treat you as his mother. But no man wants to sleep with his mother. Sexual taboos against women, endowed with excessive maternal energy, rooted in a man so deeply that he simply will not be able to represent you in an erotic, romantic light, if you constantly blow off the dust from his clothes, a reminder that he has to do around the house, in General, treat him as his son.
Of course, speaking with a male as with a child, and you will no longer feel attracted to him. How can excite you the one with whom you have just been treated like a three-year old child?
I am sure that the error No. 1 is one of the most important causes of sexual dissatisfaction in many marriages. Joint twenty years of life, financial burden experienced by the family, it also kills the passion. But there is nothing that destroys it, as the transformation of husband and wife in mother and son.
Don't be tempted to help the man. Let him make his mistakes and face the consequences. This is the only way to teach him to do differently next time.
How I managed to wean a man to push me to rabies
Because fifteen years of my adult life I am in relationships with men played a maternal role, you may, unfortunately, to consider themselves in this matter expert and would like to share how I eradicated maternal habits. I maintained a relationship with a man who was chronically absent. He forgot about the meetings, on phone calls about unpaid bills; he had forgotten where she was going, and missed the right turn on the road. For two years I was responsible for his memory, reminding him that he should do and what should go. When we went somewhere, I was never relaxed - I was sure he had not missed the exit on the highway, right turn, lest he drove right place for us.
In the end I was tired to nurse him, and I decided that the only way to teach him to be careful on the road is to stop doing it for him. Once in the weekend we went to a resort town in southern California. We've been there before, and, of course, I knew the road. We drove for about an hour when he reached the sign, provided that the desired rotation is a few miles way. I looked at my companion, to make sure that he noticed the sign, and everything inside me froze. No! I warned myself: "You promised not to say anything! " The closer we got to the turn, the more strained my nerves. We caught up with the rotation, and my companion quietly went right. He drove it! I gritted my teeth to avoid screaming.
It seemed that time stopped as we were leaving for ten, twenty, thirty miles from the desired rotation. It started getting dark. Suddenly he turned to me and asked:
- You know these places?
"No, " I replied gently.
'Me too, ' he said. Maybe I missed a turn?
He stopped at a gas station and found out for sure what drove forty miles from the desired location. It was obvious that we were late in the boarding house. I took all my self-control to remain silent. After my companion turned and went in the opposite direction, he timidly looked at me and said:
"You knew that I had passed the turn, isn't it?
I smiled at him, and he me. We both knew that he had received a good lesson, driving forty miles to nowhere, and that it is much better than if I intervened and pointed out to him his error.
Be consistent. It is very important to be consistent and stick to the new rules, avoiding old mistakes. Be faithful to your commitments, regardless of what the consequences will be. For example, you decided not to clean up after her husband in the bathroom, not to put his dirty clothes and towel. A week later you notice the mountain of his things on the floor in the bathroom and in the closet on his shelf no more clean towels and linen. Don't touch that pile of dirty Laundry. Wait until he will complain that he had no clean towels or clean underwear, and remind him that his towels and linen are still lying on the floor where he had left them behind. It is quite possible that he will not be in awe of your messages, but he will remember it. If you succumb to his desire for cleanliness and order, he will never accept your new rules seriously and will not be considered.
Remember: to break the habit of playing with a man the role of the mother is not easy, but if you succeed, you will feel like a woman, and your partner will feel like a man.
Mistake # 2
Women sacrifice and put himself in second place after the men who love
several hours preparing dinner his companion - fillet flounder under the almond sauce. You're already going to put on the table two dishes, when suddenly discover that one serving of fish is larger than the other. Imagine that you and your men are the same appetite. Will give you a large portion of him or forsake himself?
Most of the women to whom I put this question, humbly admitted that they would not be even dilemma, of course, they would have given a large portion of the male, because they used to put a man on the first place, and themselves second. Moreover, I have questioned many of the women said they would feel guilty if you took a larger piece of fish; they used the word "selfish", "greedy", "unloving".
Mistake number 2 is that as women, we bring the sacrifice of himself and put himself in second place after our men. How do we do it?
1. We bring the sacrifice of their interests, Hobbies and activities.
Many of us have sacrificed their interests and Hobbies due to the fact that men do not consider them important and necessary. We bring these sacrifices, sometimes without even realizing it. We convince ourselves that it is not miss your favorite business, what is all this nonsense and irrelevant. But really all that matters. Often we begin to realize that they have sacrificed their interests and Affairs only after our relationship with man, for which we made the sacrifice to cease, and we again return to their favorite activities. And then we remember how much fun we brought meditation classes, dancing, gardening, bike riding, or anything else, from what we refused due to the fact that our men did not share our Hobbies.
2. We disclaim friends or relatives who do not like our partners.
If I ask you: "do you Renounce friend or relative, if you are asked a man? " - you certainly will certainly answer: "in Any case! ". Nevertheless, many women do so. Fear of losing the love of men, they turn away from loved ones.
Why do men seek to tear you from people who love you?
Insecure men will seek to deprive you of the support of others.
Some men need to feel complete control over the partner. At the same time they themselves are afraid of control from others. One of the tactics of gaining over you full power may be the desire to isolate you from those who love you and support from your family, friends, religious or spiritual group. This tactic usually leads to two consequences:
you will find yourself becoming increasingly dependent on the love of you men, for less get it from other people;
- your relationship become isolated from the gaze of people who love you, thus your partner is protected from possible criticism and other negative reactions to his attitude towards you.
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. We become "emotional chameleons", resemble a clean slate, on which a man writes what he wants; become what we want to see men. Putting himself in second place after men, women are very often willing to abandon themselves and become what men would like to see them. I call these women "emotional chameleons, ready to change themselves, their attitudes, their behavior and even their beliefs, if only to meet men's idea of the perfect woman. I'll be the woman of his dreams to be solved and we are trying to adjust themselves to fit the pattern of someone else's ideas about love.
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We are ready to give up on your dreams in order to help man to realize his dream. The wife who left College to help her husband to be a doctor, fifteen years suddenly realizes that she forgot about her own dream to teach children with retarded...
The woman who left her job in a large company, to help his friend in his business, only three years after their break, I realized that did it for him, not for his own sake and that as a result lost a lot of time...
I am sure that if you had not done such things for yourself, you probably know women who made them. Very sad to realize that we are so easily willing to give up on your dreams and to subordinate his life to the aspirations of our men.
The results of sacrifices in the name of love
When we sacrifice ourselves for the sake of love and assume a secondary role, we are hoping that our men will love us more. This can happen, maybe not. But certainly, the following will happen:
When you bring the sacrifice of himself in order to win someone's love, you begin to love yourself less.
Every time you hoping to win the love of a man, bring him in sacrifice of their interests, dreams, friends, you refuse particles themselves. The more you donate, the lower part of your personality is, until one day you Wake up, you feel devastated. From you there is nothing left. You gave up everything to become more desirable, and in this way you lost your essence, your feminine soul.
This loss is usually accompanied by anger and depression. You are unhappy with themselves, dramatically decreases your self-esteem and self-respect. And you feel a sense of resentment and anger toward the man that sacrificed, because in most cases, his love still won't fit your ideals.
Solution: stop the sacrifice.
Mistake # 3 Women fall in potential men
Do you have pride from their ability to reveal their men of best quality"?
Did you ever imagine that "just a job", and the man you love will be the way you would like to see?
Thought you ever that your man does not have achieved such success, what he wanted, because next to him there was no man, "truly, his loving and supportive", until he met you.
Don't know for you, but for me all these questions too familiar. Until recently, mistake number 3 was my second profession - I fell in love with the potential of men. I focused on the fact that she was male losers and gave all their strength, energy and time to "help" them. Sometimes my efforts were successful, and the man began to prosper. Sometimes I couldn't make it. But every time that happened to me the same thing: I was ready to sacrifice my career, my dreams in the name of someone's salvation.
How much I remember myself, I always chose men who definitely need support in any area of life. Such that it was necessary to disclose their emotions. Such that it was necessary to heal the wounds of a troubled childhood. Such that it was time already to organize life, to use their talents to make money. Those who needed to be developed oratorical or literary abilities or who had to teach properly dressed or to be a caring lover. I immediately rushed to save them. I sent them and advised them how to overcome their complexes. I gave them your love, your money, your energy and your intellect. My friends and family had expressed to me on this occasion their discontent, and saying that I'm wasting time, but it didn't stop me. And even if the man made no progress and nothing was reluctant to accept my help - even in these cases, I did not abandon their attempt. In the end I had to give myself a vow.
Looking back, I suddenly realized that every time I don't just build relationships - I worked on the project. I was not keen on just the man I was dedicated to achieving any goal.
I was in love not in that man that he was actually and what it could become.
After many years of disappointments, failures and headache I woke up one morning, suddenly realized that in my thirties I have so little was done for his career.
And then I said to myself: "Barbara, if you would have used at least half the energy, intelligence, ingenuity and perseverance, which you spend to unlock the potential of your men to achieve their own goals, what a great success you have achieved! " And that's exactly what I did, you may partly see, reading this book.
Why do women fall in potential men
- We try to avoid complicated fight for their own career, for the disclosure of their opportunities, thinking that we are responsible for someone.
"We are pleased, demonstrating what we are loving, patient. We feel failures and curse ourselves, if our men do not stop on the path that we have purposed.
Women love to improve! We love to equip our homes, tidy hairstyles and so on! This natural sense of creativity lives
within each of us. And the woman is very difficult to refuse improve anything.
How to determine whether you are a "rescuer"
Here are some of the signs by which you can determine whether you make a mistake No. 3:
- you convince yourself from month to month, your man need a little time to establish a life and stand on your feet;
- you tell yourself that nobody really loved your man and that you will be the only person who love to change it;
- you feel that no one understands your man and that only you know what it is, "you don't know him the way I";
"you apologize to your friends and family for the fact that your man enough attention to you or misbehaviour;
- you feel that you can't leave this man, for it can strengthen it in the sense of uselessness, and then he will never change;
- you convince yourself that even if your man is and does not pay you the warmth and warmth for your concern, you still need to continue to maintain a relationship with him.
How can a person overcome this disease, let me give you
a few tips:
1. Focus your creative energy primarily on your life goals, your career, and not on the things your man. Make a list of your aspirations and goals and a specific plan for their implementation. Follow this plan and do not deviate from their path. This means that, if you are planning to participate in the broadcast, in order to acquire new customers in your business, and your friend needs help repair his apartment, go to your meeting! Remember, what were your goals before meeting with your friend, and follow them in the first place.
2. Make a list: "what I give up in my life, "clipping" the man". Often you don't even know how many pleasures you deprive yourself, "clipping" of men. Such a list will help you pay attention to it.
3. Find such a man who himself bore responsibility and tried to succeed, so you don't have to do this work for him. There is nothing wrong to support the man you love, in his professional growth
and to help him in his desire to change. If two people love each other, of course, they will help each other to discover their potential. But it is important that you worked as a team to your man also felt responsible for your progress as you do.
I suggest you at the very beginning of your relationship to ask your friend about his life goals and how it intends to achieve them. You may find that he is not concerned about these issues and is not going to do anything in this regard. Then you will understand that this man is not for you. If his plans of life progress conform to your ideas about what you would like to see him, give him some time, love and support him and watch him for a few months. If you do not notice any progress or change, discuss it with him and find out why it fails. Remember, things mean much more than words.
Mistake # 4 Women hide their dignity and competence
- Do you have a bad habit of belittling their dignity in front of the man you love?
- Are you uncomfortable listening to compliments and awards?
- Do you have such talents and abilities, which your partner does not even know?
Most women, making a mistake No. 4, do not know about it. We conceal their intelligence, abilities, achievements, its brilliance and talents, not to scare our man and not to shake his confidence.
Why, hiding his abilities, we do not achieve the desired results
1. Hiding your dignity, you kill the passion in your relationship. When we belittle their achievements and hide their abilities from our men, we expect that we will continue to look less scary and more attractive in the eyes of loved ones, but actually the result is absolutely the opposite.
Men love in women perfection. They are accustomed to seek it themselves and recognize these qualities in others, they attract capable and bright personality. Working on this book, I interviewed hundreds of men, and almost all agreed that women, from which emanates a sense of confidence in themselves, are extremely attractive. Men respect women and take them seriously.
The irony is that women hide their dignity and try to behave modestly, hoping to earn a great love, while this behavior kills the passion in the relationship.
2. Getting used to hide their dignity from men, you eventually begin to hide them from yourself. Not accidentally say something that you can't see easily forget. Belittling their achievements in the eyes of others, you all remember less about them themselves, while gradually lose its splendor.
Solution: stop hiding their dignity.
Looking for a man who would like to let you Shine. We all know that there are men who for various reasons cannot live with women strong and confident. It is difficult to feel comfortable with a person that does not want you to Shine. Make sure that your partner will support you in your quest to become a great woman.
Mistake # 5 Women are subordinate to men
I sadly have to admit that for many of us discuss the problem of "why women are subordinate to men" seem redundant and unnecessary. As we have noted above, throughout the long history of mankind, women's role was to obey the man is more sad than error. However, based on my experience, I can confidently say that to identify for themselves the mechanism of her subjection to the man and to develop ways of overcoming this phenomenon is to make the most important steps towards creating a healthy, warm, cordial relations.
I call those of us who obey the man, hoping to earn this love, martyrs in the name of love. Martyr is a person who decides to bring personal sacrifice in the name of any purpose. As for women, here we often have to deal with the fact that they sacrifice self-respect, self-esteem, dignity and its purity in order to earn the love of a man.
As we humiliate her female dignity
These are all characteristics are different manifestations of one and the same: the humiliation of our women's dignity. This means:
- allow men to treat us as we would never want them to treat our daughters;
- not to protect their dignity when it should be done;
- to live in fear is to cause disapproval or deserve criticism partner;
- live content is less love and attention than you deserve.
Every time you allow a man to treat you in a disrespectful or unworthy, you lose respect for yourself.
Maybe you are already accustomed to humiliation by men
Buying a new car and the first time you take the wheel, have you ever suddenly realize it was difficult to manage your old machine?
Did it happen to you that, having moved into a new, more spacious apartment, you suddenly began to realize how close was your old home?
Sometimes if you have that, put a new comfortable pair of shoes, you suddenly realized how awkward was old?
You understand that or not, but it is quite possible that you let the bad man to deal with you simply because used to it. Human beings tend to adapt to the environment in which they live, and often we do not realize the inconvenience as long as this situation will not change. Feeling suddenly the difference between pairs of shoes, or flats, or cars, or relationships, we admit to ourselves what the discomfort experienced before.
From the slave to the furies: as women first, men walking around on tiptoe, and then rise up against them
Many women are this way. After going through the humiliation of one man, they give themselves an oath not to allow this to continue and result in rise up against another, unsuspecting men. Then, realizing the futility of such behaviour, they again become slaves. And so on.
Another option similar transformation may be a situation when we are transformed from slaves into the fury within the relationship with the same man. I have a friend who brings her husband to distraction such differences. Week it all subordinated to it and behaves like a slave, then gets mad at himself for his weakness and rushes to the other extreme, becoming cold and aloof. When he was fed up with her coldness, standing up, she immediately gives up, asks forgiveness, and again turns into a slave.
It is this type of behavior gives men a reason to call women "extravagant", "unpredictable", "hysterical", "bitch". The only way out is to find something between the slave and the fury, to live in accordance with their underlying values that will allow you to avoid differences from submission to rebellion.
Women make one of his biggest mistakes, in men with tenderness and love for their bad attitude towards them.
How do we do it? We hug and kiss men who allow themselves to talk to us disrespectful; not only do we not stop the man shouts at us, and ask his forgiveness for what brought him out of himself; we make love with a man who a few hours ago literally mixed us with dirt and didn't even think to apologize; we are surrounded by a warm and caring men, who would abuse our sense to show them that we still love them.
What conclusions do the men of this our behavior?
You can ask me anything, I'll still love you. Moreover, the worse you treat me, the more you scare me even more gentle and affectionate I am.
This behavior can be represented as follows: in your house puppy; returning home one day, you find that your dog has soiled your favorite white sofa. Seeing this, you go into the kitchen and bring the dog as a reward for her favorite food! You do the same, kissing the man who has offended you.
The animal trainers always emphasize the importance of discipline for the dog, you'll poked the nose of your puppy made his puddle, will pop him on the nose with a newspaper and say, "don't you dare more dirty sofa! " I'm not suggesting you to fold the newspaper and beat the man's nose, when he "misbehaves". I just want to draw your attention to the fact that, by rewarding a man for a bad attitude towards you, you encourage such behavior in the future.
Remember! To maintain their dignity in a relationship with a man does not mean to suppress his partner. It means to treat yourself with love and respect, that will cause men the same to you.
Mistake # 6 Women act like little girls, if you want to get something from men
Being little girls, we invariably attracted attention for its charm, loveliness and helplessness. Many of us don't even realize how often we behave with men, as little girls, especially when they want to get something. I am very sad to see how women are resorting to these tricks, but it is even sadder to see how men fall for them.
How is it manifested?
1. We behave naively and demonstrated a lack of understanding, while perfectly aware of what is happening.
Men in this situation are beginning to feel more experienced, knowledgeable people. This behavior women artificially increases men's self-esteem and creates an atmosphere of comfort in the relationship with you, but only because they feel their superiority over you, not because I respect you.
2. We describe the offense, while actually experiencing anger.
- You cry when you are insulted?
- Are you pouting, instead of saying to the man that he behaves like a beast, and you fed it by the throat?
- You get annoyed when it would be necessary to get up and leave?
Since most of us were taught that ugly when girls get angry, we oppress their anger and are more acceptable "feminine" feelings - sadness, fear or guilt, while anger overwhelms us and boils. We do so because it is much safer and men is more like it.
3. We pretend to be confused, while not experiencing this feeling. This is one of the most harmful female habits. We pretend not to know what we want, or can't understand their feelings, or don't understand what we do. All kind we cry out for help, and then the man appears and saves us. What a joy! What a thrill! It feels so capable, so smart, so caring!
We use this technique to hide its quite adult, but less pleasant feelings - anger, indignation, resentment or fear. Countless times I have heard from women who came to consult with me, things like: "I wonder why we have such problems in the relationship! " When I started to ask them, we find that the husband is unfaithful to her that they are already two years do not support sexual relationship that she feels useless, baffled. Of course, the woman understands the situation, however, demonstrated her confusion gives her the opportunity to escape responsibility for their own destiny, to avoid the severity of the decision.
4. Women treat men as fathers.
There is nothing wrong to let the man you love, from time to time to show you the fatherly care. However, this is a dangerous symptom, if you treat him as a father, constantly. This is usually manifested in the following:
- do you call your lover "daddy";
- you sit on his lap and love to pout;
- you admit that today was a "bad girl";
- you allow the husband to control the family budget and get from him pocket money.
Not going to analyze serious psychological aspects of such behavior. I note only that, the more you behave with her husband, as a father, the longer you remain a child.
5. We talk to the men thin childish voice.
We do this in cases where:
"I'm afraid to say what you think;
- fear reaction men;
- assume that meet disapproval.
Imitating the girls, we might say to the man: "Look, I'm just a little girl. Don't hurt me, don't be angry at me."
6. We are creating mess in your life, to give the man a chance to save us.
You live from crisis to crisis?
There's always something extraordinary, and you constantly need help men in his Council?
One of the aspects of the game in a little girl involves bringing their cases to a complete collapse, so that man could come and save you. Maybe you do it because the child has not experienced paternal care. Maybe you want to "check" his friend, to see if you rely on him. Anyway, you provoke a crisis in order to attract attention, is a typical tactic of the game in the little girl.
As your game baby affects your relationship with men
Men never will respect you.
Will men react to a little girl? They will feel significant, strong, responsible. They can get involved in this game. It is likely that they will get pleasure from it. But they will not respect you and will treat you as a little girl, not as a woman. And all of this will lead to the fact that your relationship will remain less passion and true love.
Solution: stop to behave with men, as a little girl.
1. Make a list of: "what is my game girl". It is possible that, while writing this list, you will feel a sense of embarrassment, but, trust me, it will help you to overcome the error No. 6. The next time you find yourself on that wound curl on her finger, sing or speak, or do anything else, you will feel a sense of disgust and stop.
2. Crying, ask yourself, not angry are you? It is important not to forget, especially if you have long drove inside the feeling of anger. You may find that you're really pissed off. And then maybe you will prefer to Express true feelings and not hide them behind the tears. Of course, this does not mean that you should not allow yourself to cry or that you always get angry when they cry. Just pay attention to it.
3. A sense of confusion or helplessness, ask yourself: "am I really confused? Or is it... " It's very difficult. Before you despair and to call for help men find out for yourself what is the cause of your condition. Some of your habits, forced to play the role of a girl, probably very old, and you are not just going to part with them. But try to love a woman.
I hope that helped you better understand their relationships with men, showing you these six mistakes. I think you realized that I had found them, not studying psychological journals and not conducting surveys. I did each of these six mistakes again and again! Like most women, I did to deserve the love of men, and I had to suffer in this way a lot. You will now be easier, since you know about some of the pitfalls and how to behave so as not to run aground on the reefs.
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