Scenarios, which can be the life of an adult who has not received parental blessing
Scenario # 1 - the Father rejects the son; the son refuses parental blessing.
Results:
A. the son appears predisposition not to accept the love that comes from men.
B. Inside the son is born of the inner expectation, which suggests to him that other men will not approve it. He begins to expect that other men will "reject" and rejected.
Century, most Likely he will try to raise his price and to create an image of independent men. He will do this by:
1. Career (workaholism, careerism, striving for success);
2. Money (greed, greed, avarice, fear to remain in distress);
3. Power and status (shallow relationships, feelings, manipulation of people's opinion);
4. Service (star of the first magnitude, shining service);
5. Any other role in which he can show everyone that he is a real man.
Consequences:
1. Conflict with male superiors. Under the command refers to the responsible person, the representative of the governing body of any structure.
2. The pronounced self-sufficiency: "I don't need anyone! I do it all myself! "
3. The inability to trust other people.
4. Emotional callousness and indifference to the needs of others.
5. Excessive harsh, rough and cruel treatment of human beings.
6. In his life manifests the qualities of character and demeanor, which he despised in his father.
The situation in marriage:
1. The main purpose of the wife to finish and highlight him as a man.
2. It is not included in the world's wife.
3. He does not give her access to your own heart.
4. In relation to his wife, he behaves in a selfish, rude and indifferent.
Married to such a man a woman feels that:
1. She is not loved.
2. It is not needed.
3. She stands by her husband in last place.
4. He uses it to satisfy their sexual needs.
Scenario # 2 - the father rejects the son; the son begins to fight for a father's blessing.
Results:
A. my son has a tendency to seek love and acceptance from men.
B. the Son will do anything, anything just to feel needed and approved.
Century Its value needed he will try to find in other people. It is very important what other people think about it. These people can be:
wife, children, hero, boss, pastor, friends, important people, neighbors.
Consequences:
1. Excessive sensitivity to the needs of others.
2. Compassion and helping people.
3. Can create the impression of a wimp or sissy.
4. Extremely self-critical person.
5. Fatal, harm to yourself, the desire to win the favor of other men.
6. Contempt the fact that he is a man. Can not put their masculinity.
7. It can take a homosexual fantasy and adventure".
8. It can absorb many of the qualities peculiar to women (effeminate character or demeanor).
The situation in marriage:
1. The refusal of the role of the head of the family.
2. Sensitivity and compassion towards his wife.
3. Passion for excellence - high demand for themselves and others - nadrivaet marriage.
4. Homosexual acts or fantasies create tension in the marriage relationship.
Emotional distress and self-criticism husband wear his wife's soul.
Married to such a man the wife feels that:
It is not pay attention.
It is not needed.
In the life of her husband, she takes the first place with the end.
She is not loved.
Scenario # 3 - the father rejects the daughter; the daughter refuses his father's blessing.
Results:
A. Predisposition not to accept the love that comes from men.
B. Inside daughter born the expectation that inspires her that, like his father, other men will not treat it approvingly. She begins to expect from men that they will reject or rejected.
Century, most Likely she will try to raise his price and to create the image of an independent woman, nor to whom, and have need of nothing. It will do this by:
1. Their own femininity (beauty, promiscuity Dating, sexual immorality).
2. Career (workaholism, striving for success).
3. Money (greed, fear to be left in want, hoarding).
4. Power and status (shallow relationships, feelings, manipulating the opinion of the people).
5. Service (star of the first magnitude, shining service).
6. Motherhood (first-Class, exemplary mother).
7. Any role in which she can show their best side.
Consequences:
1. Conflict with male superiors. Under the command refers to the responsible person, the representative body of the control structure.
2. The pronounced self-sufficiency: "I don't need anyone! I do it all by herself! "
3. The inability to trust people.
4. Emotional callousness and indifference to the needs of others.
5. Excessive rough, harsh and hard dealing with people.
6. In her life can manifest qualities of character and demeanor, which she passionately despised in his father.
7. Can absorb masculine demeanor.
8. May enter into a relationship with a lesbian or to nurture such relationships in his fantasies.
The situation in marriage:
1. Usually such a wife has a husband open resistance and rejects his authority.
2. Wants love, but refuses to admit it to her husband and to open before him your heart.
3. Her husband she is not able to please.
4. Overly demanding and critical to her husband.
5. Can be cold and indifferent (frigid) in sexual intimacy.
Usually the husband of such a wife feels...
1. It is accused of.
2. He is unable to please his wife and win her sympathy.
3. His set at naught, and it is of no value in the eyes of his wife.
Scenario # 4 - father rejects the daughter; the daughter begins to fight for a father's blessing.
Results:
A. my daughter has a tendency to seek love and acceptance from men.
B. Daughter will do anything, anything just to feel needed and accepted.
Century Its worth it I will try to find in other people. For it means a lot what others think about it. These people can be: husband, children, hero, boss, pastor, friends, important people, neighbors.
Consequences:
1. Excessive sensitivity to the needs of others.
2. Compassion and helping others.
3. Pronounced criticism.
4. Detrimental, to the detriment of themselves, the desire to win the favor of men.
5. Can be Flirty (Flirty) and not picky in Dating and relationships.
6. Most often it is the emotional perception developed much stronger than logic.
7. Miserable faith in their own power and dignity, the lack of inner confidence.
The situation in marriage:
1. Usually excessively submissive to her husband.
2. Too tied to her husband, suppresses his care.
3. Often makes the man of God.
4. You may feel foolish jealousy and unwillingness to "share" her husband was given his life to itself).
5. Her emotional distress and self-criticism exhausted husband's soul.
6. As if her husband did not love her enough.
7. Exhibits husband emotional accounts that were not paid by her father.
Usually the husband of such a wife feels...
1. in his address nominated unjust accusations.
2. He is unable to please his wife.
3. He inept man who can't create a happy marriage.
4. He backed into a dead end ("All my efforts are in vain! ")
5. He is paralyzed "arms" (excessive care) of his wife.
Scenario # 5 - mother rejects the son; the son refuses maternal blessing.
Results:
A. the son appears predisposition not to accept the love that comes from women.
B. Inside the son conceived in the expectation that inspires him, what woman would not approve of it. He begins to expect from women that will "reject" or rejected.
Century, most Likely he will try to raise his price and to create the image of an independent man who does not want to have anything to do with the female. He will do this by:
1. Masculinity (an impressive, athletic build; sex appeal).
2. Career (workaholism, careerism, striving for success).
3. Money (greed, fear to be left in want, hoarding).
4. Power and status (shallow relationships, feelings, manipulating the opinion of the people).
5. Service (star of the first magnitude, shining service).
6. Any role where he can thrive and be unsurpassed.
Consequences:
1. Conflict with female bosses. Under the command refers to the responsible person, the representative body of the control structure.
2. The pronounced self-sufficiency: "I don't need anyone! I myself with all cope! "
3. The inability to trust other people. Especially women.
4. Emotional callousness and indifference to the needs of others.
5. Excessively harsh, hard and rough treatment of human beings.
6. A complete misunderstanding of his own inner world (not realizing that he feels and what's going on in his soul).
7. Those qualities of character that he hates other people, begin to appear in it, or with its assistance in his wife.
8. As a sign of rejection of females can begin to live a homosexual lifestyle.
The situation in marriage:
1. Often not attentive to his wife. Ignoring her, ignoring.
2. Rarely shows signs of attention.
3. Little romantic.
4. Passive and cold in the sexual life.
5. May show severe irritation or even violent anger. It may come to blows.
6. Unconsciously causes the wife to play the role of his mother. In other words, their relationship instead of "husband-wife" begins to acquire the unhealthy nature of the "mother-son".
Married to such a man the wife feels that...
1. she rejected.
2. With her bad turn.
3. She was being forced into a blind corner (frustration, confusion and upset feelings).
4. Husband uses it for their own selfish purposes.
5. She adopted a boy, and not married.
Scenario # 6 - the mother rejects the son; the son begins to fight for motherly blessing.
Results:
A. my son has a tendency to seek love and acceptance from women.
B. the Son will do anything, anything just to feel accepted and needed.
Century Its value and essence he will try to find in other people. For it means a lot what others think about it. These people can be: wife, children, hero, boss, pastor, friends, neighbors.
Consequences:
1. Excessive sensitivity to the needs of others.
2. Compassion and helping others.
3. Increased criticism.
4. A passionate desire to achieve female location acceptance.
5. Great emphasis on appearance, always trying to have a perfect view.
The situation in marriage:
1. Strongly clings to the love and attention of his wife, constantly needs attention.
2. Unhealthy attachment to his wife (suppresses excessive expectations or claims).
3. You may feel foolish jealousy and unwillingness to "share" his wife was given her life for themselves).
4. May force his wife to play the role of his mother.
5. Puts his wife emotional accounts that were not paid by his mother.
6. How could his wife not love, it is never enough.
Married to such a man the wife feels that...
1. she's dying from emotional suffocation.
2. She is driven into a dead end and exhausted.
3. Husband forced her juices.
4. She is a loser, she doesn't.
5. She cannot make her husband happy.
Scenario # 7 - the mother rejects the daughter; the daughter refuses maternal blessing.
Results:
A. my daughter appears predisposition not to accept the love that comes from women.
B. Inside daughter born the expectation that inspires her that, like a mother, other women will not treat it with approval. She begins to expect from other women that it will reject or rejected.
Century, most Likely she will try to raise his price and to create the image of an independent woman, which no one needs. It will do this by:
1. Career (workaholism, striving for success).
2. Money (greed, fear to be left in want, hoarding).
3. Power and status (shallow relationships, feelings, manipulating the opinion of the people).
4. Service (star of the first magnitude, shining service).
5. Motherhood (first-Class, exemplary mother).
6. Any role in which she can show their best side.
Consequences:
1. Conflict with male superiors. Under the command refers to the responsible person, the representative body of the control structure.
2. The pronounced self-sufficiency: "I don't need anyone! I do it all by herself! "
3. The inability to trust people.
4. Emotional callousness and indifference to the needs of others.
5. Can be Flirty (Flirty) and illegible in Dating and relationships.
6. In her life manifests the qualities of character and demeanor, which she passionately despised in his own mother.
The situation in marriage:
1. From her husband, it is expected that he will do everything in order to Supplement her femininity (she wants a husband confirmed and claimed that she is a complete woman).
2. Craves the love of a husband Requires his love, but do not allow yourself to be loved.
3. Overly demanding and critical to her husband.
4. It is not easy to recognize the authority of her husband and obey him.
5. It is very difficult to open his heart to her husband and let him into his inner world.
Usually the husband of such a wife feels...
1. It is accused of.
2. He is unable to please his wife and win her sympathy.
3. His place no value (is of no value in the eyes of the wife).
4. All attempts to love his wife and to build up the marriage vain (hopelessness)
Scenario # 8 - the mother rejects the daughter; the daughter begins to fight for motherly blessing.
Results:
A. my daughter has a tendency to seek love and acceptance from women.
B. Daughter will do anything, anything just to feel needed and appropriate.
Century Its value and essence she will try to find in other people. For it means a lot what others think about it. These people can be: husband, children, hero, boss, pastor, friends, neighbors.
Consequences:
1. Excessive sensitivity to the needs of others.
2. Compassion and helping others.
3. Pronounced criticism.
4. Detrimental, to the detriment of themselves, the desire to win the favor of other women.
5. The contempt and hatred of their own femininity.
6. May try to find solace in a relationship with a lesbian (even if it does not start up such a relationship, she can wear them in your imagination).
7. Can absorb a lot of masculine qualities.
The situation in marriage:
1. High demands on themselves and others can tear a marriage.
2. The tendency to give more time and effort to build relationships with her friends than with her husband.
3. In the shower wife has an emotional hole that requires love and acceptance, and that the husband is not able to fill. As if her husband did not like, she will always be little.
4. Her emotional distress and self-criticism exhausted husband's soul.
Usually the husband of such a wife feels...
1. She doesn't notice.
2. He really is not needed.
3. It is of no value.
4. He backed into a dead end (all my efforts are in vain! )
Author: Sadovsky Yuriy
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