For the first time Vic got married on passionate love. She caught up with her immediately after graduating from high school, right at the bus stop. Modest young man with a Hiking backpack and heavenly blue eyes asked Victoria how to get to the library. Vic laughed. The boy shyly explained that near the library lives of his second cousins, aunt, which he expects to stay until you will pass the entrance exams to the Moscow University. Yes, then not only was the exam, but no one imagined that he would someday be. The library was next to the house Viking parents, and the young couple went to the house through the dark Park. Then everything was like in a bad movie. Bullies, cries and courageous hero. Fortunately the young man was overcome not only in competitions in mathematics, but also on the sports ring. Of course, it made an impression on Vic. Yes, these eyes. She considered already at home, when smeared with iodine scratches on the face of his Savior.
My parents were against it. They wanted Vick first came to the Institute. But before studying whether the girl, when his head fell big love?! In that year, Victoria introductory failed, but I first became a witness at the wedding. "Are you ready, Eugene, to take to wife Victoria... " "are you Ready, Victoria... " - and then a standard text. They were ready for anything, just would not give up; in the young minds of raging passion and demanded access to the body. What here Institute, really. However, Eugene still enrolled. What Vick was beautiful in a wedding dress!
Had they divorced after two and a half years. Divorced too beautiful. Vika smashing the dishes. Plates of the battery, a Cup about the wall, saucer - right in the sink, with overclocking. I don't know why, but the only way. Eugene was also destroyed material value as an argument - smashed the guitar and broke the stool. In short, filed for divorce...
And three years later Vic sent me a wedding invitation. "You are invited... In the day of our wedding, which will take place... " And the signature Victoria and Eugene. At first I thought that the groom is the namesake of the first husband's girlfriend...
Remember the wonderful movie "the marrying man"? The characters of Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger married three times, each time with each other, in advance, of course, having a divorce. True love and impulsive nature of the spouses is an excellent soil for this kind of relationship. By the way, "the marrying man" is not only a cinematic story. Rapper Eminem repeatedly got married... to his wife Kimberly Mathers. "They have that type of relationship, when people converge, diverge again. He cannot live with her and can't live without it. But still they are meant for each other," said Law, a colleague and friend of Eminem. Married and divorced spouses quite rapidly, and any statement of the contractor that this time it's forever, are perceived by the public and by people who are personally familiar with the star, quite skeptical.
Yes, there's Eminem! My neighbor, a middle-aged lady, accountant with extensive experience and eternal woolen coats with collar from the venerable mink, the second time married to her husband. It would seem that middle-aged and serious people, and who knows what passions raging behind closed family doors. So, if you think that the experience and wisdom will be a reliable protection against re-marriage, make no mistake.
And how my friend Victoria? Yes, she was going to marry her ex-husband. "The first time was a passion, " she explained to me. Now in a sense the calculation. Eugene graduated from the Institute and immediately got the job, which others can't even dream. As I rubbed skirt in the office. Who's around me? Or old men, or "hard married middle managers, and with them won't get anywhere".
Over the years, impulsivity Wiki, largely the former the cause of divorce, came to nothing. But there was another, not very pleasant feature of mercantilism. Not that my girlfriend has turned into a selfish grisu, but she began to notice the people some details related to material well-being, which had never paid attention. So, saying that getting married on the calculation that she probably wasn't lying.
For anybody not a secret that when people get married on the calculation, this in itself is already an application for a potential divorce. But sometimes life is such that the calculation has to divorce. For example, Mikhail Boyarsky and Larisa lupian argue that happily married for thirty years. And do not hide that in divorce in 1985. Fake divorce was necessary in order to resolve the housing problem, which is so vital in both capitals. Can this Union be considered terminated? It is unlikely. Rather, it is the case when "stamp doesn't matter". Can a marriage of convenience, be considered real? The debatable question, from my point of view.
Second marriage Genis and Wiki lasted for five years. They quietly divorced. Vic ware not beat - ware was too expensive, sorry. Eugene stools did not break, instead of stools in the house stood on chairs, and they just will not break. Anyway, he was too tired at work, and the beautiful scandals had neither the strength nor the desire.
Routine, routine and boredom is the enemy long happy relationship. They are stronger than impulsivity, scarier than young passion, and even besposhadnij than stupidity. They manage to break the marriage was for love, and for calculating, from gratitude and spite. And what people don't divorced officially, does not mean that the marriage continues to exist.
"Sometimes I felt like I died, " said Vika. So all days are the same, so all expected. Service, Breakfast, Eugene goes, shopping, video, cooking, Eugene comes. Eating, watching the sports channel and falls asleep in the chair. All! I even flowers myself buying. Lilac, I love her. No, I understand that to him once, but still... "
And Vick filed for divorce. And Jack didn't even ask why...
While they still lived in the same apartment, and then she finally slipped into the small, which is inherited from parents. Eugene was not expelled. It seems to me that they could continue to live together because they are each other's way.
A year has passed, again bloomed lilacs. I once bought an armful favorite Viking colors and went to her without warning. What was my surprise when I opened Eugene. "Reconciled? I asked. "We don't quarrel, is expected he replied. - I go sometimes. So... To visit... "
Sometimes it happens that the official divorce requires people to put relations in a less emotional plane. With years of accumulated frustration and fatigue from each other. And if a midlife crisis is selected, spouses and even it may seem that life together is a dead end, from which you can get only one, already fashioned way. And you can start rebuilding your life. But time passes and the old life no longer seems so worthless, and the new one is so attractive. After all, who else knows so well all the habits, tastes, interests of the individual, as no spouse, who lived for many years. To build a new relationship is hard work, much easier sometimes to revive the old ones.
And now before me an invitation with angels and rings. Signatures are all the same - Victoria, Eugene. It seems that this time they decided to sign out of habit. Will the new marriage long? And you know, I think Yes. And if not - what is the difference, because with a stamp or without, but these two are married, even when they live separately. Some would say that three times to marry his own wife - the act of thoughtless men. 've already checked - marriage does not stand the test of time. A moot point. For example, actor Vladimir Novikov married to the same woman... fifteen times. Or so, he just doesn't remember. And does someone dare to say that people who get married 15 times - not made for each other? What do you think?
Author:
Seregina A.
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http://lady.mail.ru/
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