How to grow optimist

Through the whole life of the man carries motherly love which is felt immediately after birth. How much of this love he received in childhood, depends not only his character, but also the future.


You think the kids immediately fall in love with their mothers? No way! For this you need to make some efforts. Inexhaustible mother's love and affection especially important for health and development in the first months of a child's life.




With the love of the baby is due sense of security and confidence to the world. Because man, just born, perceives his environment as alien and frightening. And only a mother can soothe the baby.




Create daily rituals that will help the child to adapt to the world. For example, every time he applied to his chest, sing quiet songs. Soon these songs would be for a child is a good sedative, because in the subconscious imprint bliss associated with your voice.




In the first months of the woman it is very hard (need for purity to watch, and dinner to cook, and wash endless diaper; and all this in between child care). It happens that, no, no, and break the mother to the baby. Of course, that shouldn't be done, but exhausted and sleepy woman is sometimes difficult to hold back.




How to deliver the baby and yourself from such failures, and not to reproach yourself then because you are a bad mother?




Remember that a bad mother, not the one who yells at the child, but the one that screams and finds the courage to ask for forgiveness, if it was not right. With most diapers need to teach children that all people make mistakes sometimes (even adults), and ask forgiveness not ashamed. And if the parents will show it on your example, they will only gain more credibility in the eyes of the kid.




Often kiss their child - every kiss promotes the growth of intelligence of the baby. Don't be afraid to overdo it.




Teach the baby to laugh. The sooner he will learn this, the easier it will be in the future. Tickle the kid for pusika, tell a funny quip. Often take the toddler to the Park, where many children.




By the way, the simplest and the first game that tickles child - hide-and-seek. You can start playing with nine months. The kid is very interesting, when her mother disappears, then suddenly there is a cry: "Ku-ku! " Soon he will begin to retrace your steps.




And most importantly: if you want your kid grew optimistic set him an example to smile more often.

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