Unfamiliar people emotion shake your head, seeing you: "What a pair! ". And you are not a couple. You are just friends. And if it starts to bother, we have a few recipes.In fact, friendship is a pretty good starting point for love relationships. Indeed, in order that it appeared, had to feel sympathy, good to get to know each other, to find common interests and views, to find understanding in General, the same thing that you would need two people to become a couple. The only thing friendship lacks is a sexual connotation, feeding the interest of two lovers from the very beginning. However, no one Sarceda from the possibility of its occurrence later spontaneous or stimulated... one of the parties.
You can endlessly discuss the pros and cons of sexual experience with a man who used to see you as only a friend. And, sadly, often the outcome of such experiments is sad: love does not work, and the friendship ends. This is due, firstly, to the fact that we are arrogant to believe, if we know the person "completely", but the change of position allows you to see in him the qualities that we even could not imagine. With many of them we can easily get by if in friendship, but in love, they can be unbearable for us. And, secondly, a very significant difference between the perception of sex man and woman: what you can count the beginning of the "new reference", it can take just for the event...
All of this is sad, and how to keep their friendship, despite accidentally held the sex, you can dedicate a separate article.
Let's assume that all danger of the event you weighed, and can this stop you: you decided to open the other eye to themselves as a woman.
First of all, be aware of your advantages compared to those girls who are still building his eyes. But at the same time imagine how you can take advantage of it.
You go in the company of his friends, his family - in short, everywhere that he would have to meet his girlfriend.
Your turn: all your friends are sure (as he) that in addition to the friendship between you nothing. Will Saronite them in doubt.
- "Accidentally" let's mention that spent the night at a friend, and then immediately take the words back ("Misspoke, I slept not Lesha, and parents");
- When friends take his calls as if you are calling your boyfriend openly flirt and have fun. Each is likely to support the game, and when you hang up the phone and the rest voprosam stares at you, admit that it was him.
- Buy a sweater exactly like him, and shew yourselves in him before someone from your friends (you can show the picture). On leading questions "not whether it is the sweater" zealously uncinatus, persuade that this sweater is completely different, only yours, and in General, "what are you implying? Let's change the topic! ".
In General, no matter what you come up with - it is important that your with him convincing denial of any suspicion will be even more to tease the imagination of your friends. And even if in jest for you to fixate the name "dove" - you personally, it is only at hand. What is the scope for role play! As in everything, the most important thing is not to go too far and not be funny in their flashy appearances. The thinner the maneuver - the better the result.
Are you aware that destroyed his previous relationships, what he lacks in current and what their expectations are regarding the following.
Your turn: Listening to his revelation, be completely on his side. Try to justify in his eyes the actions of the girls, who caused controversy in one way only: "Maybe you're not so has understood? "... Like no other excuses to not be. Tell me "reversing" the history of himself: "Strange. Here on the contrary I did so-and-so..." Accustom him to the idea that your value system seamlessly combines: often repeat "Understand", "of course! " and "me too". Argue, in what sequence to cut the ingredients for the salad or what is the real cause of the French revolution - in views on the relationship you must have full consent.
You have a set of inalienable rights, such as:
- Calling in the night, because your machine was taken evacuator
- Without warning to appear in his apartment, because another bastard spoiled you karma
Your turn: stories about his personal life, it is recommended
"Glamourising" (no unsightly revelation in the spirit of "I don't excite or everyday: "I Want to he left me polkastra! ")
- Serve with an eye to the proprietary instinct ("Sorry, that didn't answer calls - with this Bob I just about anyone else to think"). If it has a steady habit that you have a meal on Thursdays (the kind you can get), a few Thursdays without you it will start to irritate you have a personal life. At least slightly. Because you had so much fun (after all it was? ) on Thursdays. Or, put another in the new framework, he could send you an SMS when you wanted to? Ask him not to do it after 9 - suddenly you will paramout.
- Present in the past tense. In those periods when your friend rapidly developing events on the personal front, needless to overload him with information about yourself - even if you all just Perfect! ". Then, when you feel there is room for manoeuvre, confess what fools you all the time caught, commensurate with his value system. For example, if your friend appreciates in girls thrift, suggest that your passion was spit on your chops, and he only waited for the opportunity to satyavati in the club. If your friend is very jealous - argue that a completely monogamous, and your pervert offered you this!.. Ask rhetorical questions ("am I so much want?? Just to celebrate the New year together! "), so that his rhetorical responses were only in your favor.
Try to justify "bastard" by his generosity. You need to achieve from each other sane diagnosis: "Not worthy of you! ". Then you can "disappointed in the men's field forever." And here he must remember that he is male. But this is what you are in the heat of the friendship all the time forget. About his bisexuality.
He has to trust.
If the girl from the street may like the look of his car, then you he firmly believes: are you with him for the sake of it. He knows how you behave in different situations taught you how to communicate effectively. He insured with you from surprises (even your unpredictability can be predictable for him) - and thus can always relax near. And if no surprises him drive the longing, your attempt to make a first impression again can be really useful.
Your move: Change the image, the manner of treatment. Do something that will excite his interest and will allow for a second to wonder: "Who is this? ". Arrange so that he watched you in an unusual environment. Flirting in his presence with other men (do this only if you know that your flirt will succeed and will look beautiful from the side). Let him see you with the eyes of other men, not burdened with you friendly relationship.
Just remember: once you've liked him so what was all this time. Try to understand what he was attracted to you and all transformations are not topcite the qualities that have become important to him. Add new reasons you admire but don't take the old ones. By the way, this is what will allow you to save the friendship "if". After all, your friendship in itself is worth a lot.
The situation can help you:
- Arrange so that he caught you for charges on a date, preparations for the arrival of "boyfriend" to your home. It can even help you arrange and light candles and lay the silk sheets.
- You can go to relax together: "They said they had only room for the newlyweds. Will precinema will be champagne to wear".
What could look vulgar in the emerging relationships of the couples, looks innocent here.
The label of friendship allows you a lot:
A touch. You can tickle him, bite his ear, zaprygnut a run after a long absence. Instincts has not been canceled - will podrasnica them: ask him to give you a massage, jokingly poderites.
- "Rough" appearance. Meet him in pajamas or even in one towel after a shower, for example - because "What is this?! I'm like a sister, right? ". Let him castagnet you bra (until it dries nail Polish"), bring it into the shower towel...
- Talk about everything. Taboo topics is not there. You may be questions as to the person with taste: what is better to wear on a date? As a professional: what mistakes were made by photographer, shooting your erotic photo shoot? How to simply trusted person: why you lately drawn to the porn in the morning?.. By the way, joint viewing erotic video ("No new movies I have none. Well, not porn to watch?? Although...") is bad for oaths in mutual friendship, but a well-stimulates potency.
Lift the conversation on this topic: friendship, sex, love - combinations and effects. Probe the soil. Not only frighten its advertising relationship grew from friendship. Better, on the contrary, to Express unsteady doubt in the spirit: "is it Really so? Can't imagine you...". Even if he will answer the same thing, try to imagine him still have - so the brain works.
Their characters. If not, then they immediately get all that are lovers - "their song, "his" joke, "their" places, pictures, where the two of you. One day he can look at it all from a new angle. (Hope, rather than the whole thing will disappoint you).
Source:
Women's information and entertainment portal WDay.ru
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