Most of us are faced with the problem of the relationship with the boss. Increase, increase in salary, business disputes, personal conflict, as a rule, of any work situation you can always find a way. But what if you fell in love with the boss? Caught in the workplace
Marina, age 29
Two years ago I joined a new band and met a pleasant young man who sat opposite me. Through the month of perekladyvanii it for me primaril - came to work early to put in a vase on my table with fresh flowers, had a ride home. One day I invited him to tea, and he stayed with me. We began a whirlwind romance, and soon he was raised, he became my boss. Us is entertained at work we did a serious face, so that no one could understand about us, and in the evening at home played in the superior and subordinate.
Once, I went to his office, and we forgot to close the door. In that moment when we kissed, went to the President of the company and caught us. There was a terrible scandal, and I was fired. But the most disappointing was the fact that my beloved is for me not stood up, too worried about his new position. So I lost my job and once again was disappointed in men.
Tip # 1: Non-trivial situation helped the girl to understand that the person who was next to her, was not what she imagined. Do not be afraid of office romances, because they would not ended, it is always the experience, making the woman more thoughtful and discerning.
Evil tongues
Irina, 25 years
We have a women's team, and the Manager was incredible young handsome man. Before our office every morning has become a battlefield on which converge the employees of all stripes - blonde, brunette, mini, Maxi, shorts, dyed, tanned and actively smelling all the scents of Paris. What moves were not made for him to pay attention to them. Now imagine how many I had of nedobrozhelateli when Vanya once complimented me at all, and then completely fell in love with me. We have to come to work together, go out together for dinner...
And then crept different gossip: what do I expect of the child that I raised the salary because I became the mistress of the head that I love you. In the end I complained to van on gossips, and he said that I need to stop working. He moved my stuff to him, and in a couple of weeks I have truly went on maternity leave! In June our baby turns six months.
Tip # 2 Unfortunately, not all the stories associated with gossips in the office, ends happily. As a rule, the employee is exposed to attacks of colleagues, changing jobs, or survive from the team. So if you have a twisted romance with the boss, try not to flaunt your relationship.
Severe punishment
Elizabeth, age 28
If you want to meet with your boss, I immediately think about how to change jobs. My personal experience shows that to see every day is bad for relationships. It so happened that I fell out of love with his boss, with whom he met two years. He had a family, divorce he didn't want to, but I didn't want to be only a lover.
I went headlong into the work, signed up for dancing, was to deny him the evening dinners and weekends abroad. Then he began to manifest itself not in the best possible way: when colleagues did I pronunciations, strictly watched, so I was not late for work, and if I was late for 10 minutes, started yelling. I thought he was cool and will stop me pout due to the fact that I left him. But he did not stop. Then I Packed up and left.
Tip # 3: Often girls fall in love with bosses, because, one way or another, depend on them. At work the boss is strong, courageous, able to solve any problem. However, this way in everyday life can easily collapse, revealing the most unattractive traits men, who, like others, have their complexes, weaknesses and contradictions. Therefore, we should not exaggerate the dignity of man only because he occupies a high position.
Career is more important!
Olga, 23
When I received the status sweetheart Dmitry Sergeyevich, I immediately lost the ability to love. In fact, my career freeze. He did not give me a step to step, constantly invited me to his office to chat, send love letters in the work mail, "ICQ" he poured endless messages...
At one point I realized that I incredibly love my job, and I do not allow to do it. I started to drive crazy, because I am not a slacker and if he thought I was going to thank him for what he does not require me to work fully, it is big mistake. Once again, when he pulled me their long conversation "about birds", I broke down and said that he would like to write a statement. He certainly was surprised, but seemed to understand why I was so categorical.
Tip # 4 As soon as you become a woman boss, then immediately cease to be in his eyes by the employee, is important for the company. Therefore, passing to the category mistress, it is important to understand that, most likely, working full time will not give you.
Happy end
Victoria, 34
Sometimes I think I lucked out, because, as a rule, the novels with the chiefs finished quickly (immediately after the emergency call to his office) and lead to nothing. I have the same everything went very smoothly. Nicholas was older than me by six years, and oddly enough, my wife had none. He was very keen on working women, including me, did not pay attention.
Once we descended a serious test. Auditors every day we sat in the office and checked, no stalling, do we from taxes. Since then I worked as a chief accountant, I had almost every day to sit in the office until late in the evening and check documents. Nicholas also stayed late.
During this time we a lot about each other and learned, and the General problem we have become very close. Imagine, for the seven years that we worked together, I never paid attention to him as a man, and in those momentous days for us he seemed like a totally awesome person. When verification is successfully ended, he invited me to a restaurant to celebrate success. So that was the start of our happy romance.
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