Typically, new year's eve party starts long before the New year, but there are always girls who any day of December, believe in miracles. For example, that at a corporate party, you can find the man of her dreams. Experience shows that more often are trouble, especially if you succumbed to the entreaties to retreat to a secluded area.
Sex in extreme circumstances (somewhere under the ficus, between the cooler and the copier, in the booth of the toilet, under the stairs or on the table) with a colleague or boss can be like a holiday - but only up until blood is boiling cocktail of alcohol with adrenaline.
Indeed, this "kind" of sex has firmly taken its place among the themed erotic stories. But this is the case when the fantasy is better to remain just a fantasy. All invented story one traditionally end with an orgasm, but not the fact that your feelings will be equally enchanting. And, of course, they make no mention of what will be the further development of events.
Warned, then armed with
At first glance it seems that you and "Prince" are in absolutely identical conditions. Actually men and women relate differently to spontaneous sex without commitment. What do you think is the beginning of a relationship, the man will likely be regarded as a single pleasant event, the continuation of which is not and cannot be. But no one will prevent him to share impressions about "how it was" with friends and colleagues.
In order not to pronounce the sacramental then is puzzled, "How could I... with this?! "enough not to fall into the embrace, not to kiss and not to flirt with a man who at other times you are not interested in. Statistics shows that "sexual intercourse come with the wrong person would like, and most pliable. And malleable-they usually are and the most talkative," says the sexologist Alexander Mishin.
The next day you will completely give up the image of the "women of mystery". The whole office will know whether you panties, not whether the floppy Breasts and what characteristics of your sexual temperament. And you will only have to guess what thoughts wander in the mind of the employee who conducts a business conversation.
Compare sensations! Men are unanimous, counting "one-off" sex positive event. Every second woman feels after it is used, says British psychologist Anne Campbell. Men feel satisfaction, even their self-esteem from this growing. Women begin to worry about their reputation.
Play, hormone?
To calculate succumb to sexual provocation at a corporate party, quite easily.
- Get your calendars and check whether the date of the event with the date of your ovulation (typically, this period of from 10 to 18 day cycle). It was at this time due to fluctuations in hormones any woman experiencing particularly acute need for sex. Ovulation is a factor No. 1.
- A cruel joke can play and alcohol. Especially if you're drinking, not eating, because we cherish the figure, or prefer liquor, which contains a lot of sugar. Intoxication from innocuous at first glance, "Soviet champagne, liqueurs or cocktails comes much faster.
- If you have some troubles in his personal life - it has become too boring, too rough (you constantly fight) or at the moment simply doesn't exist.
To refuse without offending
You sure don't want any intimacy in the team? Be prepared to say "no".
- Keep your distance. Do not agree to leave a "crowded" places. Your consent to retire automatically regarded as consent to sex.
- Watch your poses and gestures at that time, when you say "no". If at the time of failure your body says "Yes", then rest assured, the man will only respond to him and ignore your words.
- Do not look for excuses for your reluctance. Just one single phrase "I do not want, do not attempt to formulate a long-winded disclaimer so as not to offend the man. First, no matter how hard you try, he will still feel resentful. Secondly, your explanation "I don't want to, because... " will be interpreted by them as a kind of game, kind of coquetry. He immediately accepted to figure out how to "bypass" these reasons.
- Careful with drink! The decision to drink "pristavalo can go sideways, so as to calculate the necessary for passing the object, the dose is very difficult.
If this happened
Better to regret than that never happened. In any case, do not blame yourself and do not scold. Tune in philosophical mood.
- For the second day you tormented by remorse? Try to influence it by rational arguments. If the process was held from 11 to 60 minutes, then for so long to think about that so quickly over?
- Can you believe what happened expanding sexual horizons or "fitness with an erotic bent, especially if you managed to have sex in poses that are designed for weight loss.
- Don't be afraid to look into the eyes of a colleague with whom you slept. Practically you gave the man his dream, even erotic. To visit the fairy once not so bad.
- Tell yourself that it wasn't just a fleeting pleasure, but also a new life experience. If the partner mentioned to take a good look at how his story has responded colleagues. Immediately becomes clear how shall apply to you.
If he managed to remain silent, perfect! Now you learn this valuable skill.
We do not encourage you to wear the most "terrible" linen or spend the entire evening alone, carefully hiding from men. Imagine that your task is a new role - not the role of a sex bombs or a perpetual victim of circumstances, and simply more! Try the star party! Who knows, maybe it will help you make up your career in the next year.
Source:
Woman.ru
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