Sunday, December 7, 2014

"Their own and others": the rules of the game


You got a coveted job, passed the qualifying rounds satisfied the duties and the proposed package. But think about it: if all is well, really? Your person is under the supervision of a dozen pairs of eyes. You are the object of attention. Do not be fooled by gentle handling! Most likely, you are deceived, fear, envy, dislike or even despise, because you are a "stranger".


You were not here, when everyone else was sitting at the reports until midnight, when we were organizing the reception and sang Russian folk songs, when the weekend laundered office after repair. You don't know what the accountant Lyudmila family problems, the engineer Daria - industrial services, system administrator Constantine - sports awards. You are not yet aware of why employees rarely communicate with Masha and enjoy drinking tea with Alyona. Opened for You office world matrix. You are inside, but not yet figured out the instruction.





Game # 1. "Word of mouth"


Eugene, a graduate of a technical College, got a job at the time of writing the diploma for the post of system administrator in a small company. Her responsibilities included a simple set of instructions: ensuring cleanliness and order in the office, meeting clients, serving tea and coffee, a decision of small business issues. Appearance its nature does not hurt: always elegant, with a shapely figure in a business suit, she looked. Fulfilled his duties, however, aroused the old employees only irritation and discontent. Seemingly simple situation has grown to conflict organizational scales. When Eugenia in the first month of work for a couple of days it took a "sick" old men interpreted the situation as follows: "Gathered to walk three weeks, enjoys social service companies". His version they provided leadership, listing a list of noted deficiencies in the work of. Director, without hesitation, believe authoritative opinion of the team and decided to dismiss Eugene, without waiting for the end of the probationary period.





Comment


A new person in the company is outside the established social groups in the team. Its main task is to get a quick socialization, to join the leader and become his. In this story the "old-timers" was used a game called "word of mouth". Eugenia was necessary to explain to the officer the reason for the absence before it is known by other team members. Information from the horse's mouth is always better than its revised and expanded versions. Every careless word, including loud "sound" of their plans in the team, can corrupt the employee being on probation.




Game No. 2. "We in the house"




Natalia got a job as an accountant for a trading company. On the first day the team met with indifference. Had the feeling that people just don't see it. Trying to save the situation, Natalia tried to go for lunch together with new colleagues - Irina and Elena. The woman ignored her. By the evening the situation was aggravated by: angles heard a quiet discussion and giggle. The next day workplace accountant was free.





Comment


Everyone probably remembers the children's game the kids are playing catch-up, and when the "danger" closed hands and say, "We in the house". Something similar make and colleagues Natalia. Ignoring them new employee - a kind of defensive reaction, so to speak, was tested. Over time, the fear of a new person goes through, and if well-built the behavior of the novice will become a full member of the team.





Game No. 3. " Frog in the bog"


Sergei, a young engineer, after University he worked as a designer in a large design Institute. Tuned to work to benefit and develop. Elders met him instructions : "first, especially not rests - you still do not appreciate and money will not add. Secondly, their new ideas forget, they are not needed. Thirdly, career growth here don't Shine..." Sergei, listening to the advice of colleagues, after some time he resigned. Happy "Oldies" to protect their jobs, spent, so many young and promising professionals.




Comment




Old Soviet enterprises like today gradually drying up the swamp. The more newcomers employees are efforts, the deeper tighten them into the quagmire of the Soviet attitude to work as a source of social guarantees. These businesses are mostly pensioners, and computer technology is still perceived as unnecessary "gimmick". However, "old" in no hurry to give up their positions to young people. They are afraid of competition and conduct their "election policy". Of course, Sergey hastened the decision of dismissal. To expect rapid career growth and high income in the first year of operation was naive. But the task of the young specialist - purchasing experience. If Sergey has concentrated its efforts in the accumulation of experience, in a couple of years could get a job in a company in a good position.




Game # 4. "Bare - free! "




Galina worked in the archives of eleven years, has obtained the relevant experience and knowledge. However, the special zeal for success was not working. Gave birth to a child, went on maternity leave. After 2 years decided to go to work, but the staff turned out to be unnecessary. They began to talk, spiteful gossip. Department staff had to transfer her to another position, and after some time the situation was resolved.





Comment


The long period the employee is absent from work breaks the established social ties. Two years is quite a long time. Changed the market, legal environment, and new staff. Team members saw Galina "nursing mother" with its endless sick leave, absences in the workplace and need replacement. Galina returned to the starting point - "the beginning of the game." In this case, the transfer to a new place - a competent decision of the personnel Department. The development of new work will serve as an additional impetus for the rapid socialization.




Game # 5. "Grey cardinal"




Julia has passed the competition and became the second Secretary of the head of a large construction company. The first Secretary was Marina: slim beautiful blonde forty years. Julia was her complete opposite: young brunette, a graduate of the prestigious University with the red diploma. Marina saw in Julia his rival. The surprises began with the first day. Allegedly showing sympathy, suggested bored Julia: "If you want, you can go outside for a walk - look what the sun! ". On a clear provocation Julia did not succumb. Then Marina decided to act more cleverly.




On the third day of Julia phoned home from the HR Department of a major Bank and was told to come for an interview. At the new place Yulia haven't had the time to make, orders were unsigned. Julia drew attention to two circumstances: first, she did not send there CV and, secondly, the Bank was on the ground floor of the office where she worked! So she refused to meet.




Marina was beside herself. It was bursting with anger, but there is an obvious conflict occurred. Time has passed. Come feast Valentine's Day! ". In the morning Marina, secretly Julia, gave to all heads of office souvenir. And in the afternoon the storm broke: Julia was dismissed because of a missed Marina a call from the tax office.





Comment


Competition between employees is too often an excuse for care professionals. Wives who work with their husbands, mistresses leaders, stars of the company, close and distant relatives - these categories of staff who are sensitive to the emergence of competitors. Making use of the authority in the first people, it is not difficult to change the opinion of its expert and lead him to a forced dismissal. This situation is especially common for companies, the declaring clan-related personnel policy, when priority is placed kinship and family ties. These games are especially relevant for unmarried women with bright external data and pronounced leadership qualities. Employees caught in such a system, it may be advisable to be as "grayer", modest and not stand out from the crowd. And in the best case - to make friends with "grey cardinals" and to enlist their support.




Office play - part of life in any organization. Your main goal is to win, or at worst, be neutral. Remember, the enemies are not asleep. They prepare a plan of attack and calculate your every move. The slightest mistake can be inflated before the tragedy on a global scale. Always be on the alert. Watch not stand out, sit in a trench and watch the events unfolding on the battlefield. If You really want this job, do not be afraid! The success is guaranteed only to those who go to the goal. So gather your forces and forward to your victory!






Source:

Women's information and entertainment portal WDay.ru
















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