Playing with children of different ages are useful both big and small. Older children know many games provide the General line of conduct, assign roles, and the kids are happy to follow them, and acquiring the gaming experience. If a little something does not work, senior help soothe. The kid sees, what he will become in a year or two, there is the example to follow. For an older child playing with the baby is the lesson of responsibility, the first serious matter, which he directs. The mother can only suggest directions gaming activities and to gently guide the process.Role-playing game
They are perfectly suitable for two-to three-year-old toddlers and older preschoolers, create conditions for joint activities. In role-playing games, the child tries as vividly as possible to Express themselves, to apply the whole experience, knowledge and skills.
"Family" perhaps one of the most popular role-playing games. It is easy to guess that the role of adult family members (father, mother) goes to the eldest child, and the role of the child - the youngest participant of the game. Roles and "scenario development" focuses on the eldest child (co-authored with her mother), kids with great pleasure that I accept the conditions, and acquiring the gaming experience. "Family" goes to work in a kindergarten, sick, goes to rest, quarreled and reconciled. Creating your toy family, children create their own model of family relations based on the behavior and habits of members of his real family. Watching her play offspring, the mother can get a lot of interesting and useful information about what troubled kids, what they see your family actually, what you're afraid of and what would you change in the relationship with her parents and brother (sister).
If the mother is interested to know how children behave when it is not there, you can invite them to play in "kindergarten". Mom will hear and intonation strict governess, and a story about the bully Vovka, which hurts the baby, and to tell an adult your child is afraid. In the game "pop up" all subtleties of relationships in the children's team, and parents will find it useful to know about them.
"Hospital"
- a great game for practicing social skills behavior and expanding horizons. The eldest child "treats" baby, helping him to remember the names of different parts of the body, treatment by a doctor. If the child has a fear of doctors, the game will help to deal with it. Mom can help to build a white coat from old sheets or my father's shirt, tell, what are the doctor what diseases they treat, and give informative conversation about healthy lifestyle, hardening and prevention. There are ready-made kits for a game of doctors that are sold in stores, but it is better to use the items as substitutes. (For example, a thermometer may be a wooden stick, and a glass tube for blood collection - rod from the handle.) This helps the development of fantasy and imagination.
In addition to traditional scenarios, role-playing games, you can also use other scripts. For example, many children travel with their parents from an early age. So why the older child is not to build a "Train" and not take it to the sea passengers younger brother, mom, and all plush animals? Or play the game "Airport", in which you can build the planes of the cushions? In this little game will get the role of a passenger aircraft, and the child is older - the role of the pilot, dispatcher or flight attendants. Mom can play the role of the Airport Manager and tell the children about the various services of this place. The game will help children learn the rules of behavior in public places, to learn more about different professions.
If all old scripts bored and the kids want something unusual, the mother can offer to play "MES". The main objective of this game is not only to acquaint children with difficult and honorable profession rescuer, but also to teach them, if necessary, to act clearly and coherently. For this purpose does not need to burn the apartment or pour water neighbors. Enough to cast the problem and develop an algorithm behavior in people. The eldest child is brave rescuer, which can be both a doctor and climber, and fire, and the driver! The baby may be affected, and the mother is a journalist and a cameraman covering the emergency. Creative thinking the child will find the meaning and idea in the most trivial and banal, from the point of view of an adult things, so don't limit the imagination of his children, let all the most unexpected turn of events will be implemented in the game.
Games-tales
Games-tales also of interest to children of different ages. Two-year-old toddler who is not yet quite understand what was going on, but really wants to participate in the fun, with pleasure will depict turnip; plush Mickey mouse - the mouse, Granny dog - Zucco. An older child may become a Director "mini play", play the role of "father" or "Baba", control toy characters, and my mother read aloud the tale that all participants have not forgotten their role. So, "turnip" struggled holding onto the chair, and each new character is trying to pull. But get it only when soft toys, older brother and mom and dad will come together. Fun bunch is small when the turnip, finally, break off from the chair is a worthy end of the game, it is only necessary to follow the safety rules.
"Kolobok" - another interesting tale is a game that allows the smallest party to stay in the role of the agile and cunning. So what Kolobok still ate all of the other characters he has still gone! Compared with an older brother or sister baby feels a certain inferiority, and this game will raise the child's self esteem and help him to Express himself in a new role. A senior can be a storyteller or a sly Fox. From moms will need prior private conversation with the older child: "We're going to invent a game for little brother (sister) that he(a) felt(a) a large, strong and smart as you! Help brother, if need be, but let him feel the main, it's about him the tale! "
You can also use other tales, in which there are different heroes, big and small animals. ("Teremok", "the Bremen town musicians"). The missing "actors" can be toys, friends or mom and dad.
To run, jump
Outdoor games are important for the development of motor activity, and for the formation of social behavior. Senior in these games is learning to be not only fast and agile, but also patient and generous towards the baby. The usual catch-up is not suitable for uneven-aged children, the eldest obviously faster, and run "half-force" 5-6-year-old children do not yet know how. But to play hide and seek and blindman's buff children are quite able. You can also offer the older child to come up with a dance to fun music and try to teach your child. Just be sure to warn "dance teacher" that the student is just beginning training, and not all movement had also obtained as well as the older. Let invents a simple combination. And the evening performance will gather the whole family!
Develop attention
If you run and jump are tired, you can take kids games on the development of attention.
Saputelli. One of the children is the leading. He says aloud: "the Ear! "and must take the ear. Saying: "The Nose! "for a nose. The second child repeats his actions. After some time, the facilitator begins to confuse the second player, "err": for example, says: "the Nose! "but is taken by the ear. The goal of the second player is not to move. With the function of the host to cope kid of any age.
What has changed? One of the kids puts on the table a few toys, the second read them sees and remembers. Now the second player must turn away or close my eyes with his palm. The first player removes one of the toys. When the second child will turn, he must determine which toys are not enough. The younger the child, the less items used in the game. Gradually, depending on the success and age of children, the game can be difficult. For example, to increase the number of items to put similar toys (blocks, differing in color, and so on). Or not to remove the items, and just swap them. When the player turns, one must ask: What has changed? " The game develops visual memory and attention.
Musical painting. For this game needed 2 sheets of paper, pencils or paint and music. Children sit singly, each with their own sheet of paper and paint and listen to music, and then pick the appropriate colors, images and shapes to Express the character of the music. Each draws on their sheet. Kids on the paper you can put the contours that they will paint. Kids can draw and together on a large sheet, but they do not need to talk. Often in this game drawings smallest are the most interesting and unexpected, apparently, the kids feel the music differently than older kids.
Build without looking. For this game you will need a set of dice. One child sits on the floor beside the box with cubes, and he is blindfolded. He starts to build the highest possible tower. The second child loudly counts how many cubes were able to use before the tower collapses. Now it is the turn of the next child to build a tower.
Tightrope Walker. For this game you will need a thick rope. It lay on the floor with many intersections, loops and bends. The player moves along the rope barefoot, carefully, trying not to come. For participants older can be difficult, offering to jump over the rope on one leg, walking with your eyes closed or to flee as soon as possible.
Sign games
Interesting to kids and sign games. In these games, the eldest child may be leading, that is, to show movement and read aloud the poem, the kid is happy repeats.
In this game for each child there is something attractive: for baby - various movements, for senior - rhythm, content and the opportunity to teach a little something new. For these games it is better to choose the poems small, but very bright, shaped - for example, "Rain" Samuil Marshak:
The sky is blue
Rode thunder, (Clap hands over head)
And all is silent again. (Finger to lips)
And a moment later we hear (Hand to his ear, listening)
How fun and fast
All green leaves, (Connecting the palms rustle)
All iron roofs, (Stomp feet)
For flower gardens, benches, (Knock her fingers on the chairs)
The buckets and watering cans (Knock her fingers on the floor)
Span rain knocks.
You can use funny little poem:
Sleeps (Handle under the cheek) on the ice (Small semi-circle of hands)
The whole day (Large circle with arms) Thick (puff) Little
(Represented by the two fingers) Seal. (Hands along the body, the fingers in different
hand, rocking)
At the lazy restapi (the Knob under the cheeks) Turned into flippers, paws (Hands
stretched out, hands alternately up and down).
Make your peace, make your peace, make your peace...
I would like to say about the conflicts that may arise in the course of the game. Their appearance is inevitable, because the children in the 3 and 6 years of age already have their own opinion, but because of their age still can't put themselves in another's place and look at the situation from the outside. Selfishness at kids - the natural thing, to shame for it not necessary, but to help break the conflict is. Ask children to understand yourself - not quite right, better mother to intervene, as it did not come to fight, otherwise the joint, the game will end in tears and insults. The mother in any case you should not talk to the older child: "Give to him, because he's small, and you won a lot! " Senior kid can not to show his jealousy, but in his soul there is always the fear that with the advent of the younger began to love less. And he really did not understand what is the relationship between age of the brother and the game together, and why it should actually yield. But if mom says so, so small to be better and love them more. At the same time and younger cannot afford to use age advantage". Therefore, when parsing conflict age should not be. The mother should not forget that in a difficult situation more often to blame both. Better to listen to each child, not interrupting and not letting another interrupt. Then each in the presence of another to explain what exactly he was wrong and how can I do to solve the problem. And then try to arrange between children of constructive dialogue, in which all together will be able to find a compromise solution.
Encourage cooperative play your children, even babies already have different interests, preferences and wishes. Invent fun with them, because a brother or sister for many years to come will remain the relatives, friends and loved ones, so let them have will remain bright memories of jointly held a fun childhood.
Source:
Razvivashki
No comments:
Post a Comment