Why the child does not want to learn?
Ask your child what he learns? "For mother", "in order to get five," because all children must go to school"? The wrong answer. Even a first-grader should know: the education he receives for himself and his future.
When a good preschooler becomes careless student, parents accused of, first of all, the school, at least - of the child, almost never themselves. In fact, just the opposite: most of the problems, one way or another, triggered by the parents. The desire to learn can be caused by different reasons. Some children lose interest in learning the second class, the other in the fourth or fifth, third in adolescence. If the child does not want to learn from the very beginning, the reason, as a rule, in his psychological unwillingness to go to school.
So in 6-7 years. More talk about school: how, what, and how many years there taught; the senior classes differ from younger; what is the Abitur. Show the heir to his school exercise books, diaries, letters, certificates. See how the interest in children this information!
First grade - the first disappointment...
Well, what can I do if my child wanted to go to school, but starting to learn disappointed. You know that he can count, but why it is so bad it makes in school.
Answers "why? " can be three: the teacher, laziness and shyness.
To select the first teacher is no less a work than to furnish an apartment, and therefore does not means you cannot let things take their course. Come, meet, and chat with the future first teacher of your kid because this person will have your child 5-6 hours a day. Think about whether he would be with him interesting, sane or not. Find out how the parents respond from previous students.
Of course, lazy kids there, but there are lazy adults. All because of you, mom and dad, the child can grow lazy. For example, he will certainly become lazy, if it is to feel that others care how hard he engaged in mental activity or do any kind of work that they do not strive to get pleasure from made, how is learning in school.
Shy children are usually due to low self-esteem, which is not groomed and nurtured by their parents. But, if the child itself is not shy tell him that modesty is a disadvantage. Then he will grow cautious, but confident going in a person's life.
Motivation
And why, in General, need all this headache in the square? Why Hortitsa on textbooks when you can play ball? Here is the most difficult thing to explain to a child, because he thinks reality, and you future. But whatever there may be, locate words to explain why he should learn.
First, a specific set of knowledge, confirmed good results is the most reliable place in the world of possibilities.
Secondly, a good education will help to diversify his or her own interests and, therefore, to go beyond the society, which you have long outgrown.
Third, convince him that the more useful the information will be in his head, the more chances not to be trapped or, conversely, do not miss something important and interesting.
And, fourthly, to be high today is just not fashionable. But it is good to learn and to understand, at least in one or two subjects now considered the norm. To be successful, including, in education it is fashionable, prestigious and stylish.
Why learn when you can "marry"?
Today, many children are much smarter than us at their age. And to the question "why are you so bad learning", they will easily answer that it is not necessary - you can just have a good marriage.
And, really, why? Why do we learn? If you think about it, each of us has our own reasons for this. Some go to school and learn, receive the mark, because it is demanded by parents. Other - because everyone does it. Others because they like the process. Continue endlessly. But perhaps all or nearly all go to school to get a Foundation, it is necessary that you will need in later life for everyone. So, parents, please remember this and do not ask for much, but do not spread pupils.
Source:
Women's Magazine
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