She inspired genius at creating masterpieces of music and painting, she devoted most of the novels and poems, and in ordinary life, love is self-denial, a sense of not recognizing obstacles and capable of any sacrifice, - the dream of every woman. However, there are cases when the worship of the object of passion takes so ugly that it inevitably begin to think about the benefits of the restrictions.Love me as I love you
Fanatical love is very different. Not betternot, not the strength of feeling, not depth of suffering and not faithful distinguish it from other forms of attachment. How does beloved, if you are ready to relationships, what it is and what he actually wants, the fanatic of love it's all the same. I would say more, he is still who he is this the most beloved. A man in the Prime of life, or not experienced the feelings of a tender young man, whether he likes for Breakfast porridge and does a weakness for blondes, does he have children or is he a bust of an unknown writer at the metro station "Kitay-Gorod". Because the main thing here is the process. Love is wonderful! Bow is amazing! To sacrifice is noble! And what, whom, to whom and why - is not so important. And in this sense Telegraph pole is even more suitable for giving an object than a particular living person with their personal characteristics. He doesn't need clean socks and glazhenii shirt, he has no unscheduled trips which fall picnics, he neither drinks nor smokes. Money is not making money, but not spending, again. I will say, it was impossible to fall in love? Fullness! He is tall, monumental, solid and unflappable! What is not an alternative to the current spineless creatures and men not be called. In short, the same all-consuming and all-encompassing love that the fanatic gives the most perfect form of feelings, in fact just the complex rather primitive sensations of a man, unable not to love, and even love. That is, to experience a real interest in the other person and try, that is, to feel his feelings, thoughts, hopes and aspirations.
Actually, this is the secret of the usual nerazdelennoj such love. Having no idea about the tastes and preferences of the chosen one, the fanatic is acting according to the script. Put flowers birthday, a jar of raspberry jam as caring for the ill and Valentine for February 14? So will. To stop and think about whether we need selfless loving once. The dramatic situation does not allow. Because love in this genre, too, relies on well - defined laws passionately, desperately and painfully.
Such incredible love some N. dispensed To a. for nearly three years. To say that It. our poor little N. repeatedly rejected. He told her from the outset in General stated that their meeting was a mistake, since the beginning-it is not considered. It is not so. They met at a party of mutual friends, which segued into another party of mutual friends, which.like a gentleman, and tried his new friend to be sent home by taxi, and honestly even walked her to the Elevator. By the end of the second day of friendly drinking, you know, in our time, not everyone is capable of. What was his surprise when N.completely wrong describing his actions as an attempt to quickly get rid of it, accused him of callousness and selfishness. And the argument she had to confused young man was - she loved it! And so it happened: N. continued faithfully to love It., harassing him with phone calls, text messages, random appearances on similar parties common friends and prefabricated scenes of jealousy, without worrying about what was in this situation myself surrounded in a literal sense her love. In General, lucky guy. It is a pity that the traces of N. and To. lost in the rapid flow of life events, although I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out that this "love" is still alive. I was very persistent girl.
All just for you
The question of why some people do not live and not lubitsa quietly, is one of those eternal, the answers to which, though there is a great variety, and accurate and faithful still will not find. Because to get such a sacred and simultaneously demonic sense typical not only for those women, who is popularly referred to as simply ysterectomy. Sometimes it pulls in his lair and completely positive and lovely in all respects ladies. In a sense, even a very modest and unintelligent acts not able inherently. She lives, heart, quietly and peacefully, and that her husband has, and she loves him, and without a second thought and soul negarive he chops every night. And then wham! rock man! Handsome, which is small, clever and ducky - in General, nowhere to run. And all it is still quite satisfactory state personal life ceases to satisfy her completely. And because caring nature and worrisome nature do its thing, and passion it takes the form of constant care and care and support under the patronage elect. Nothing really wrong with it is one solid benefit and pleasure. Up. While the evidence of the futility of action becomes obvious not only to all others, but the fan. That's when it hits the real tragedy. Because deep down she was hoping. The history associated with suicide attempts and self-mutilation from wasted feelings happen, just with such meek and harmless creatures.
L. was responsible and Executive employee of his Department, cute and smiley lady, never forget to congratulate another birthday cooked pies. In General, to say it was nothing, because their problems colleagues she never bothered, and behaved as if the problem never was. So when she didn't come to work without the phone slightly thetemperature, no one was worried. Next month when she quit, too, once in a hurry, hardly anybody was wondering why. And only after six months on the new year party, someone blurted out: "And remember L.? Because boss retired. It turns out, courted, while the wife a couple of times not caught her in his office with some regular pies and not to roll her house a few arguments". That L. on the eve of his dismissal was hospitalized with a heart attack, it became known later, when he retired already the boss-Heartbreaker.
Only next to be
Love blinds is an indisputable fact. Yes, and how it will be without illusions, when it has long been known that there are no ideals. And even the most harmless the lack of a loved one sooner or later you may start to annoy so that love and no I do not want, and loneliness starts to seem quite a pleasant way to spend the rest of days in the society of the faithful dog, and Canaries. But fanatical love differs from adequate relations with the ins and outs of exactly what self-deception is the essence of it, and the platform that it is built. That is, except the illusions nothing in it and no. Even when it lasts for years and even when in relationships involved both sides. And deception tends to unwind. Because the truth about what the secret is always clear, no one has been canceled.
. loved. at first sight. Or it seemed so. To him she was already married, where everything ended very sadly and to no avail, so in relationship with. she rushed without hesitation, in the hope that even in this time for sure forever. . took her feelings and courtship indulgently. Initially. Then, going into a rage and taste and Smakov that girl serious, some rather spoiled. And then quite insolent. Good, you know, quickly. AND WHILE. was good. In the first marriage she had learned to tolerate, but here practiced these skills in full. Offensive and vulgar words, lack of basic care and care - think, the problem. Man-that in itself is positive, thorough, money in the house carries, on the side does not look well and why are you looking for some good. . did not lose his presence of mind and a cheerful attitude. And then she just left. Without quarrels, drum, and, incidentally, explanations. Leaving behind the scenes details about what a surprise it was for.will quote only one sentence: "sorry for the time spent. I could be all these years, happy with someone who loves me".
Author:
Peregudova Yu
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