for males,
whose name currently dropped from memory.
Fear to communicate with strangers can seriously ruin your life. Fortunately, to develop this skill is quite simple. As soon as you start, you will not be able to resist the temptation to know new people, because it captures.
Most importantly: getting acquainted, we gain experience.
For the most part the people are friendly, open and happy to chat with each other. You only need to make a little effort to overcome this barrier. Every person is an opportunity to learn something new. He will tell you about yourself? As he lives and interacts with the world? People hold so much interesting information!
Getting to know new people, you can learn a lot about myself by reading their hints, body language, considering their words. In addition, you will be able to build this type of relationship, as a business contact. He saw the man, you will learn much more than is written in the resume.
All we are looking for your soul mate, and when we see someone attractive, I'm afraid to come and talk with him. And how do we find love?
Now that you know the benefits of communicating with strangers, you need to acquire the ability not to pay attention to the failures. The key is not to take everything to heart. 95% of the negative reactions has nothing to do with you. Most likely, the person just a bad day or you caught him at the wrong moment.
- Who are you?
- Fairy.
"But why with an axe?
Yes the mood for something not very...
Maybe that person hurt someone else, and it seems that you are also not the best intentions. Or maybe it's just not a very good man, and nothing interesting conversation with him you will not know. Instead of worry of failure, think about the reasons that could push a person to such a reaction and which do not have any relation to you.
The hardest thing is to start communicating. While you do not have enough experience in building successful relationships, you will be nervous and feel uncomfortable.
Start small. If you are frugal by nature, it is best to start slowly. Look the person in the eye, smile, say "Hello". Consider the possible words to start the conversation.
Could you comment on something. If you see something interesting, say a few words about it. Even if it doesn't relate directly to someone, people will certainly notice you and respond.
Rib. If a good joke came to your mind, immediately raising her. If someone will laugh, we can assume that the start communicating properly.
And that's all. You want concrete results? Here we go then. Where can I learn? Remember the movie "Moscow does not believe in tears"? There Katia talks with Lyudmila on where to find a life partner. Yes anywhere! In companies, hotel, leisure, theatres, museums, exhibitions, libraries, clubs.
With my second husband I met in the club "Lerach". Together we floated on rough water kayaking and catamarans, until the surge of adrenaline from a sense of mortal danger has not left us in the arms of each other.
At school and at work (as in the movie "the Most charming and attractive"). With her first husband I studied at the Moscow energy Institute in the same group and fell in love at a party, casually pressed against him and felt the response excitement.
On the street (if a stranger decent in all respects, if you are ready to leave all of your existing phones, if you are ready right now to go to your home where it now sits your mother, and so on). Men, initiating an acquaintance on the street, often oriented to eat and a brief flirtation, but if you do find an original way to draw attention favourite men, familiarity can develop into a strong friendship or love affair.
Transport is also possible. And if you do not use public transport, ride on cars, and the traffic is quite possible to get acquainted.
I recently had such a case. I'm going on the third ring in a monstrous traffic jam from Borodino to the Prospectus of the World. The food in the second row on the left, and the left goes white "Mercedes" and as soon as equals with me, honking his horn. At first I did not understand what he was flashing me. And then I worried might think, the wheel has been lowered or something not so... Lowered the glass, screaming at him: "do Not understand! " And he lowers his passenger glass and yells, "Such a pretty girl! Why not smile? " I was out! But it's nice! And, if it was free, they could get it from the glove box and showed him the poster with my mobile phone which I have in case of a second Parking nearby (to the driver, whose car I was locked could call, to Express their painful emotions and to ask him to release).
There are plenty of other places and ways to explore. But still it is best to meet in those places, where men looking for Dating. Switch bars, restaurants, discos and Nightclubs, where do the pickup and hang out Lovelace, seeking new experiences and easy unobtrusive sex.
Registered in social networks and Dating sites. Write in the questionnaire the aim is to find a soul mate. Thus, we discard most of the seekers of sexual adventures. But, of course, not all of them. You still will pour indecent proposals, representations of prominent body parts and other vulgarity. Do not worry and do not take to heart. You in any case do not want to offend! Either ignore such messages, or respond to, for example, a joke.
If you have a sense of humor, then you are extremely lucky! All people are looking for positive emotions, joy, laughter and smiles. Write a questionnaire in a joking manner, and men will listen to you. If you are very serious woman or you are not up to laughter, do not worry. Not scary! Compensate unbridled optimism, but without excessive fanaticism. Keep a sense of proportion.
Describe the scope of your interests as vividly as possible and romantic, do not hide their achievements in sports, Hobbies exotic travel and talents in the arts. If you play, sing, dance, write poetry or prose, oil paint or watercolor, create monumental sculptures, like Zurab Tsereteli, weave macrame grow wild cress in permafrost conditions, like movies and theater, plant flowers in your vegetable garden or raising of domestic animals - be sure to emphasize this in your profile.
If you have no passions in the arts and do not have any talents, focus on the description of their spiritual relationship to the opposite sex! Write what you want to love and be loved and ready to surround their darling care and warmth.
There are two of each:
"I met a girl who promises to surround me with love, care and affection. What do you think about that?
- I think, you will come out of the environment.
Put in your profile as much as possible your photos. At the same time try to choose a charismatic characterizing you as a person and emphasizing your vibrant personality.
I'm in the process of finding my ideal partner was the case when I happened on a photo of a young Khodorkovsky that he was unrecognizable). I went on a date after a lively correspondence and pleasant telephone conversations. I also experienced great disappointment, seeing a person of Caucasian nationality. No, I in no case not nacionalista! But when I corresponded and talked on the phone, I imagined a man with a Slavic or European appearance, and immediately turned the meeting, as soon as I saw the real image of his counterpart.
So don't try to deceive anyone, it is you will turn out badly.
Source:
School of life
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