Rules of good cunnilingus

Men sometimes start cunnilingus with this expression, if they are going to storm the impregnable fortress or take a flight to the moon. They are as serious and focused, fully aware of the importance of their mission and approach to the matter seriously. It is with such persons brave heroes were rescued beloved from the clutches of dragons (or, at least, brandishing his spear in front of windmills). One thing becomes immediately clear: if a man begins to cunnilingus, he emphatically and categorically going to bring us great pleasure.


With pleasure, however, is not always the case. The dedication with which men rush into the breach, has not, unfortunately, nothing to do with our idea of tenderness and affection. The passion men try to put in your mouth all at once, that there may be placed, nibbled away at, lick like a cat kittens, and especially zealously cultivate the language of the clitoris. And so uncomfortable for them at this point to say how much they make superfluous and unnecessary, which is a pity both him and yourself: like trying, but to sense from these efforts there. Sometimes you want to take and write an open letter to all men at once, so they can once and for all realized their major mistakes and stopped to drill our language, as if there you'll find the oil. And because of the rules of good cunnilingus, actually, not so much - much less to me than the rules of a good Blowjob. You can remember.





The first rule just like the world. Real pleasure from oral sex, the woman will receive, only if everything is done slowly and as gently. The faster and the more a man works as a language, the worse the result will be. Increase the tempo is only towards the end, and even then not much can ruin everything. Cunnilingus is a kind of prelude, even if it ends with an orgasm, so no need to hurry. The most stunning result is obtained when the excitation increases, and the rate does not change. It's worth to remember and to keep their emotions in hand.



Second rule: no need to invest something for cunnilingus not intended. It is best to use the tip of your tongue, hold them, barely touching the skin. But the lips better to help as little as possible: unlike men, women are practically indifferent to the ingestion of" lips and such "posasyvaniyu". Forget about the teeth, the nose and the chin, do not need rooting and dig - it will not give any results, and the chin should be kept away: he, incidentally, is prickly.



The third rule: to avoid this stupid ingestion and posasyvaya labia, you need to prepare the area - just to reveal their fingers. And the man will be more convenient and nicer woman. And the anticipation of touch language "opened" the clitoris is already capable of not a little exciting.



The fourth rule as for techniques directly cunnilingus: we should not concentrate on one point! Close processing of the clitoris, even the most gentle, after half a minute will cause discomfort. Better to concentrate on the area around the clitoris, returning to him from time to time. And do not forget about the vagina - there are also many nerve endings. Well sometimes to pay attention to the anus, but not really get carried away, especially if the woman lies on her back in a posture to receive such affection is not too convenient. Better expand the partner on the belly or put her on all fours.



Rule the fifth: help yourself with your fingers. This does not mean that in a minute after the start of oral caresses to move to a more intense movements and simulate sexual intercourse. Just to add variety to the process and faster to bring a woman to orgasm, sometimes not for a long time to introduce a finger into the vagina and stimulate, for example, the point G. If your woman likes anal sex, introduce the finger into the anus (this can be done not even looking up from the main classes). But first you have to look at the condition of your nails. If you sheared the last time a month ago, you can easily scratch the delicate skin, and is generally considered a crime. Well, have a conscience, in the end, do not climb the same finger alternating between the anus and the vagina, it displays themselves.



And the last rule: for a good cunnilingus need to kill yourself in the egoist. No matter how professional you didn't consider himself, in two minutes you miss. Get ready for a long oral caresses, alternating with the work of your fingers, think about her and listen to her if she didn't mean to simulator orgasms, you will easily feel what touches she likes the most.


By the way, do cunnilingus men like much more than they used to talk about it. Perhaps they want to win and on this front, to consider themselves brave heroes, capable unselfishly to satisfy their women, without receiving anything in return. So we will be lenient to them and give them the opportunity to combine business with pleasure: amuse his pride and bring us pleasure. In the end, what they still need to be heroes, not as with us.

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