Statistics shows that over time, the number of homosexuals is practically unchanged and is about 4%. In addition, there are people who come in homosexual and heterosexual relationships, preferring the first. They are often referred to as bisexual.
Andrey (29 years, PR Manager): B - this is a special story. Poor girls, who are the guys who are bi, poor boys, who falls in love with bi boys... There is selfishness... the love There is, as a rule, only myself... so far so good - a guy with you, as soon as the conflict - he closes the door and returns to his girl... you are suffering with him perfectly. Continue around the circle. This, of course, an idealization, but it is close to life".
Sasha (18 years old student at a medical College): "I love not the body, I love a person. I see no difference between the sexes. But it's not bisexuality, I think that bisexuality does not exist. There are heterosexual people who have homecontact and Vice versa. I'm gay, who had heterosexual contact. Bisexual is a very loose people who don't care with whom to sleep".
According to various sources this category increases the total number of people who are prone to homosexual relations, even up to 10%, i.e. every tenth man of Mature age has a homosexual relationship. If we add to this 1% who calls himself asexually, that is, for any reason absolutely refuses sex life, we will see that the number of so-called marginals, is about 11-12%.
Maxim (23 years, musician) : "Homosexuals not as much as they think, but they are not so little, as I think heterosexuals".
On the prevalence of homosexuality is almost not influenced by neither the educational nor the legislative initiatives of the society. This suggests a genetic component in the development of homosexuality. It is obvious that the different pace of development of the genital and brain structures, coinciding in time with the phenomena in human life, lead to deformation of sexual desire. For example, can be accelerated sexual development.
Andrey
(29 years, PR Manager): "When I was about 4 years old I went with my parents to the beach, and watched the two guys who were older than me... Dad asked - "Where do I look" (apparently, I very carefully watched). I replied that I was out on that guy. The father asked, "why? "I just said that I very much like... Dad said, "well, those girls do you like? " I said Yes, like you, but that guy is better. I didn't ask any questions. I this case I remember very well... can Even describe the face of that guy and the shape".
In this case, the first signs of sexual attraction may not appear in 12-13 years and 8-10 years. This occurs during the period of primary school age, when sexual desire is not necessarily can be heterosexual is pointed. Very unearthly object in this period - a person of the opposite sex. In this age there are the most sustainable forms of homosexuality that are not amenable to correction.
Secondary, non-nuclear forms of homosexuality arise, on the contrary, when the delay of development. Representatives of this category as easily enter into homosexual sex, so easy, and depart from them. Some of them may become asexually - persons completely indifferent to sex. In life they choose any classes that allow you to sublimate sexual energy (the practice of religion, science, art, literature) and not to do mad work: to have a heterosexual partner, to suffer, to stand under the balcony, to fight with rivals, to win the heart, to meet her parents, to impress and so forth. This is terribly hard work, natural to man, stimulated by hormones, it seems completely stupid and worthless class.
Sasha (18 years old student at a medical College): "I feel gay when I was 14. While I was in school, I thought about gay, and I felt like an outcast. I don't know why, maybe my appearance gave them reason to think so. Gay I wasn't, I liked girls. But all stubbornly thought I was blue. Further developments: my girlfriend had a friend gay. I was curious, and I decided to meet him. This knowledge has changed my life. I realized that what I was missing".
In the psyche of people with nontraditional sexual orientation also have features. Research conducted at the University of California in recent years has shown that homosexuals brain works the female type. Therefore, speaking about the organization of mental functions, it can be argued that the prerequisites of nonconventional orientation 30% genetically programmed by 40% due to the environment (culture, education and so on) and 30% is the personality of the psyche. Hence, in the formation of homosexuality has a definite value and genetics, and the environment, and personality.
We all... bisexual?
Author:
Agarkov C.
Source:
Our Psychology
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