Women and gay men have always found a common language, and this friendship for decades turned and cultural exchange, and useful for both sides natural symbiosis."In California there are only three types of men: married, are in the process of divorce and those who have come to make you packing", - complained in the 60-ies of the star of romantic comedies Doris Day. Having gone through four failed marriages, 87-year-old actress lives modestly in the wilderness, and they say, love alone to empty the nearby bars. Being very conservative educated, German by birth, Dei has never recognized their fans homosexuals, who became her faithful audience after the release of popular and light sex comedies with Rock Hudson, the handsome Hollywood actor, whose homosexuality Studio concealed, as a military secret, so as not to alienate fans.
Another Hollywood star Joan Crawford, unlike their colleagues Marlene Dietrich and Greta Garbo did not place sexual experiments with women, on the contrary, bathed in the adoration gay, regularly arranged purely male party for a narrow circle, and having buried fourth husband, suggested Gaia-Director George Cukor to get married, to spend as she put it, "aging with dignity". Cukor, who knew how to actress hard in life, politely refused. The result of the friendship Crawford and cukor was not a life together, and several films, including real classic "Women", where Joan played the cunning clerk of the perfume Department, otmuchow husband at meek sheep. But until the American spectators 30-ies condemned razluchnitsa gay watched the movie because of it - she had a sharp tongue and impeccably dressed.
Women loved to play a significant role in the lives of gays. Often it was the role of the Trustee, and gay loyally paid friends in the same. Women always without second thoughts discussed with their gay personal problems. Friends don't always do, as you know, today's friend may be tomorrow to be the opponent. For "creative" gay designers, choreographers, Directors and artists, women often acted as models and muses, which embodied their ideas. In the middle of the last century, many Actresses and models prefer this kind of relationship, because gay-creators didn't have to sleep, as with heterosexual artists, Vrublevskaya in their muses. However, sometimes these unions ended tragically in 1996, a model of the Wallis Franken, who married the designer bisexual Claude Montana, jumped out of the window, unable to bear his depression and beating. But the sad story is the exception, usually relationships gay-creators with their girlfriends were fruitful and long.
What Western society has become more tolerant in their attitude towards gays, the more the idea of "gay as a friend" penetrated into popular culture. To the 90-th years, gays have become not enthusiastic fans and participants of the action along with their idols. Madonna, who was in the 90s at the peak of his form and druznivka society, it would seem that outrageous antics, actually wisely played on the readiness of the heterosexual majority to see on stage and in videos of open homosexuals. And if its predecessors in pop music - cher or Barbra Streisand - diva existed separately, and gay-fans - separately, Madonna appeared surrounded by feminine men, wisely using overgrown subculture to expand its army of fans. The roles were reversed - now not women inspired the Creator of the gay man and the woman-the artist used gay as colorful stage support.
Further, the dam burst, and almost every other American TV series wrote the story of one or two gay heroes, realizing what will the audience. The movie quickly hauled. Julia Roberts regained the title of Queen of Hollywood after several roles in commercial flop films, almost giving the winning replica in "the Wedding of my best friend" (1997) open Gaia Rupert Everett, who was friends with in life. The success of the film once again illustrated the relationship of women and gay men - women are always ready to share with friends-gay place at the top to save yourself a step just above. Unfortunately, Everett remained a prisoner of one role and later lamented that he had made his sexual orientation public - Yes, the audience was ready to look at fun gay in the role of friend of the main character, but the role of the protagonist never. And Everett decided to enter the same river twice - starred, of course, with Madonna - who else? in almost a sequel to "the Wedding of my best friend" drama "Best friend". Here the writers are already "allowed" him and Madonna sex by drunk, then to embroil due to General child. The film flopped at the box office largely due to the fact that repeated someone else's formula and could not say anything new criticism, however, was charged with failure bad game Madonna and lack of lightness and irony in "the Wedding" with Roberts).
Less than five years ago, Jennifer aniston, who succeeded Roberts on the post "darlings of America" appeared in the center of the scandal left her equally famous husband brad pitt for Angelina Jolie. America was buzzing, the tabloids were sold like hot cakes. And what did aniston in this whole mess? Moved to live with his friend-Gaia, the stylist who made her famous hairstyle from the TV series "Friends". However, who else can rely on in difficult times, how not gay, which made you a master grooming decades?
Relations of girls with gays in our country were similar to friendship Jennifer aniston with stylist. When we bloomed beauty, girl with delight discovered these interesting, well-groomed guys who could give del ing Board and not claimed their Boyfriends. Sympathy was mutual - there is nothing more boring male company. Gay men and women as if you are living in some perfect, corrected by the nature of the symbiosis - first introduced second with unnecessary heterosexual guys and gave tips about beauty and fashion, girls acquainted gay men with other gay men and invited them as gentlemen, when these gentlemen began to behave is not gentlemanly. After the success of the TV series "Sex and the city" every decent girl considered a matter of honor "to have personal gay", his Stanford for themselves, local Kerry Bradshaw. Old joke Comedy actress Rosana Barr: "God invented gay, so that was plump with whom to dance", is realized in life, except that the passage about fat women; the charm gay amenable to all the girls, except absolutely conservative.
But today it is already difficult to attract the attention of one the fact that you are gay. In the end, no matter who does your hair to sex it has nothing. On the question of why girls are friends with gay men interviewed for this article give the most incredible answers. For example, one theory is that girls like to arrange a personal life friends who are homosexual, because subconsciously unable to accept their free lifestyle. The logic is this: if I am destined to marry, have children and put up with dirty socks single men, why my friends can afford not to marry, to find their partners every week and live completely without obligation? No, let him settle with regular partners and will be as all. There is another theory: women love to bring gay with each other, because, again on a subconscious level, they like to imagine two men in one bed - just the same as heterosexual guys love looking at lesbians.
But the most interesting response was unexpected: "I don't think about the sexual orientation of the person with whom you want to communicate. If he will be happier, because I accidentally someone introduced, I'll be happy. But specially by pandering won't do. I think it is vulgar. It seems that in the history of relations between the girls and gays coming to a new stage.
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Obamov B
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