Today the eternal question "career or family" haunts the beautiful half of society. Increasingly women decide to wait, not to rush things and to surrender his beloved profession, denying himself a pleasure to become a mother.
About the simple truth that children are the cornerstone of the family, was known by our ancestors, that's why the word "family" root "SEM" means the seed of procreation. Why women today to indulge in the happiness of becoming a mother and raising children?
On the issues of Women's Magazine replied successful woman and a wonderful mother that one day I was faced with a difficult choice.
Vlada Litovchenko: "For me personally, the children were always incentive"
Vlada Litovchenko, business woman, founder and President of the charitable Fund "Abduraman children - the future of Ukraine", recently a student of the Diplomatic Academy of Ukraine under the Ministry of foreign Affairs, adviser to the Minister for family, youth and sport, Miss Ukraine, a wonderful mother of two daughters.
Do I need to choose between career and children? When is the best time to plan the birth of a child?
No matter how often modern women about their career and social activities, I am of the opinion that the most important thing in a woman's life - a happy family and children. For me personally, the children were always an incentive. Because the responsibility of the mother, which fell on my shoulders, have saved me from many of the wrong things and even helped make some progress in your career. I have worked all my life, because it was necessary to think not only about themselves but also about children. Here in my life it happened that my career I have done with children. And when is the best time to plan a baby? This question is very individual. First daughter Margarita I gave birth, when I was nineteen. Younger, Christina, was born nine years ago.
Whether impede children's career?
Personally, for me children and now is absolutely not an obstacle career, but rather the opposite. Thanks for your daughters, I strive not only to make money, but to be the best in everything, to give them an example. And now, my daughters know that in order to achieve something in life, you need a lot of study and work; in order to look good you need to exercise, eat more fruit and vegetables, get enough sleep, and not to sit all night in a smoky clubs. Margaret and Christina, too, strive to be successful. And I am very proud of.
How do You manage to balance work and family?
I really work a lot and by virtue of their employment may not give the family as much time as you'd like. But my family don't resent me for it. But on the contrary always support and even help in some business matters. I'm very grateful to them and try to do everything possible to ensure that children felt in the mother's real support and protection.
What did you have to refuse to combine career and family?
There is a myth that if a woman works, she must sacrifice herself, and little attention is paid to the family and raising children. It seems to me that in modern times, if a woman really wants, she can combine the first and the second aspect. Of course, it is very important understanding from loved ones. But if a woman, the result of their work for them would be respected, then I think any of the family would agree to see mom for a few hours less. But be proud of my mom and strive to be like her. Therefore, I have always worked and he combined one and another. In my opinion, these are two indispensable moment in a woman's life, helping her to expose all female quality and feel harmonious, sold, bright and proud of their accomplishments, and their biggest achievement of their children.
Dj Nastya Beauty: "It is actually strange sounds: to choose between career and child"
Anastasia Beauty, the most beautiful top Ukrainian DJ with 4 years experience, a frequent participant of international festivals of electronic music, as well as the happy mother of a little Ulyana.
What would you advise to choose young women: a career or a baby?
To choose between a career and a child is stupid, because if women have the ability to something and she's confident in yourself, you shall not harden for 1, 5-2. And it is actually strange sounds: to choose between a career and a child... It's completely different things, as you can choose between work, Hobbies and life? Selects only the woman that does not know what refuses. Not confident in yourself and weak. Has no loved a man (because it is impossible not to want a child from her beloved husband). On this topic you can talk for days... But such a thing should not exist at all. And yet it is important to know exactly, it is a career, or "just so". Many are having to take what you want and in the end, then generally left with nothing alone, because nothing is forever as a child. Work, men come and go, but the child is forever.
You are not "interfere" with child?
The children absolutely no way, and prevent you can't. The most difficult time for mom and baby is the first year and a half, until it becomes more Il less independent and can be left to the care of the nursery, nanny or daycare. I work from 2, 5 months of the birth of a daughter, no nanny, grandmother, or anyone else.
And how to keep the balance between family and work?
The key to a good, stable balance - health and enthusiasm mom, especially if she is not someone to count on. My work is specific and it is an integral accompanied primarily by lack of sleep and overwork. But I am very strong mentally, and depend on it too much. And so cope.
If still between career and family balance can be, what have you had to refuse?
From communication. It is simply not enough time. Except that playgrounds can have a little talk with other moms.
Author:
Fursenko Yu
Source:
Women's Magazine
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