We remember from childhood fairy tale about an ugly duckling who later revealed Swan wings. Remember the story of the Transfiguration of the many enchanted princesses. Watch movies that ugly become the first beauties, but put your hands every time when it comes to my own life.The science of transformation "blue stocking" and "gray mouse" in the fatal woman is not as difficult as it may seem.
Method 1. True Feng Shui
There is a long way of Transfiguration - psychoanalysis, introspection, change from the inside. There is a shorter path that I once told a psychologist and organizer of the women's training, her own experience. The woman she is bright and eye-catching, née gray mouse. The lack of male attention she had been accustomed from childhood, these same changes pushed her not men. Women. Accidentally overheard a conversation between two colleagues, bringing the beauty in an office break room. "I wonder if our teacher though one man was found? "
It all day then watched these girls - groomed to the tips of the nails, with the Royal posture and fitted jackets. And on themselves - on their colorless caret and suit colors collapsed hopes. Was terribly angry at his habit to pull his head into his shoulders, on his own without measure serious facial expression.
Changes in one night - tricks from the repertoire of Cinderella. She decided that since men and she was not lucky, then at least with itself will be comfortable. And began, ironically, with his house. She surrounded herself with soft cushions, fluffy rugs, vases with clear water and flowers. It became warmer outside - has warmed up and inside.
Masters of Feng Shui say that beautiful things can transform lives. The ancient Hindus had no idea about the grid Bagua and other Chinese wisdom. The creators of Kama Sutra explained everything easier: sense organs responsible for our sexuality. The touch of silk, the smell of incense, the taste of the spices capable of any girl to make the goddess.
Very quickly the cold intellectual became a woman "with a twist". At business dinners with partners increasingly followed invitations to non-business dinner. And Feng Shui here, to be honest, at anything.
Method 2. Remove it immediately
Almost all participants fashionable nowadays television shows, changing the image of women, explain its application by the desire to become more feminine. They come to the Studio in what used to live - jeans and shapeless Jersey. Go in dresses and flowers. It's such a logical combination of the dress and flowers.
It's very simple - you want to turn from gray mouse in a sex bomb? Remove gray clothes, put on a sexy, intriguing, feminine. I haven't seen any gray mouse over ten heels and a bright red cocktail dress. Such advice stylists all the same TV shows quickly mind - you can be insanely sexy in jeans, sneakers and a t-shirt. You can, but only if sexuality has no need for the colourful.
There is no simpler way to change your life than a change of image. First, sexuality is only a set of the right tools in the right combination. Heels, clothing with accentuated waist, lightweight gossamer stockings. Dressed as a Princess, it is impossible to be a Cinderella and ugly Betty has changed already when he pulled off her knitted poncho.
Method 3. Scarlett Johansson - in-one personal advisors
About another secret of turning Blue stocking in Miss Kruithoff had told me about a childhood friend who finished school in the status inconspicuous botany, and the University - as beauty Queens among local universities.
Closed, shy, accustomed from their parents from childhood to hear something encouraging like "Beauty, my dear, that's not the point... " Girlfriend ran on a date, she diligently preparing for the lectures, and before bedtime studied femininity - a very peculiar way. The girl imagined that the room sitting at a table and wait for her to all women, whom she admires. And she admired Scarlett Johansson - naked sexy, Audrey Tautou - naive touching, Meryl Streep for the colourful expression, Audrey Hepburn for charm, Madonna - for courage.
She sat down beside me and started "meeting". The best women in the world gave her advice and taught to act in accordance with their own rules. Over time, the girl had learned at the right time to choose the right counselor: "what would now Scarlett Johansson? Certainly would not have all night to sit at the table and wait until the party will come to an end".
Followers of Jung discover new "Inner self" that guide our life. For my friend like "I" were completely different images of women. Meryl Streep has helped brilliantly and humorously to protect diploma, Scarlett and Madonna ensured victory in the beauty contest, Hepburn introduced her to her future husband, Tautou has helped to please all of his numerous relatives. And any women you think are the symbol of femininity, sex appeal and charm? What can they learn?
Method 4. Esoteric
Geisha school, training on disclosure of sexuality courses mastering the female force... Their creators in the majority went a long way from "ugly ducklings". Why? Not least because the happy owner of innate femininity learn nothing, she has no idea about those secret mechanisms that must be put into action.
The methods are different for everyone, but leafing through the training program, you may find something very interesting. Almost all coaches are invited to start disclosing their sexuality with energy exercises "Funnel", mention of which can be found in books by Western authors even half a century ago.
Funnel - a kind of energy education, which determines the degree of our attractiveness and strength. Her symbol is the scarab, the sacred beetle of ancient Egypt, which has the same way of hunting, and women. He digs funnel and waits until someone fell into it. The woman with his funnel waits until it shall please the right man. The more funnel, the more strong and successful partner can attract a woman, but the owner of a small funnel will be all my life not to be carried by men, and, in the end, it will be satisfied by the partner on the principle of "inferior, but my".
What is a vortex? Place your hand under the belly button, parallel to the floor and imagine that from where was pinkie starts funnel - she reminds soaring up skirt.
In working condition funnel support regular exercise. Stand up straight, take a deep breath, exhale, and on the next inhale, raise your arms up as if you were holding the edges of the soaring skirt and start to rotate seven times clockwise and seven times against.
Then his hands with an imaginary skirt drop down and rotate in each direction at seventeen times. The Board seems very strange and distant from reality, but to the feminine wisdom of long-term endurance to listen still stands.
Method 5. Intimate gymnastics
Piggy women's experience stores millions of exercises to increase sexual energy. One is the legacy of the ancient priestesses, others achieve modern imilding, volberding and numerous "schools of brides. Here are some exercises for daily intimate charging.
1. Learn rhythmically and with the power to exert intimate muscles if absolutely relaxed press and buttocks - 10 reductions (each lasts for 8-10 seconds) several times during the day. Within two months, try to increase the number of cuts of up to 50 per session.
2. Quickly compress and relax the muscles 10 times. Repeat 3 times, then squeeze the muscles and try to keep them a minute and a half.
3. Quickly compress and relax the muscles for 2 minutes. Gradually, within three months, increase the time of exercise to 20 minutes.
3. Vaginal balls. The invention of Chinese concubines, created in the struggle for the attention of the Emperor. Treating the beads with grease, enter them inside and try to keep the muscles within minutes. Duration gradually increase.
4. Jade eggs. Three different sized eggs that "modern geisha" is used for many exercises. Firstly, all the same hold eggs for a minute or two. Secondly, an active workout - rolling, worn in the vagina during the day, etc.
5. Another exercise offers women in their seminars Norbekov. Align frequent, vigorous reduction of intimate muscles with the approval of their femininity, beauty and sexuality. During exercise, imagine the bold, the perfect version of myself - this is a very effective combination of motivational and intimate gymnastics.
Method 6. Analyze it
Psychoanalyst Isabel Krolicki writes about women and for women: about habits to spin in front of the mirror, the ability to smarten up and love myself. She believes that the three major components of our notions of femininity is the image of the mother, images of women around and the views of men.
Mother we adopt almost all of the women's habits. If mom enjoyed caring for themselves and dressed up for my own pleasure, and the daughter will follow her advice. Otherwise the girl would have to find their way to womanhood.
Surrounding women - girlfriends, older sisters, celebrities inspire us to experiment, to help you find your way. The main thing here is not to compare and learn. Not to envy, but to act on the principle: if we have them, will come from me.
The men around help to believe in themselves and their individual beauty. In this process the main thing is to trust your partner to take compliments and do not forget that the opinions of men - only one of the three components. And also sincerely try to please, because, honestly, there is nothing wrong with that.
Difficulties with disclosure of femininity mean trouble on one of three stages. In this case, you will not be easy to determine where lies the cause and fix. And to be armed, just in case the words are all the same Krolicki: "Femininity is never finished - it is a way to build and shape their identity in the process of playing with them, with all variants themselves".
Author:
Pechorin D.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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