Workaholism - the scourge of modern men

At the household level is often confused workaholics and just diligent, responsible workers.

Perhaps we should change ourselves, and not work?


In fact, workaholism is a form of neurosis in which personal life is sublimated into professional activities. From this disorder often affects men.




The workaholic difficult to relax, he feels guilty, if you take the time off from work to devote to his family and rest. Meanwhile, it has justification to friends: I am working to have everything. However, a full immersion in the work is fraught with very serious consequences for family relationships: children gradually begin to accept the Pope as a stranger, to which they have no case. In the end, when the guys need advice or help adult men, they will seek support from the father, and older friends. Will the benefit of such advice is a big question...




The wife of a workaholic, too, have a hard time - she begins to feel neglected and unwanted. Well, if she has a job in which she can realize itself, compensating for the lack of attention from her husband. Harder accounts for the housewife, which should provide a comfortable life as a workaholic, a rare occurrence at home. In this case it is better to find an interesting occupation, preferably, together with like-minded people, not to dwell on sad thoughts about his own loneliness.





What will the future of the novel boss with a subform?




Try to convince my husband that at least the weekend need to devote close. And the rest should not be limited to joint watching TV. Nature trips, cinema, theatres, any joint activities much closer family and enables active and casual chat.




Ambitious is an insult or a reason to be proud?




Try to create a family welcoming friendly atmosphere, to wife it was nice to come back. It is possible that he only imitates labor enthusiasm - in fact, it is simply not drawn back. Not excluded is another reason: in some firms it is good practice to stay on the job, demonstrating diligence. In this case, you had better work together to decide whether to sacrifice precious hours of family loyalty for the sake of career.

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