Love wedding. Most importantly, what we dream of most ladies, is a white dress. With a corset, crinoline, gloves, and as a sauce for this cake ice-cream - silk train with pages and flowers in portbuketnytsi. Fairytale Princess! The apogee of beauty and femininity. Seeing these pictures, none of the classmate will not restrain the impulse to bite myself from the envy of the elbow. None of the ex-boyfriend who once blurted out: "You would do well to learn how to paint", can not help but exclaim: "How good it is! " Oddly enough, for the sake of momentary triumph of admiring glances and attention many ladies dream to go under the crown. They, of course, will not admit it. Say "love".
To bind a man. Of course, all we get married for love, and only because of her! But rarely are aware of that to bash fellow gold ring on her finger and the status of "married to..." in the social network we want to breathe a sigh of relief: "Huh! " Now the Secretary will cease to draw him pictures of a happy family life, a classmate stops to fill up his messages, and in General, "he married me, not you, so wash up, ladies, I won." Roughly speaking, we go to the registry office to prove: "my man: have cut, harnessed, to the integrity not to encroach".
Just out of curiosity. Once in love with a man asked Socrates whether he should marry, he replied: "Do what you want, anyway repent." Not going to argue with the old man Socrates. Indeed, many marriages fail, and many women marry with ready beforehand suspicion: "I don't know how we will be..." But it is better to make a mistake than not to do and then regret. Often marriage, life, co-washing pans and disposal of soiled diapers is the only possible way to know a person really. Therefore, under a veil of us drives curiosity.
Because I want family and friends. For marriage, as the saying goes, it takes two - a lonely girl and anxious mother. More, in principle, nothing is required. Boring parent comments: "a Decent man would lead to the civil registry office", "You're just so, or the future? " and "I Found a decent groom - we must fight! " -able to zombify the brain of any girl, from patient girl students and to wayward bitches. In the fire of fuel and friend-friend. Horror stories "He wants children. Come out, but will throw. I know in one case....", jokes "When we eat salads? " and the revelation of "I Dream to walk a new evening dress" inspire lady strong belief that to marry her is as important as, for example, to get an education.
For the sake of convenience.
It is known that unmarried women may be harder to get a job. Proven fact that out of fear of losing local guys in the depths of an international marriage the bachelorette often do not issue visas to the tours. And for anybody not a secret that banks are easier to lend to the ladies "in status". Each of us are faced with such examples. That is why we often easier to associate themselves with legitimate ties, rather than each time explained that the man next to you is a reliable companion. So we get married out of convenience. The loan on the car to take easier visas to make it easier, and the employer will never doubt that you took the day off, not for frivolous date.
For the money. "Married somehow more secure - I once heard a conversation the employee on the phone. - Razberemsa, so at least dowry will remain". The words of the employee permanently embedded in my mind. It is not true! Without delving into the details of the well-known assertion that all men - even-toed animals, recall that according to statistics, couples often fall through the fault of the male half. And forward-looking lady, but they are not entirely sure of your future, prefer to seal the Union stamp in the passport. Polkastra, palmatine and pen from jointly acquired the pan in case of unfortunate outcome relationship is inferior, but it is a valid anesthesia for damaged nerves.
To give birth to a child. Despite the fact that the modern world has ceased to struggle with the validity of the term "civil marriage", unmarried couples are not always perceived by society seriously. Yes, you love each other. Yes, you have serious intentions. You live together, you have a joint budget and plans to have a baby. But... Your aunt will always find a reason to screw in a conversation: "not Yet fled, lubowicki? " And the midwife maternity homes, whose brain is in a state of prehistoric petrification or drops will not disdain to percolate through his teeth: "unmarried Again. Well, the youth went..." of Course, you will not be difficult to endure medieval contempt. But after you, happy Mama, come home with "illegitimate child", you face new troubles: documents of recognition of paternity and adoption issues with the last name of the baby and the associated bureaucratic obstacles in later life. Such difficulties few pleasant. And couples often get married to them not to contact.
Such banal life may become the engine of modern marriages. With this you can disagree, but the fact remains - love has no seals and rings. Love one another and live soul to soul - regardless of marital status.
Author:
Dorogov E.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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