I hesitated, because to come up with a subject I was not on the shoulder - all power is given to the attempt to give her ICQ number.
- Eeeee... Well, came the name of the textbook, which was told, and charming, as it seemed to me, smiled. Now it's done, should write, of course, if the smile was actually charming. And if not? Still need to take the initiative in their hands! But there was nothing to take, HP threw me goodbye goodbye and got out of the carriage. It was her stop.
I was driving home and thought: "This man asked if the number of ITS ICQ, and best phone number! And I just whiny network alone Vishnevsky", and not a man. To count, it seems, not what".
However, she wrote. And even after a few days invited me to sit somewhere to eat pizza. Showing all of his male ingenuity and activity, I suggested an alternative plan: first go to see the movie, which critics have called the best female romance of the year, and then sit in a café not far from the cinema...
The movie was long and boring, in a cafe after him, too, to go failed L. said go home because it's late, and tomorrow is a work day. A complete failure.
Most women long familiar with the immutable truth: the initiator of the relationship should be man. This wisdom gleaned from a lady's novels, in which black and white - nothing left to do, he will come. Coming on a horse, coming in the limo and the latest versions will fly on a private jet. And, of course, it makes no difference, you live in new York or tomites sadness in the village of Blue Lepage. While the main character must resist - and suddenly this tall, muscular, white-toothed millionaire, piercing his eyes, not her fate? That's right, be wrong in this case cannot. But handsome, not to give up, showered flowers and chocolates, give pearls until you tell him the coveted "Yes". This same truth in their own way preach the Soviet films (only without pearls) and Hollywood (usually without candy, but with expensive cars), a friend and your mother favorite story about how uncle Fedya three years sought location aunt Lida.
To argue with this truth hard. In the end, she not on the web is held and supported by evidence inviolable and tested for centuries not one female generation. And yet there is no such women the truth, which men would not be questioned. Here we are in doubt. Not that we love to argue with you and think that it is always wrong... Just doubt it.
Judge for yourself, your truth is, that man, the initiative does not exhibit, not a Real Man. Not a Real Man is who? Properly, Baba, though in his pants. Simple and powerful, kills us - men outright. To lead the anatomical facts of nature in his defense useless. But I confess to you that being proactive is very difficult when caring heart and eyes of the lady. If the man in front of you tushuetsya, then, in his eyes you are a true beauty. Suppose that you are calm, when you decide him a little bit to help. Well, after you and he to be carried, and about the flowers and candy will not forget. At least, on the eighth of March and day of birth...
Following our meeting with L. took place three months later. These three months I scolded myself last words that missed this girl. I dreamed about her whole life, and all that could be arranged, is one disastrous date. Well, where does this fit? And suddenly she sent me a joke about computers, but about a different kind of soup I can talk for hours. I don't even know they know how to joke, honestly, honestly! I struck up a conversation. I even managed to relax a little, and when L invited me to go still in the cafe, I did not meddle with the response, proposals, showing the obligatory male assertiveness. And just agreed. And they were right!
You haven't convinced my arguments? Then offer to look at the initiative and with the other hand. If a woman can seduce a man whether or not she is a Woman? The answer suggests itself.
So why do most women still prefer the activity to be: "then he will think that I am available and all so behave? And in General a decent girl on the neck of the man to be hung should not".
Yes, it happens, the initiative is punishable. Especially in the workplace. It is only in Proverbs - made case, walk safely, and in life otherwise. He showed quickness gave the boss an idea that's Voprosy progressive thought in life itself. In their spare time.
Maybe women believe that this pernicious practice acts and in personal relationships? Think she will invite him to a movie, but he refuses, then everyone around will know that she stick to it. Or worse yet, other times he will remember that it all started, she wanted this relationship. And if so, what to complain about? Well, the last example is of course extreme. If this happens, you can only sympathize - you really met a "woman", about this even be sad not worth spit all over and forget. Most men are still normal people and responsible for relations on a woman not shift, even if the initiative showed it.
There is another important point, in addition to the ability to do the first step is the ability to respond to men's interest. Sad when the lady takes courtship men with views of the Snow Queen. And then with friends month discussing, it was worth or not worth it to respond to "harassment". Girls, you need to remember that everything must happen on time. Because while you discuss the situation and bring resolution "suitable candidate", men already and trace prostene. In the movie, with some provostal left.
In General, you probably already realized that we men always need a sign. A solar Eclipse, the parade of stars, or at least one your smile, to understand what the chance is. So if a man is nice to you, share it, help him to navigate and your talents. In the extreme case, if you sickens open initiative, maximum savaliya her. Let the man thinks all by chance, as if by itself. Met by chance, accidentally did, accidentally touched accidentally kissed each other, and it randomly started to live together. Women who such "randomness" to organize, alone, will not stay the same.
Scour the regular labour on the economy and share with L.:
"You know, there is this type of error, as "the fallacy post hoc," after this does not mean that in consequence of this.
L. uncomprehending makes the edge of the house, and I illustrate this idea by an example from life:
"Well, remember when you tell me that joke sent... I then so much about computers must have told, our relationship and broke. Here you thought I just tell you, without a second thought. And I'm specially all sorts of interesting stories from the lives remembered, that your attention to attract and eventually the next meeting to agree. So, you had a "post hoc fallacy", you're wrong conclusions were made.
Edge L. rise even higher:
"I know you see me before the movie all ears buzzed their stories about computers. When I saw the joke, and I decided - if this time will be delay, I give up!
Whatever you say, but if a clever woman takes the initiative, it is always beautiful.
Author:
A. A.
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