I do not remember when and how it started. But if you are stuck in a sexual hibernation, do not expect that all will end in itself. How to improve sex life? I do not remember when and how it started was love, and then the relationship ended. To cope with stress and faster to erase from the memory of a bad experience, you plunged into the work, so it remained. And when decided that it is time to regain the status of someone's sweetheart, it was found that:
from your attractiveness in men's eyes only memories. Closet is no good, the shape is poor, glance, which earlier was enough to arrange a date in haste, no result;
to convince his client that your company is what he is looking for and that your product is the best that the market offers for you now - simple. But to give a man dreams that you are not a woman, and the dream became problematic;
- you do not have the strength and desire to change anything. The habit of sluggish, but comfortable solitude stronger and hints of friends, and persuasion Rodney, and your understanding that we cannot live on like.
I don't sleep!
The only consolation is that someday all by itself will change quite risky. "Stuck" in a sexual suspended animation for a long time, and the longer you stay, the harder it is to regain the form and tone.
"The fact that people after parting often immersed in subdepression, mourns his past, he has low self-esteem," comments the problem sexologist, Vice-President of the Russian Association of sexologists Eugene Kulhavy, " and some people used to live.
In addition, they lose their flirting skills and the ability to maintain a conversation. This reduces the confidence even more. To return to adequate perception of themselves and their sexual status can be difficult, but the road will be mastered by just walking. To ensure that the rehabilitation process is not dragged on for months and years, sometimes it is necessary to seek help from a specialist.
For every psycho has its own distinctive optimal exit strategy from the crisis, but almost everyone I recommend to start to review your surroundings and environment. Hurry with the transition from flirting to sexual relations is not worth it. Should be given the opportunity to rebuild and mind, and body. Success begets success. Even a little. Just start".
The first thing you will encounter on the journey back to great sex, is you. To lose weight, buy a couple of bright provocative outfits - is simple enough. It is much harder to implement other changes - internal.
- Do not try to think of scenarios of your previous novels: new perspective exploring, developing on old models, can severely disappoint.
Remember: your first task is to find out what your new addiction and who is your ideal lover.
- Do not expect quick success. Before you confidently can say that I am satisfied with your sexual life, it will take enough time. It is best to treat this period as an exciting process of receiving impressions varied and instructive.
- Leave the behind the scenes comments of your surroundings. Most likely, when your mom advised you to establish personal life, she didn't mean Dating with young and frisky, but not serious young men. But this does not mean that you can't afford it. Of course, convincing the mother that you are an adult and in the security of life and health are guided by the mind.
And in fact, guided by reason. One of the most common dangers to end the long abstinence to lose your head from the newfound joys of sex. The effects here can be very different from foolish diagnoses to novels with known sad ending.
Do not try to compare their insignificant at first glance, the success with good examples of friends and acquaintances. To your neighbor "people never forget the trail and your Beau will not you even going to kiss? Rejoice for her, and for herself - she should start a blog called "My erotic adventures", and you tell her daughter how romance is not available and how pleasant the period when "there was nothing".
Source:
Women's information and entertainment portal WDay.ru
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