A famous proverb says: "Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are". In other words, starting with someone to be friends, we can tell you beforehand what consequences it will bring. So the choice of friends should be treated no less responsibility than the choice of a life partner.
Bet on optimists
Despite the fact that optimists sometimes seem crazy (and how else can you call people who hope for the best without any reason? ), they always win. First, optimism attracts favorable events. Secondly, even if they don't happen, optimists are not much and not for long upset. Regardless of your views on life, try to communicate more with optimistic people. They will make your life optimistic and you will learn never to lose heart and to see the range of many advantages. On the other hand, the whiners are pulling from you energy, spoil the mood and form a negative view of things. You see, in our uncertain world, it is completely useless.
Enjoy happiness from wit
Whatever you say, and girlfriends need to choose smart. Such and interesting talk, and good advice can be heard. With stupid, of course, you can feel superior (some people are so amuse his pride), but stupidity sooner or later begins to irritate. And the most annoying, and to help this man can't. He may say, no matter how you teach, as you know, their brains will not stick".
Get inspired purposeful
You can choose friends who go with the flow, but they never will charge you desire to set goals and achieve them, to enjoy and unfulfilled dreams, and not the joys of oblomovka". People who want a lot of things to achieve, very inspiring. If you are fortunate enough to communicate with such, you will understand me. After talking with them I want to move mountains to get rid of obedeniny (or minimized), forget about the failures and grievances, to make your life rich and interesting. Make friends with those who have a lot of ideas and plans - even if sometimes seemingly incredible.
Trust practical
No one is worse than the friend-wasting, bringing you to the shops and provocative to ignore formed by month personal (family) budget. Such people do not notice, how are involved in mindless shopping process and donate your goals in favor of impulse purchases. Practical friend will not tempt you sales and in time will stop when you will be ready to roll with coils.
Primicia to the adherents of a healthy lifestyle
Scientists have proved that friendship has a direct impact on the lifestyle of a person and even his weight. Agree, it is very important, where do you usually meet with friends at the fitness club (Park) or for tea and cakes. All this has an impact on your lifestyle, figure and so on. So make friends with "sports activists". They will lead you to water aerobics, even if you today do not really want".
Looking for able to keep a secret
How many families were broken up due to the fact that the girlfriend was not able to keep a secret! Many people have lost jobs because of the gab girlfriend colleagues, Jesusa language in secretarial and other departments! Don't mess with these, otherwise you will have to constantly monitor what you tell them. Yes and it may not keep you out of trouble, because any wrong words can explain, to interpret and pass them to someone. Why do you have a girlfriend that you can't even for a minute to relax, to pour out his heart?
Choose fun
Sense of humor is the most important quality of a person. Do not make friends who have no sense of humor. With them uninteresting. In addition, they can permanently to bear you a grudge because innocent jokes and in a "perfect" day to deal with you.
Good must always win out over evil
Why you evil girlfriend who Harbor resentment relatives, sharpen the teeth on colleagues and sarcastic comments about their friends? Listen to this unpleasant. Even more unpleasant to think about you and they can say the same thing. Do you want to save up anger on everyone around? But the sight of such people in the world can affect you. Skepticism and anger is contagious, even if you do not believe in it.
Avoid gossips
The desire to wash the seeds in some degree peculiar to the majority of women (and men too). But only some and live the fact that discuss the details of the personal lives of their friends. Throw out even the obvious fact that your personal life they will likewise discuss with half of the city. The question is why do you know all this? Why collect the flow of unnecessary information to score the head of other people's problems and turns someone else's fate? It is not difficult to find a more enjoyable and useful than to discuss the clerk of the latest entrance or the daughter of your friend. A love story to read and it is interesting, at least apart of the plot there is the artistry of the images and a unique style.
Not a single bread man live
Of course, materialism lived, lives and will live (in contrast to C. I. Lenin). However, it is more interesting to communicate with friends who are interested in not only a new skirt and a compliment of the head of another Department. People who have in addition to tangible, practical, there is another side of life - spiritual, philosophical, is extremely interesting. They make you think deep, think about eternal values. They see wider and deeper than most, and can teach you. Do not rush to argue, even if you do not agree. Be patience and interest, and you will discover hidden facets of their spiritual life. And eventually, perhaps, your...
Author:
M Tomovska
Source:
MYJane
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