Some believe it is an unbecoming, but secretly dream to join their ranks, others admire those who do so according to the dictates of the heart (and other organs), but are silent when the condemnation of this process. In General, however, many people dream at least once to try to become one of the Swinger.
What is the "swing"?
Interestingly, the word "swing" is associated with well-known musical term that means the transition from note to note. Apparently the Creator of the "swing movement" had not a weak sense of humor and style, and therefore the transition from one partner to another, he also decided not otherwise as "swing", and the participants in the procession of "Swingers". But do not confuse svingerstvo with group sex. What's the difference? - you may ask. In Swingers sex two married or loving couples. In addition, partners do not always need to vary men and women. Maybe just to have sex in the same room, so that another couple saw them.
In addition, Swinger characteristic "detachment" partners: foreign husband or wife and remain strangers. They can only "borrow" another partner and only in the presence of the second half.
Bare Swinger
There are several types of swing. Soft swing is the prelude with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration. Adds "pepper" in relations within the couple and allows them to have fun without the risk of disease or jealousy. Many couples start with a gentle swing. And not all subsequently transferred to complete the exchange.
Private swing refers to the process when partners share, but have sex in separate rooms. An indoor swing provides partners with a more intimate feeling. Some believe that it gives them more freedom and less distracting from the fun factor.
When partners share and have sex in the same room or the same bed is an outdoor swing. Some believe that the outdoor swing allows them to unleash their sexual desires and fantasies. However, it is not suitable for jealous or shy.
Pathology or sexual preference?
Earlier swing treated sexual pathology. Now it is believed that the swing is the sexual preference is the same as, for example, sadomasochism, homosexuality, group sex. This "betrayal" without consequences, this kind of businessby leasing or hire someone else halves with the agreement of their own.
By the way, in Europe, more than 60 thousand registered Swinger, when we about their preferences in bed trying to keep quiet, so how many, what and with what partners does at night is unknown.
If you still think that "swing" is, at least, something obscene, I must say that one of the founders of modern physics and the author of the theory of relativity albert Einstein and his wife loved to passingout at parties with max Planck (the famous physicist and the founder of quantum theory) and Erwin schrödinger (developed quantum mechanics). Swing parties in family nest Schrodinger even someone jokingly called "evenings of Vienna sausages". Great scientists attached to the swing, not forgetting to discuss scientific topics. If you believe the rumors at one of these swing evenings Erwin schrödinger brought his famous equation in quantum physics.
In defense of the Swingers I should add that an adult can have fun as he wants, if he does so with the consent of other people and causes no harm to health. The key word in this statement is consent. What to do if you want to svingerstvo and your spouse against?
What you should think?
Before proceeding to the persuasion of its halves should think about all the consequences that may arise with the advent of swing in your life.
Psychological damage. First think about what are the chances that your partner will agree on the swing. If you know your campaign is doomed to failure, and you shouldn't, because the damage that you bring because of the persuasion process, it will be much more than you can imagine.
This is what you want? As we mentioned above, the swing is no group sex, no friends, and friends of the family here can not be, and only a couple+couple.
And then what? Well, now imagine persuaded her or him, and what's next? You are ready to see how your favorite person writhing in orgasm, which deliver not you?
For men only. Remember, sexual resources from women more than men! So Your wife will continue to have fun when you already have enough. And it's unlikely you can easily stop. You have to drink tea-coffee-vodka-beer and Smoking on the sidelines, thinking about her mysterious soul.
How to persuade your partner to swing?
Well you are full of confidence and know what you want, then use the following methods, so that your partner also wanted what you need.
Refer to her feelings. Forget about logic, speak the language of feelings. It is useless to read the cat Shakespeare with the eternal question "to Be or not to be? ". Much easier and safer for the cat to pet.
The alcohol. Can before the call to bring a loved one to lung of alcohol intoxication", which will reduce the level of fear, anxiety and increase sexual impulses.
The best of all. Your husband (wife) must be the meaning of your life, he should know that better than him in the world. But the question "why do you need others? " - answer: "to make for your holiday! ".
But before persuasion, your spouse must get rid of all suspicions about your possible infidelity. If you are a "socially responsible citizen, be sure you amply recompensed.
The possible outcome of the swing?
Swing is the catalyst of family relationships. It may reinforce existing trends in the family and make them better, and likewise he can destroy former happiness in small bits. So before you decide to swing, understand why you need it: for new experiences or to escape? If new sensations remember the basic commandments of Swinger:
- try not to destroy the marriage
- observe the conditions of the appointment or detail to inform about the change of circumstances
never, under any circumstances, not to put pressure on partner
to protect the anonymity of other Swingers, refraining from unauthorized references to names
always adhere to the highest standards of hygiene and appearance
- not to engage in any illegal activity that might discredit the Swingers as a group
they should be friendly and warm with your friends, but remember that a certain kind of emotions should always be reserved for your spouse
- always show respect to personal positions, feelings and habits of other Swingers.
Source:
Women's Magazine
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