Children's enuresis: love therapy

You love your child more than anything on earth, rejoice in his achievements, together with him again know this wonderful world. And his happy eyes, gentle hugs and touching smile make you forget about the "adult" problems and difficulties. Why, this kid is the most important treasure and inspiration. But there are in your life, the moments that are equally highly upset you and the child. Repeating over and over again, they lead you into complete despair. And putting your baby to sleep at night, you again I hope that THIS doesn't happen again. And in the morning, again re-making the bed of the child and removing wet sheets feel helpless from the thought of not being able to help to cope with such a delicate issue.



You are not alone


Even if the enuresis is not to say aloud, this would not mean that the problem of child actually does not exist. With such difficulties facing many families. At the age of five urinary incontinence affects about 14% of the children. If the rate of urination in children should be adjusted to four or five years, some problems remain and they reach the age of five. And some carries this disease in adult life.




It is clear that growing up, the child suffering from incontinence, begins to feel not like other children, and this feeling its very depressing. Certainly, fear of ridicule, he can't like other guys to sleep at a friend, to go on vacation to camp or hike with an overnight stay. And the constant depression may further aggravate the disease. At this stage the task your task as parents is to provide comprehensive child support, to make it clear that he was not alone in his distress.





What is the reason


Experts call a number of reasons contributing to the development of enuresis in children for which we, unfortunately, the impact can not. One of the main factor of heredity. If someone of you parents suffered from this disease, the probability of its manifestation of your child above many times.




Often enuresis occurs in children, whose nervous system and the bladder is not fully matured. As a consequence violated the mechanism of regulation of urination. The child was born after a difficult pregnancy or a difficult birth? This can also cause the disease.




Sometimes symptoms of enuresis or worsening observed in a child due to banal SARS or hypothermia, after which it may develop urinary tract infection.




In some cases, the manifestation of the disease is the cause of the stress experienced by the child. Perhaps the child is frightened, or just started to visit the garden, moved to another school, became a party to the conflict situation in the garden or school. On the emotional state of the baby is also negatively affected by the tense situation in the family, the discord between the parents. And even the appearance of a new member of the family, younger brother or sister, may adversely affect the health of the child. Indeed, in this case most of the time parents will devote a newborn baby and an older child on a subconscious level, this method will try to return to its original focus.





There is a problem looking for a solution


Let the child has not attained the age of five years, and you have something very embarrassing necessarily address for consultation to the doctor. After all, you need to check the baby for his diseases or pathologies of the urinary system. Most likely, the kid will have to take the General blood and urine tests, and undergo ultrasound of the kidneys and bladder. Based on the results of the survey, the nephrologist will decide whether your child medication and whether he needed examination by a neurologist and psychologist.





Love is the best medicine


Be prepared for the fact that the solution may take a long time. What should I do? First of all, make sure the kid is a clear mode of the day, which will necessarily include walks in the fresh air, NAPs. Indeed, it is proved that children, tourists during the day, nocturnal enuresis occurs much less frequently. Active games before going to sleep is contraindicated.




Prepare yourself for the fact that now the child is going to keep drinking regime, according to which the last fluid intake will be at least a couple of hours before bedtime. It is important that milk, yogurt, dried fruit compote, a decoction of certain herbs have increased diuretic effect.




Try to create for your baby comfortable emotional atmosphere in the family - do not argue with him, don't talk in loud tones. Or in a coma if not use corporal punishment and not Studite child for wet sheets is he not to blame for what is happening.




And most importantly - will surround him with care and attention, often kiss and hug him, tell how much love him. Remember - at least half an hour a day you have to devote exclusively to the games with your child, no TV and phone.




In solving such problems as child enuresis, parents should work together. Because together you can overcome any difficulties.

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