99, 99% of people will answer these questions positively. Most people want a happy and successful life and it is an undeniable fact. This is normal and natural. Unnatural, if people wanted for themselves hardships and problems, grief or failure.
Let's just agree to accept that people can do everything, that he is fully responsible for his life. All that he has in his life, he creates his thoughts and actions.
And it is now impossible to determine who invented the theory of the immutability of human destiny, that "from the fate of no escape", "as destined, so be it", and hundreds of other limiting beliefs. One thing is clear that those who invented and introduced to the masses these beliefs came into possession of thousands and thousands of voluntary slaves. How convenient to have a subordinate of the person who is deeply convinced that it is his destiny to be the entire life of a slave and that he fully will be rewarded in heaven for his humility and obedience.
The theory of the immutability of fate today fully outdated and twenty-first century marked the era of man who creates his own destiny, which is fully responsible for his life.
So, let's move from theory to practice. As we have seen, most people on Earth want success. But here the question arises. Why successful people have so little? Why most people earn very low wages, live in small apartments, drive used cars, for all life and not realize their potential. Why are so few on the streets of satisfied and happy passers-by? And a thousand and one why.
There are several reasons that prevent us to achieve our goals and to become a truly happy person.
1. Internal conflict
2. Unbelief in yourself and your strength
3. The lack of willpower and determination
Internal conflict
We all know that our subconscious mind plays an important role in our life. All events that happen in our life, good or bad, are created by our subconscious. But the subconscious mind serves only to our instructions. If you feel that you are surrounded by rude and ungrateful people, then your subconscious mind will attract into your life exactly such people. But worth it for just a few days to absorb the idea that there's a lot of sincere and friendly people you will meet them everywhere, and all the ignorant will just disappear from your life.
So what is internal conflict and how to deal with it? Let's take, for example, one of the most common cases. You want to earn a lot. You work more and more, improve their skills, looking for a new job, read books enrichment.
So it takes a month, two, year, and the results are not visible. You still can't afford to go to expensive restaurant, unable to travel to the country of your dreams, ride in the best case on the old machine. And each day ask yourself: "Why is this happening? I so want to get rich. I so want to be successful. I'm putting that much effort. Maybe I'm a loser".
You can Bang your head against an invisible wall to infinity. Can feel sorry for yourself and wondering why you have so much work for such little money, but, unfortunately, crying will not help.
So what is the problem?
It's all in your internal beliefs. If you believe that money spoil the man that the rich have a lot of problems that big money can be earned only by dishonest, then your subconscious will gladly create situations that will help you again and again to confirm your beliefs. And do you think that money would go to the person who so applies to them? I would in their place well before this thought.
The principle of internal strife works in all areas of life. If you want to meet a loved one, but deep inside I believe that all normal men or women have long been dismantled, it can not even attempt to meet your soul mate, only wasting your time and energy.
And for example, if you want to create your own business, but you think that you will be crushed by the taxes that you have no money to start, around terrible competition, now is not the time and place for your business as you consider whether you should try to do something?
Council. Once you set a goal and are going to start to move toward its accomplishment, think about how you can yourself to stop? What are your beliefs can hinder you in achieving your goals? Clear in advance your way from the rubble, and your trip will be much faster and more comfortably.
Unbelief in yourself and your strength
If you don't believe in yourself and in your success as you are going to achieve something in your life? Many people think that successful people are confident because they are successful and can afford it. And few people realize that these people have achieved success through their confidence. That is, first confidence, and then success. And not Vice versa. Failure is success does not stick.
It is very difficult to be sure of yourself when life is not going well, work is not the same, and the salary is not particularly happy. But therein lies the power of this test. To be confident and happy no matter what. And the success and luck will not take long to wait.
The lack of willpower and determination
Many people read educational literature, attend special trainings and courses, I think a lot. But, unfortunately, only from reading books nothing in life does not change. You read one book after another, I admire the ingenious thoughts of the author, proud of his knowledge. But it in most cases and ends.
Therefore, I will reveal to you a secret that people stubbornly do not want to notice: "From the simple reading books, your life will never change".
Your life will change when you Zakatala sleeves, and begin to act. From today you can start to do a half-hour morning exercises. Tomorrow become fully responsible for everything that happens in your life. And after a day to forgive all the people who somehow left an unpleasant aftertaste in your soul. And so we need to act every day. Only then your life will begin to change. You will begin to see more and more interesting people. You will begin to fold the best deals. You will often make brilliant ideas. And after a very short time you will be able to proudly declare to the world: "I am pleased with everything that is happening in my life, I create my life, and I achieve what I want!
Author:
Konelsky A., business coach, psychologist
Source:
World Of Psychology
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