"...A couple of weeks to live peacefully, then the husband of the blue" provokes a scandal. In the heat of the argument expression does not select, I heard in his address! Ubusuna, blessed change the temper justice with mercy and tries to make it up in bed, and demonstrates the "aerobatics" in the caresses. Then follows a brief lull, and then the scandal with bed reconciliation... For three years of family life, I realized that the quarrel continued for a husband like a special ritual before sex, but the role of the "humiliated and insulted" tired..."
Of revelations beautiful, but very sad woman.
Most men really have this weird quality: in the heat of a quarrel cut the truth, and after a couple of hours to get uglier with the most immodest intentions. And they deeply care that the poor still pissed off and swallow the tears of resentment, remembering his words: "You don't want to understand me!.. You just want to waste money and to meet their girlfriends gossip!..
And the soup my mom makes the best! (underline)". Men are firmly convinced that kisses-hugs and other bedding joy can erase from the memory of the beloved all the "nelitsepriyatnoy", before they "brought". Why waste words on an empty explanation? If the gentleman is gentle and affectionate, therefore, he is ready for a truce! It's just that we, the fair sex, do not welcome such an original approach. Then more recently, we have been a lousy cook and stupid ysterectomy and now "in gratitude" offender need from head to toe to sealability? Noisemakers!
Outset: there are "Italian" pairs, where the scandal as a prelude to the intima is the usual thing and even enjoyable for both participants of the event. If you like to rush into the arms after throwing plates at the head of the enemy-wife" - cheers! As they say, advice and love, and a set of unbreakable tableware "in the Studio"! All others whom this depressing scenario, please follow us...
With the Emperor tete-a-tete
Want to know where the "legs" of the so-called post-conflict sex? Once upon a time there was the Emperor Nero. The man was, to say the least, strange: rules of the Roman Empire, wanted to be an actor and, of course, wove intrigue with the killing - but not that difficult time? Also Nero "famous" that in the heat of the passion called partners of words that are not appropriate in the lexicon Patricia. The Emperor did not because of the perversity of nature (though not without that), but because that was terribly excited, Cipla curses on the head and other body parts chosen one.
Behavior crowned the bully gave the name though not dangerous, but still sexual deviation syndrome of Nero. "Neronova mark are about 10% of all men (as a rule, men with low potency). Quarrel on them operates more than any viagra as a result of the release of testosterone and adrenaline. On the Hamburg account, "obsevance" is just a game, but the lady need to have strong nerves and be able to distinguish why the missus mad: it does indeed pair of socks is not found, or simply willed "Commissar body"...
Ice and fire
And it so happens that God brings in a couple of people with very different temperaments: for example, the husband - "man with a twinkle," and the wife is a quiet, according to Madame. Of course, it give sparks carving in bed, and she tries to fall asleep, and seizing the moment. What we have in the end? A woman, "either way is good," and a man who "will be not enough! " In order to equalize the level of excitation, the man provokes scandal: and I myself will reset voltage, in order not to hurt something burn during sex, and a little inflame thick-skinned partner. Psychologists say that usually this rebelliousness unconsciously, publican and does not know what his heart's need, but not finding the exit, again and again up to the abuse.
"Achtung! Others occupy! "
Needless to say, that the natural result of a quarrel - some alienation from partner. In the head and we thought: "Oh, he radishes! I told him the sweater "diamonds" was presented, and the third day he trash can not bear! Hate! " Such experiences and fill the ' enemy'. Well what kind of kinship and the more bodies there can be a speech? But here is the thing: having the time of others, we can experience more vivid impressions bedding battles. More recently, beloved wife accused her husband in all grave sins until the "bread and forgot to buy! "turns into a stranger girl. And thereby becoming very attractive: sex with stranger beckons, promises intrigue, allows a man to feel like a conqueror. So he invites to go to the barn, what a waste of time"... This trick is often used wife with experience, and both sexes. In principle, the idea is good: her clumsy husband scolded on what light is, in the embrace as if "the stranger" comforted "And to live well, and life is good! " And no change. And who knows how ravishing "horizontal" reconciliation: the feeling on the edge, both realize how close to the edge, even a little bit-and could happen "eternal separation"...
All that, however, sexologists caution: do not need to consider before sex scandals Wellness event. The coin has a flip side: evil always leads to evil. And every burst of aggression, including sexual, mobilize dormant in man hunt destruction. If unchecked inspire and encourage delightful sex, bad feeling grows like an avalanche. And the first thing it sweeps along the way - your Union, more recently, reputed to be happy. The family - not only and not so much Garavani on the sheets, it is also friendship, understanding, support, care and respect. For example, time after time you are with your partner make each other insults, and then sweetly and passionately put up. Sooner or later there will come a moment when you ask yourself: "is It for an effect called me a fool or seriously? " The same question and he will wonder. Whether it is necessary to articulate the consequences?
Beast, maniac and adversary
Get ready, now we will tell about some of the dark side of male sexuality. In nature there is a kind of brutal macho, the head full of aggression. And that sex makes them easier to get rid of all-consuming rage, otherwise these barbarians would be constant heroes of criminal reports. But the trouble is that in relation to the woman "sinister" have hidden or overt hostility, and sexual arousal repeatedly it increases. For this type of chelovekozver" preferably during copulation lady's heart a little, but resisted - lightweight version of rape, if I may say so. In General, while the poor girl is screaming, writhing and scratched, uncles experience heavenly bliss, fall in almost Nirvana. At the same time and get milder. Not going to explain that this category of men very pleased to conflicts before sex in order to annoy and offend her.
"Come, come to me! "
And yet, if you want to live a long and happy life, do not deny yourself the pleasure to tickle the nerves showdown, followed by Snorkelling in bed. The fact that the quarrel is also a great way of convergence partners, the proof of their emotional connection. When the feeling's gone, on the ashes of a bygone passion and there's nothing to clear, much to the intima and certainly there is no hunting. But until a couple of links something more important common surname and housing, to arrange a debriefing is not forbidden. Finding out who is who, you receive the necessary emotional jolt and in addition refresh your relationship. And besides, Vilesov surplus energy on the bed of love, you can safely return to the most burning issues without unnecessary emotions.
Psychologists are not kidding
What if the chosen one is very keen to post-conflict sex, and you don't share his tastes? First, not to go on about his desires, "adjure" psychologists, if you do not want one day to hate Cavaliers, quarrels and sex in General. After all, yielding "rowdy" against the will of a woman doomed to pain and moral, and physical. No, careless movement in a fit of passion here at anything. Pain during sex "out of necessity" - not that other, as a neurotic reaction, which resists the conqueror. And who wants to suffer from nervousness due to the unstable psyche partner?
So, if you are tired of living from scandal to scandal, offered the following options for a way out of the impasse:
• to offer the chosen game with changing roles. From a victim you will become a warrior Queen, which, according to sexologists, makes men better than quarrels. For God's sake, not pokrivats cold sweat, imagining leather lingerie, collars with spikes and other whips-handcuffs, sado-masochism game has nothing, there are more subtle - the human psyche. However, the method is only good for artistic women, ready to experiment;
• try to accept and understand that the partner offends you is not from a poor upbringing, and from a desire to stimulate yourself. Unfortunately, the method requires a long work. The most difficult to respond itself to a question: "Why must I be cursed-mint due to someone's problems with libido? " If you don't vote, should not kick him out of his bed and life;
• go to Frank delicate conversation and search for alternatives. In the end, there is extreme and spontaneous sex: adrenaline is the same, and sacrificing his own dignity no!
Interview conducted resource Your Sex.Roux
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