How to know when it is time to give birth?

Am I willing for your child? Surely this question is asked by many modern girls. It was previously thought that a woman should give birth, when her body is this quite ready. The modern rhythm of life insists completely different: education, career, clubs, discos, money... And eventually one day the girl will ask myself: when to give birth. And those who ask this question should receive an answer. After all, there are 8 signs that it is time to have a baby. So, following these steps, you can determine your own readiness.



Emotional stability


The education of the child - this is the kind of feat, and some parenting is most difficult. To juggle his own life and the life of a child is difficult, but because those who are wondering when to give birth, first and foremost, you need to ask yourself: am I willing emotionally to become a mother and to sacrifice a lot for the sake of his child. It is not enough to have a baby, you also need to train him to be a real man with a big, happy and full.





House


Children should feel at home, in the place where they live. Only in your own home they feel in safety and reliability, regardless of age. Of course, this does not mean that before you ask, when to give birth, you need to buy a mansion on the ocean. Just the house or apartment must be located in safe and quiet area. Remember that to travel with a baby is difficult, and therefore a kindergarten, a school and even a grocery store must be in the relative availability.




Stable relationships




The presence of two parents in a child is very important. Even if the mother parted with my dad, they would have to maintain a decent relationship. This will make things much easier. When to have a child? When relationship with a future Pope will be more or less sustainable, and scandals will not happen before the eyes of the child. Do not be doubtful of Delia baby. Stable and decent atmosphere in the family is above all.





Financial stability


Perhaps it was the lack or fear of another failure stops many couples to have a baby. But, be that as it may, a lot of money is never, and therefore need to calculate your budget. If at the moment the situation is stable, then delay no farther: in life, anything can happen, and it is impossible to predict. However, before you give birth, you will need to calculate whether you have enough money for food, diapers, medicine, beds, and wheelchairs, etc.





The minimum party


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Andas cannot part with riotous lifestyle and ready to dance until dawn at least every day, probably not liking a quiet family life with the child. The birth of a baby is first at least reducing the number of parties and as a maximum rejection of them at all. After all, having children is not for grandmothers and nannies, but first and foremost for themselves. But because something will have to give up. For a start, one should try to reduce the number of parties and parties with friends. If this is successful, then you can think about posterity.


Support




Of course, the first months and years of life baby Mama for him the most important person in the world. Therefore it should be near the maximum amount of time. However, the mother is also a real person with his own needs and desires. And the time needed to perform. Thus, it is useful to think about who will be able to help in this difficult matter, as the child's upbringing? Whether it's a grandmother? Or girlfriend? Or Babysitting? They are very important.





No family dramas


Few people like family drama. Every family should prevail peace and quiet. Only in such conditions the child will grow calm and complete, will not feel slighted and blame for everything. You must be a loving mother, and to be patient towards others.




Physical form




Of course, the first time the mother will have to drag the baby in her arms. He is bound to his chest, his need will be rocking and nursing, when something hurts. For some, this period lasts for years. Therefore, to easily carry this, you need to maintain their body in good shape.

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