Love for a spouse, you must confirm by taking care of it

The basis for the marital relationship are respect and love. You of course already know. But there are other important things that depend on a strong relationship between husband and wife.

Remember that time when you were newlyweds? Remember how you treated each other then. Without a doubt, you respected and loved each other, but you were sentimental and kind, and caring.

Over time, when you are used to her husband, and the time passed much and kindness in dealing suddenly started to retreat further than the second. It seems that this is temporary, and soon you will become kinder. But it rarely works. You begin to perceive your partner for granted, thinking: "where's he going to live? "

At that happy time of the beginning of marriage you go to the store or somewhere else, you were very kind and polite to people he met. You used the kind words and soft tone. And the people around thought: "wow, what a wonderful and kind girl! More such! "

How you speak and behave now? Listen to yourself when talking with your spouse. It is possible that your words have now become more coarse than with strangers. Can be other people you started to sound differently, irritated, intolerant? If so, then you need to change something.

First you need to check yourself. In the heat of conversation about a problem can be very difficult to control yourself. Try to record these conversations, the benefit is technical tools allow you to do this very simply and easily. Perhaps after listening to calm these records, you will be terrified from what you were. Usually ashamed and this memory is stored for a very long time. The relationship between husband and wife are to be analyzed. If you suddenly feel that something is wrong and is not just as you want, record your conversations. This is a huge step on the path to awareness of the need for change.

Another important factor to maintain relations between spouses - care. Love must be reconfirmed care. It may be small gifts, surprises and more. Remember the more time courting each other before marriage. If you only graciously accepted the courtship of a man, it's time for you to strike back.

Care is always very nice to everyone. Remember that if a person does not have a care in the family, he will receive it on the side. And then you have to make more effort to save the relationship. It is courtship and the response will confirm that your love is still alive.

We all change over time, but will survive if the love of these changes, or it will be stuck in the honeymoon depends on both of you. Love, respect, kindness and care should remain with you always, throughout life.

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