What is the error and how to survive

How often do we, women, are experiencing errors!


Both because of the large type "married a goat", and because of the small, like a "wanted to buy those red, Yes took these terrible blue".




And really professional mistakes that cost us such nerves that simply do not work at all than a couple of times to make a mistake!




Actually to live without errors impossible. If there were mistakes, there would be movement forward, as without them understand what is good and what is bad, what is needed and what is pointless?




Once at the beginning of his career, I, like all young professionals (or more than all), has made one mistake after another, so that it seemed all the dismissal with a lifetime "white" ticket.




It was then that one colleague approaching retirement age said to me: "why are you crying, do not mistake the one who does not work! If a lot of mistakes - so much work! "




In short, the error is the engine of progress, and that's the honest truth.




They, like the borders that define the boundaries of the correct path. Or, as the banks of the river, form the stream.




Therefore, our task is to learn how to use their mistakes.





The first principle "mistakes" is to recognize them.


Probably each of us has a couple of friends who will be prior to the last stand on his own, convincing themselves and others that everything is done correctly and usefully. Not because they think so - but because they are afraid of their mistakes.




Now: this is the most idiotic thing you can do with the error. It is necessary to admit - by the way, those who know how to do it, very appreciated by others.





The second principle "you know what signals your fault


If that you do not have enough knowledge, get them.




If that around you there's something wrong organised - make proposals for the reorganization and reach their implementation.




If that life took a wrong trail and off course, immediately drop everything and come back on the well-trodden flat road.





The third principle any error can give rise to a new opening


As Einstein used to say: "There are many people who know how. But there will always be some fool who does not know this. He will make the opening".




So think about it - your error may hold great potential!





The fourth principle - no need to worry


You have to analyze and correct. Tears will not help, it is still the Golden Cockerel comb spoke deceived Zainka: "Neche cry - come on, do it".




And it is worth to remember that there is a category of errors that can not be done, and if you did fix it immediately.




We are talking about parenting and health.




Because Hitler is someone pedagogical mistake that cost the world millions of lives. Here we must be very careful and always on the alert.




And who is lazy - let him not come down. And this is the main principle.

Source:

Belarusian women's portal

women's web magazine