What could be better than the mistakes of others?

Nothing inspires and gives confidence, as the mistakes of others. Moreover, if mistaken successful and famous, then our belief is infused with greater force. It becomes safer for the soul, when experienced, Mature people make mistakes almost empty.


And the conventional wisdom that the stimulus comes when we hear about the successes of others - this is false. The success of other often oppresses us, even more prejudice and without hurt feelings, plunges into depression and despair.




Very few are able to perceive the success of others with the same sincerity as most of us perceive other people's failures. We can applaud and wish all the best to the lucky ones, but still to share experiences and suffering easier, than to rejoice in others ' successes.




This is because the reaction to someone else's failure brings to us something very useful. A strange sad experience really helps us to accumulate some knowledge. Helps to really move forward, looking at stumbled neighbor, we are healthy and strong, not filled with gloomy thoughts above falling on us problems, become more attentive - looking feet, so as not to stumble.




Someone else's success does not have such power warning - it only pushes us to flee and not seeing the road to his dream... So long, all legs to break.




There are more serious reasons to learn from the mistakes of others than just knowing that sometimes the experts are wrong - it is a phenomenon of the human ability to always treat people better when they suffer.




Most of us don't want other people to suffer just so much easier to find a common language with those who are experiencing failure and loser, than with those who have written on his face success and complacency.




Certainly, those brand-new to the team, who hastened to say about how all the "chocolate" in their lives, will become "pale look" all the time and will be perceived, if not hostility, it is very suspicious and cool. But as well look men, expressing a firm handshake their solidarity and willingness to help. And as the beautiful women in their natural desire to regret all weak and helpless.




It's amazing - gossip and gossip bind us together and often unite the team. Gossip rarely relate to the descriptions of others ' successes and victories. Gossip is a history of failures and defeats.




With what pleasure and savoring discussing the mistakes of others! Thoroughly wash the stone" poor guy... that's really - "the mistakes of others to learn helpful and very pleasant." But talking, we are actually very carefully and thoroughly analyzed failures, failures, failures of other people, and then to draw conclusions for themselves, to plan the details of his future actions, cautiously hoping for the best.




"What filth that gossip," srivatsa some... But only in public. Biased "analysis of foreign flights" they still want to do, but to learn from the mistakes of others much more effectively. Their mistakes are difficult to learn something good. Your mistakes can only change yourself.

Source:

School of life

women's web magazine