Inveterate bachelor, is a capable man, hearing of the marriage and any other family matters at work from co-workers when they collect money for another wedding gift. He is able to prepare a salad and soup, and therefore considers himself self-sufficient. Bachelor equates girls to football, fishing, sports, not only to the words "responsibility", "duty" and "feelings".
For some "holostyachestvo" is a state of mind. He is a lone wolf. It is in itself. Its own life, its own living space, their plans, their own freedom... the List goes on to infinity.
Speaking of singles, they can be divided into
several conventional categories.
1. Men who have never been married (and this is not dependent on age), don't know what it is, and foaming at the mouth, argue that marriage is the worst thing that can happen in life. They stubbornly avoid more or less serious relationships. Maybe the reason for the disappointment lies in the past?
2. Men who were once "ringed". Marriage as something went wrong, and now they are afraid of family relations, like fire, pentaboranes or impotence. Such ex-spouse remains with certainty that it is not for him. Sometimes - until the end of life.
3. Male researchers, who examine whether there is life after the wedding, empirically. They marry, divorce, draw conclusions. Get married, get divorced, make conclusions. And so on to infinity according to the same scheme...
In our classification it is possible to add another category - sissy. Take all the worst from the already mentioned (fear of relationships, irresponsibility), make this Mother and get a man not afraid that marriage to go to visit to look that scary.
Even singles can be divided into the following two groups: natural and... not born.
The first are the so-called "singles from nature". They are really so self-sufficient that I didn't need a pair. Can, oddly enough, to marry, but still remain "free" in the soul and are appropriate to the needs of life: friends, beer, bath, sports, mistress and lightweight romantici.
Other singles through life are just because of its samoletostroenie when complexes and low self-esteem does not allow to be realized, and finding a companion to leave the state of loneliness. For them it is not already the source of desires and lifestyle.
However, it is impossible - and unnecessary - all modern Adams to scratch under one comb.
Anyway, regardless of the reasons worldview, bachelors is hardened egoists, "lone wolves", self, value most of all our freedom. Loneliness is normal for them. They are "looking for" the perfect woman, which would be a copy of them. The chosen one must love the same food, share his passion, to think how he. Therefore, even if the bachelor decides to create a family, he can't take any woman. Every time he thinks: "And to the woman I will spend all my life?! "
Loneliness is not terrible to him. The silence in the house, you can dilute your favorite discs, Breakfast communion with TV and sex... Here and say nothing.
In General, the inveterate bachelor, is the cement of their own interests, principles, love of their own freedom and... headache for the female half of humanity.
As well as, to tame this opercula male?
Guide for hunters on the bachelor
"The first rule of successful hunting obstinate and very timid target - caution. No sudden movements, like talk on the subject of children, marriage, love, responsibilities. Avoid unnecessary questions, and - God forbid - interrogation. For example, determine where and with whom he was. This stimuli that spudnut any game. The main thing is to respect the independence and sovereignty.
The result from the previous paragraph. Keep absolute composure and their freedom. Or at least make an appearance. The unobtrusive, independence plus a little indifference will weaken vigilance "victim" and inflame interest to you. Guided by a principle "I don't care where you've been. And I also was quite good. Try not to call first, he thinks that the initiative in his hands. Besides, the more we don't care, the more action man (how can you remain indifferent in His presence?! ).
Don't wait, sitting by the phone for His call. The same time can be spent more usefully: manicure done, go to the fitness club to meet friends and enjoy life.
- When will he call, we can be happy, happy to agree to a meeting. And to make sure that he remembered this meeting forever.
- By the way, don't forget: you must be Ideal. To understand it at a glance, to share all his Hobbies and opinions (not prevents to learn in advance), in any situation to be well-groomed, attractive, interesting and always different. Not to miss. It is very difficult, so think about whether this individual such efforts. If it is worth acting on.
- Here is our "lone wolf" tamed: eating with hands, calling himself admits into its territory, don't lose interest... we need to fix the result!
Become a
irreplaceable. With any level of independence men still need clean socks and delicious food. At first it can be difficult - the invasion of his space can cause a negative reaction. But it is difficult to know how? After some time, he'll never existed without you. Surround it with comfort, for which a bachelor forget hateful freedom... Enjoy, now it's yours!
By the way, you can learn to tame and classics. For example, "the taming of the shrew" with Celentano or "Love in the afternoon" with the incomparable Audrey Hepburn. "Eugene Onegin" at the end! All these works prove that to tame bachelor's really not that hard.
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