How to tell the child about bad habits? TV is evil, of course. Clearly I understood it, when the child started to "smoke" colored pencils and require juice in champagne flutes. Because adult uncles and aunts on TV did. And on the site of Anna's mother was a smoker and on the birthday grandmother's uncle and godfather appeared on the stairs Smoking... How wonderful my baby! In the sense that all notices.
In our family nobody smoke and do not drink alcohol, but we have relatives, friends, acquaintances, and smoke, and a glass or two of something alcoholic to drink can. Naturally, during a friendly get-togethers and meetings, the child sees all this. And trying to copy the behavior of adults. To explain in the spirit: "you can't do it, uncle (aunt) is bad," don't see the point. Uncles and aunts are very good, and the child is well aware, just everyone has their own way to relax, relieve stress.
So I had to explain to the child that Smoking cigarettes and drinking alcoholic beverages is acquired bad habits, and better not to start.
But if so many people do, so it's not so bad. Yes, mother?
Of course, there are far worse habits, but cigarettes and alcohol is also not good. Why do you think people smoke?
Because they are adults, they can.
But I, and dad adults, and we do not smoke.
- And why?
And because we have other important things to do. Aunts and uncles smoke when they have nothing to do when im bored, when very tired... See, cigarette consists of paper and leaves of plants. When people smoke he inhales the smoke from the burning of this plant. I remember when the wipers were burning leaves in the yard, you tried not to breathe, because it is tasteless smelled, and tried to pass the fire to the eyes from smoke not to weep?
Yes.
When a person smokes, he unsavory smells, and when inhaling the smoke, his body, too, if Lisitsa: nails and teeth turn yellow, light covered with bloom, and the stomach is compressed from tasteless smoke. But quitting Smoking is very difficult, so it is better not to start. And when suddenly bored and have nothing better to do - better to eat an Apple or play on the console.
- And drink - it's too bad?
"No, drinking is not harmful. A little beer or wine in a week, even useful, if you perceive it as a medicine for adults. But there are people who do not know how to enjoy a drink, and drink in order in my head came the fog. And then they through this fog look at the world, he seems different, more beautiful, or something... Then alcohol is not a drug, and a bad habit, because of this fog in my head man badly thinks, sees the bad, bad moves. But eventually he gets used to live in this state and can no longer even a single day without alcohol. Such people are called alcoholics, they are considered sick and trying by all means get rid of this fog in my head.
That is, Smoking is bad at all, and to drink wine and beer sometimes useful for health?
- Yes. But those people who don't drink, they are no worse than those who sometimes drink wine as a medicine. But the smoke is very harmful.
At the last family get-together, when smokers guests after the third glass rose from the table and went outside to smoke in the stairwell, after I heard from my baby:
- Are you so bored with us?
"No, what you got, kid?
"Mama said that smoke, those who are bored. And this bad habit. But to drink wine and beer only slightly, so that the fog is not formed.
And then everyone realized that the mother (I) educational conversations about bad habits with your child performs. Successfully, as you can see.
What? Everyone knows that Smoking is harmful. Do not give children a bad example or well masterbates, if unbearable.
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